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Bayathetha yincwadi eqokelela ubungqina obuvela kumadoda aye abandezeleka okanye axhaphaza amakhaya okanye naluphi na olunye uhlobo. Umsebenzi wabhalwa yintatheli, ingcali yamalungelo oluntu kunye nombhali waseMexico ophumelele ibhaso uLydia Cacho. Yapapashwa yindlu yokushicilela yaseGrijalbo kwi-2018. Emva kokukhululwa kwayo-kwaye kwenzekile ngamaxesha amaninzi kunye nezihloko zalo mbhali-yamkelwa ngomsindo omkhulu ngabagxeki nabafundi.
Ukusebenzisa Bayathetha, ULydia Cacho uvelisa ingxoxo yentlalo malunga nemvelaphi ye-machismo kunye nobundlobongela. Kodwa, ngeli xesha ngokwembono yamadoda, abantu ababephethwe kakubi ngelo xesha nabathi, ukususela ngoko, baqhele ukuziphatha ndlongondlongo kubafazi babo, abantwana nakwimekobume yabo ngokubanzi. Ngaba kukho indawo yokuqala yokutshintsha indlela yokucinga indima yamadoda?
Isishwankathelo se Bayathetha
Kwelinye icala lencoko
Bayathetha ijongana nomba wehlabathi: njani, kuluntu lwethu lwanamhlanje, oluzele bubugcisa nenkqubela phambili yenzululwazi, siphila kwihlabathi apho amazwi abanye anobunzima obungaphezulu kwawabanye. Kule meko, uLydia Cacho ithetha ngemekobume yamadoda edla ngokuwavala umlomo amabhinqa.
Nangona kunjalo, umbhali udala isicwangciso esinomdla sokuxhasa ingxoxo yakhe: uyayeka kwelinye icala lomsele aze abuze imibuzo yalabo badla, kwaye ngokwezibalo, benza ubugwenxa. Kuyamangalisa ukuba isicatshulwa esifuna ukuba nencoko malunga nokuphathwa kakubi kwabasetyhini siqhutywa ikakhulu ngamadoda, athetha ngokuthe ngqo ukuzama ukufumana ezo ngxolo zimnyama zibaqhubela ukuba benze ngeendlela ezithile.
Ingayiyo ukuba iindima bezinokuguqulwa, intetho ngeyayibaxa ngakumbi. Ekubeni amadoda bekuza kufuneka ahlale kwaye amamele ukuba bangaphi na kwabo bahlaselwe.
Machismo njengolwakhiwo lwentlalontle
Kuphando lwakhe, ULydia Cacho akakhangeli tyala, kodwa ukunika ilizwi isenzeko esenzekayo ukusukela oko ihlabathi layeka ukuba lelakudala ukwenza indlela yoluntu olukhulu: machismo. Ukuthetha ngendlela eqale ngayo okanye ngubani owenze kakhulu sele kubhentsisiwe kwabaninzi iincwadi zobufazi ngenxa ye Bayathetha, lo nto imbono kufuneka itshintshe ukuba kuya kufikelelwa kwimvumelwano esebenzayo.
Kulo mlo, i imbono yamadoda iye yaba: mhlawumbi icuthiwe okanye ibaxiwe. Ukwandisa i-panorama, uLydia Cacho ukhethe udliwano-ndlebe nothotho lwamadoda anobomi obungalinganiyo kakhulu. Ngoku, kukho inkalo ebaluleke kakhulu efanayo: bonke baye baxhatshazwa ngamanye amadoda kwimeko yamandla awongamileyo. Oku kuphathwa kakubi kwabakhokelela ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo, kodwa kwabaphawula ngonaphakade.
Ubume bomsebenzi
Bayathetha Yahlulwe yangamacandelo amathathu: eyokuqala ibalisa iziphumo ze machismo ngaphakathi kusapho. Eyesibini igxile kwi udliwano-ndlebe kunye nobungqina yawo onke amadoda athathe inxaxheba kuphando kwaye asebenze njengabanolwazi. Eyesithathu, iveza iinkcukacha-manani kunye nezigqibo ezinxulumene ne indima yomxhaphazi oyindoda ekubunjweni kwendoda exhatshaziweyo.
Kwakhona, umbhalo uqulethe imifanekiso ecacileyo ebonisa ukuxhatshazwa ngokwasengqondweni, ukuphathwa gadalala ngokwasemzimbeni kunye nokubulala. Ngokunjalo, kukho indlela ecacileyo yokuba amadoda anyanzelwa ukuba aphile kwezi meko kufuneka ajongane nemiphumo yoko.
