Inkulumo kaRafael Santandreu
Uma umsebenzisi we-inthanethi ecela i-Google umbuzo othi “Rafael Santandreu books”, imiphumela eminingi ikhomba Ubuciko bokungathukuthelisi impilo (2013). Nakuba isihloko esishiwo ngenhla senza isiCatalan saziwe ezingeni lokuhlela, isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo esaziwayo sesishicilele ngempumelelo eminye imibhalo eyisikhombisa. Wonke ahlukaniswa phakathi kwesigaba sokuzisiza.
Ngakho-ke, ayimiqulu enesandiso samakhasi angaphansi kwama-300 futhi abhalwe ngamagama alula ukuwaqonda. Futhi, Izincwadi zikaSantandreu zidalula isisekelo esiqinile sesayensi, osekumenze wadunyiswa ochwepheshe bezengqondo abambalwa abadumile emhlabeni wonke. Phakathi kwabo, uRamiro Calle, u-Alicia Escaño Hidalgo noWalter Riso.
Izincwadi zikaRafael Santandreu (ngamazwi ombhali wazo)
Izibuyekezo ezilandelayo ziqukethe okuvelayo ka-Santandreu okuvezwe ezingxoxweni ezinikezwe abezindaba ezifana La Vanguardia, Yazi isikwele o Imizuzu engama-20, phakathi kwabanye.
Ubuciko bokungathukuthelisi impilo (2013)
Ngokusho kwesazi sokusebenza kwengqondo saseCatalan, kunamagama athile nezinkolelo ezingasile ezigxile ezingqondweni zabaningi baseSpain. Eyokuqala yale micabango ukuthambekela kwabantu kokudinga umuntu ozopha futhi amukele uthando. Ngakho-ke, uma umuntu engakwazi "ukugcina omunye eceleni kwakhe", uthathwa njengomuntu onempilo yansuku zonke empunga.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, umbhali ukusho kaningi lokho inhloso yalesi sihloko ukunikeza indlela yoshintsho kanye nokwenza ngcono komuntu siqu. Okusho ukuthi, isisekelo esiyisisekelo sanoma yimuphi umbhalo wokuzisiza. Kodwa yini eyenza le ncwadi ikhetheke kangaka? Mayelana nalokhu, okuyigugu kakhulu kuka-Santandreu ukusekelwa kwesayensi: izifundo zezemfundo ezingaphezu kwezinkulungwane ezimbili nezinkulungwane zobufakazi obukhishwe embuzweni wakhe.
Ubandlululo (okufanele wonke umuntu alunqobe) oluchazwe kulo Ubuciko bokungathukuthelisi impilo
- Uma umuntu eyedwa, ungumuntu onozwelo futhi, mhlawumbe, onomoya ongabekezeleleki;
- Ukungathembeki ngokwemizwa kuyisenzakalo esingenakwenzeka ukusinqoba, kuwukuhlukumezeka okudla umphefumulo;
- Noma yimuphi umuntu omdala ongakwazi ukuzenzela ikhaya uyisahluleki esiziphilisa ngaso sincike kwabanye;
- Inani lempahla (impahla, amathuba, abangani, iziqu zemfundo…) lilingana ngqo nempumelelo yomuntu.
isikole senjabulo (2014)
Umbhalo uhlanganisa izincomo ezikhishwe yilabo aba - ngokuka-Santandreu- Bangochwepheshe bezengqondo abaqeqeshwe kakhulu abayishumi emhlabeni. Lezi zakhiwo ziyahambisana nokukhathazeka okuningi okuvezwe iziguli zehhovisi likadokotela wezengqondo. Ngale ndlela, wathola "umuzwa omubi wansuku zonke" kwabaningi babo: ukucindezeleka nokukhathazeka.
Ngalesi sizathu, U-Santandreu uchaza ukuthi "ukudlidliza kwansuku zonke" ukugula okwandayo. Kusukela kumuntu oyedwa kwabayishumi abathintwe ukudangala ngeminyaka yawo-1990, izibalo zibonakalisa ukwanda kwabantu abane kwabayishumi namuhla. Njengoba kunikezwe lokhu kwanda, umlobi waseSpain unikeza izincazelo eziningana; phakathi kwabo:
- Izifo ezingokomzwelo zibangelwa ukushintsha kwezindinganiso zokukhiqiza kusukela kulezo zendabuko kuya kulezo ezigxile kakhulu ekusetshenzisweni;
- Umphumela wokuguqulwa kwamanani okukhulunywe ngawo ngenhla imiqondo emibili: isidingo y i-terribilitis;
- La isidingo akubandakanyi nje i-pathology yezinto ezibonakalayo, kodwa futhi kuhlanganisa nezidingo ezingokwengqondo ezibangelwa ukuthambekela komphakathi okucindezelayo, esekelwe esifisweni sokuzibonakalisa ungumuntu ophumelelayo;
- La i-terribilitis ukuthambekela koku thatha zonke izindaba ezingezinhle sengathi ukuphela komhlaba.
Izincomo zika-Santandreu "zokufunda injabulo"
- Ukuziqeqesha ngezincwadi zefilosofi kanye zungeza abantu “abanekhanda elihlotshiswe kahle”, ezolile futhi ejabule;
- ukuzimisela ukushintsha indlela yokubona umhlaba;
- Thatha izinyathelo zokuphepha ngaphandle kokwesaba;
- Akekho umuntu osemdala kakhulu ukuthi angashintsha.
Izibuko zenjabulo (2015)
URafael Santandreu ichaza injabulo kule ncwadi ngokuthi un isimo lapho umuntu ekwazi ukunikeza ngokukhululekile imizwa yakhe eyakhayo. Ngokufanayo, lowo muntu uyazi imizwa yakhe engemihle, kodwa, naphezu kokuyamukela ngokugcwele, uhlangabezana nayo kafushane. Ngenxa yalokho, umuntu unokuzethemba okukhulu futhi akanawo amagqubu ngomhlaba.
Ngakho-ke, kungenzeka ukwazisa izinto ezilula - ingilazi yewayini, ukuhamba noma umbala wesibhakabhaka, isibonelo - futhi ubone ithuba ngomzuzu ngamunye. Konke lokhu ingxenye inqubo yokuqinisa imizwa isisekelo sayo siwukwazisa lokho onakho futhi ungakhonondi ngezinto ongenazo noma ongasebenzi. Ukwengeza, isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo saseCatalan siphakamisa igama elisha: i ngokwanele.
Yini ngokwanele?
Ngokuyisisekelo, imayelana nokwazisa, ukucacisa kanye nokwaneliseka ngalezo zinto ezibonakalayo nezingaphatheki onazo. Nakuba, kubalulekile ukuhlukanisa lo mqondo ekuzivumelaniseni nokungabi nathemba, isici sabantu abangenayo imigomo namaphupho. Ngakho-ke, le bhalansi yenza kube nokwenzeka ukujabulela indlela yokufeza umgomo, ngaphandle kokwesaba noma ukucindezela okungenangqondo.
Biography of Rafael Santandreu
URafael Santandreu
U-Rafael Santandreu Lorite wazalelwa e-Horta, e-Barcelona, ngo-December 8, 1969. E-Barcelona, ufunde i-Psychology e-Public University of Barcelona ngaphambi kokudlulela e-University of Reading, e-England. Kamuva, i-Iberian encane waphothula ukuqeqeshwa kwakhe e-Postgraduate School of Brief Strategic Psychotherapy e-Arezzo, e-Italy, eqondiswa isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo esidumile uGiorgio Nardone.
U-Santandreu wasebenza insimu yaseTuscan noNardone e-Centro di Asistencia Strategica. Khona-ke uCNgokungena kwenkulungwane entsha yeminyaka wabuyela ezweni lakubo ukufundisa eRamón Llull University. Ngokuhambisanayo, isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo engadini saqala ukuhumusha imibhalo yezengqondo eqondiswe ekuthuthukisweni kochwepheshe kanye nobudlelwano babasebenzi.
Ingqondo enempilo neziqalo ekubhaleni
Ukukhishwa kokuqala kuka-Santandreu kwaqondana neminyaka yakhe yokuba umhleli oyinhloko wephephabhuku. Ingqondo enempilo, kanye nodokotela nomlobi wase-Argentina uJorge Bucay. Ngale ndlela, kwavela Ubuciko bokungathukuthelisi impilo (2013), isici sokuqala esihlonishwayo yisazi sokusebenza kwengqondo sase-Spain. Ngonyaka olandelayo, wagcina ibha iphezulu nenye incwadi eyamukelwa kahle, isikole senjabulo.
Ezinye izincwadi zikaRafael Santandreu
- Izihluthulelo zoshintsho olungokwengqondo kanye noshintsho lomuntu siqu (2014);
- Jabula e-Alaska. Izingqondo eziqinile ngokumelene nazo zonke izinkinga (2017);
- Ngaphandle kokwesaba (2021).
Eminye imishwana kaRafael Santandreu
“Umnikazi wengqondo yakho nguwe. Uma uzihlinzeka kahle kakhulu ukuze "ungazethusi", uzokwazi ukubona imiqondo yabanye eceleni futhi ngeke kukuthinte".
"Amandla okuthokozela makhulu kunamandla esibopho."
"Induduzo ayilethi injabulo futhi abantu bacabanga ukuthi iyakwenza."