Abanye babo bayasilela ukwaphula umkhwa wokuxhatshazwa, kwaye ubonise i-machismo enzulu. Abanye basuka nje benze ngokuvisisana noko bakufundileyo, yaye abanye abaqondi ukuba baphathwa kakubi.
Kutheni ukhetha umbono wendoda?
Emva kokukhululwa Bayathetha kwavela ingxaki enxulumene nokufunda okungaphezulu komsebenzi. Abafundi abanolwazi oluncinci baphikisa ukuba kwakungenakwenzeka ukubhala incwadi echaza i-machismo ngokwembono yamadoda., ekubeni aba ngokuqhelekileyo ingabo abenzi bobubi. Kulo mba, uLydia Cacho uthi umntwana oziva ekhuselekile kwaye emamelelwe akayi kuba ngumxhaphazi.
Ngale ndlela, kubalulekile ukwenza uhlengahlengiso kuqeqesho lwemveli lwamadoda. Kuphela kukuphela kwendlela yokuphathwa gadalala apho kunokwenzeka ukuba kupheliswe umxhaphazi. Abantu abaninzi babonakala beyilibala, kodwa ngokuqhelekileyo indoda exhaphazayo isiphumo somntu ombi ngakumbi kunowokuqala. Mhlawumbi owona myalezo ubalulekileyo we Bayathetha kukuba sonke sikwinkqubo enye yengcinezelo, abasetyhini kunye namadoda.
Malunga nombhali, ULydia Maria Cacho Ribeiro
ULydia Cacho
ULydia María Cacho Ribeiro wazalwa ngo-1963, kwisiXeko saseMexico. Xa wayeselula kakhulu, umbhali wayebandakanyeka kwimizabalazo yamalungelo oluntu, iimbono ezizuzwe njengelifa kumama wakhe, isazi ngesayikholojisti sabasetyhini. ULydia wayedla ngokuqubisana namaziko ahlukeneyo karhulumente ukuze afumane inkqubela exhasa imibutho ejoliswe ekukhuseleni abantwana nabasetyhini. Olo thando lwamkhokelela ekubeni afundele ubuntatheli, egxile kumalungelo oluntu.
Kwi 2004, umbhali wabandakanyeka kwihlazo emva kokupapasha incwadi yakhe iidemon zase-Eden. Esi sixhobo luphando olubonisa ubungqina babantu abanyanzeliswa ukuba babonelele ngeenkonzo zesondo kumalungu abaluleke kakhulu kwikhabhinethi karhulumente, ngaphezu kwezinye iziphumo ezivela eMexico nakwamanye amazwe. Ukukhululwa kwesihloko kubangele ukuba uCacho ashiye idolophu yakhe iinyanga ezininzi.
ULydia Cacho wayelixhoba lokuxhwilwa. Lo msitho wawuxhaswe ngabantu abafanayo awayebatyhola ngokurhweba ngesondo kwincwadi yakhe.. Ekugqibeleni, amagunya afanelekileyo akwazi ukubonisa ukuba iinyani eziphakanyisiweyo kuphando ziyinyani, kwaye umntu oyintloko onoxanduva watshintshelwa entolongweni e-Arizona. Ukuza kuthi ga namhlanje, uLydia usaqhubeka nokuphanda nokusebenzisana namaziko azinikele kumalungelo oluntu.
Ezinye iincwadi zikaLydia Cacho
- Luma intliziyo, luma intliziyo (2003);
- iidemon zase-Eden (2004);
- Lo mlomo ngowam ... kwaye ngowakho kwakhona (2007);
- Iinkumbulo zegama elibi (2008);
- Ndikunye nentombi yam @ NO (2009);
- Amakhoboka amagunya: ukuthengisa ngesondo (2012);
- Ukuthula kokwethu, uBugcisa baseMexico kunye nehlabathi (2013);
- I-Slavery Inc, i-Soft Skull Press (2014);
- Ukwabelana ngesondo kunye nothando ngamaxesha obunzima (2014);
- Ukhangela uKayla (2015);
- Infamy, Soft Skull Press (2016);
- Ingqumbo yaseMexico (2016);
- Iintlungu zaseMexico, iMaclehose Press (2017);
- I-Cyberspies kuHlangulo: Ukukhangela uSam (2017);
- Iileta zothando kunye nemvukelo (2022);
- abavukeli nabakhululekileyo (2023).