Ubuciko bokungathukuthelisi impilo

Inkulumo kaRafael Santandreu

Ngokusho kombhali wayo, isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo saseCatalan uRafael Santandreu, Ubuciko bokungathukuthelisi impilo (2013) "akuyona nje enye incwadi yokuzisiza". Nakuba, lo mbhalo unezici eziningi ezihlukene zemisebenzi yalolu hlobo. Ngamanye amazwi, iyincwadi eyingqayizivele—ayiyona ingxenye yochungechunge—inobude obufushane (amakhasi angu-240) futhi enolimi oluqondakala kalula.

Ngokunjalo isihloko siyasikisela mayelana nohlobo lomfundi esiqondiswe kulo kanye nolwazi olubalulekile ehlose ukulisabalalisa. Noma kunjalo, izazi zokusebenza kwengqondo ezahlukene kanye ochwepheshe ekwelapheni ngokomzwelo okwaziwayo emhlabeni wonke—njengoWalter Riso, u-Alicia Escaño Hidalgo noma uRamiro Calle, phakathi kwabanye— batusa le ncwadi ngenxa yesisekelo sayo esibanzi sesayensi.

Ukuhlaziywa nokufingqwa kwe- Ubuciko bokungathukuthelisi impilo

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Ubuciko bokungathukuthelisi impilo ingxenye yezinkolelo eziyishumi ezingenangqondo ukuthi Ngokusho kukaSantandreu zigxile ngokujulile ku-psyche kweSpanishi:

• Isidingo ube nomuntu ovela kuye thola uthando, ngoba, ngaphandle kwalokho, kuwukuphila okudabukisayo;
• Kubaluleke kakhulu ungumnikazi wefulethi ukuze ungabi "ukwehluleka ukulamba";
• Uma umlingani noma umlingani imizwa ayithembekile, akunakwenzeka ukuqhubeka nalobo buhlobo, ngoba lolo hlobo lokukhaphela luyisenzakalo esisabekayo esigqwala ngaphakathi;
• Inqubekelaphambili incike enanini lezinto (izinto ezibonakalayo, ubuhlakani, amathuba) ukuthi umuntu uyakwazi ukuqongelela;
• Isizungu isimo okufanele sisigweme ngoba abantu abangenaye omaqondana bathathwa njengabadabukisayo.

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URafael Santandreu ukushilo ezingxoxweni eziningi ukuthi indlela yokushintshisana echazwe kweyakho incwadi yokuzisiza isekelwa izifundo ezingaphezu kwezinkulungwane ezimbili. Ngakho-ke, le ndlela inesisekelo esiqinile sesayensi. Ukwengeza, isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo sase-Iberia sithembele ebufakazini babasebenzisi bebhulogi yakhe ukuze siqinisekise ukusebenza kahle kwendlela yakhe.

NgokukaSantandreu, incwadi ethi “ihlose ukuba yithuluzi labo bonke abangakwazi ukukhokhela isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo esihle nabafuna ukuwenza bodwa umsebenzi. Ngokufanayo, isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo sigcizelela inkhulumomphendvulwano yangaphakathi yomuntu ngamunye njengomsebenzi obalulekile obalulekile wokufeza uguquko lomuntu siqu.

Indlela yobuBuddha?

Umbono wengxoxo yangaphakathi eshiwo uchwepheshe waseCatalan unomphumela wokuqhakambisa inhlanhla noma amashwa enzeke empilweni yomuntu. Bese, imicabango yomuntu ocindezelekile noma ethambekele ekukhathazekeni iyimbangela yezinkinga zabo (ngenxa yemibono eyavela ngaye).

Kulungile manje U-Santandreu ugcizelela ukuthi lesi simo sokungathembeki noma esibi singanqotshwa ngokufunda okuqalisa ukucushwa kwengqondo entsha. Ngamanye amazwi, kungenzeka "ukufundisa ukushintsha". Kuwuhlobo lwezinhlelo ezinengqondo nezithinta imizwa inhloso yalo enkulu iwukubhekana nobunzima ngesimo sengqondo esilungele kakhudlwana.

Isifo "terribillitis"

Isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo saseBarcelona ichaza "terribillitis" ngokuthi "ukuthambekela kokuchaza njengezinto ezimbi ezingekho”. Esinye sezibonelo yisimo sokungasebenzi somuntu, okuyinto, ngokubona kwakhe, enokucatshangelwa okufanele njengokuthi "kubi". Kodwa, kuye, ukuntuleka kokusekelwa komsebenzi ozinzile "akuyona inhlekelele ephelele" futhi, ngisho, abantu bavame ukukhathazeka lapho benomsebenzi futhi besaba ukulahlekelwa yiwo.

Umehluko usekumukeleni okuphambene ngaphandle kwehaba. Ngokuhambisana, imicabango yokuzikhukhumeza noma ukuhlupheka (akudingekile) ngesehlo esingakenzeki azisho lutho. Eqinisweni, ukuzihlambalaza okungakhethi (okuzithobayo) kuguqula isenzakalo esingafuneki sibe into engabekezeleleki. Lesi sakamuva siyindawo ekahle yokuzalela ukuvela kokuphazamiseka kwemizwelo.

Isixazululo esisebenzayo

Inkulumo kaRafael Santandreu

Ekugcineni, ngaphambi kwesimo ngasinye esingesihle umuntu kufanele anqume ukuthi ubhekene naso yini ngesimo sengqondo esihle (eqinile) noma uma ekhononda ngakho (ebuthakathaka). Mayelana nalokhu, i-Santandreu ibhekisela ophenyweni oluhlukahlukene olubonisa ukubaluleka kombono omuhle "oqondwa kahle", lapho izixazululo zihlongozwa ngaphakathi kohlaka olunokwenzeka.

Ngenxa yalokho, isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo saseSpain sigqamisa ukubaluleka kokuqinisa imizwa yomuntu njengengxenye eyinhloko yokuhumusha iqiniso ngokunengqondo. Ngale ndlela, ingqondo ihlelelwe ukuthi icubungule umcimbi ngamunye ngendlela efanele ngangokunokwenzeka, ngaphandle kokuwela ekubandlululeni kwangaphakathi (kuwena) kanye/noma kwangaphandle (ngabanye).

Yini ngempela edingekayo?

U-Santandreu ugcizelela ukuthi—ngokusekelwe emibhalweni eyenziwe kanye nokuhlaziywa kombuzo wakhe—ukuthi abantu bavame ukukhomba izinto eziningi ezingabalulekile njengoba kudingekile ukuze baphile. Impela, izinto ezibalulekile ngempela kumuntu ukudla namanzi, ezinye izidingo zimelela, ngokwezinga elithile, ugibe.

Ngakho-ke, ukusetshenziswa komqondo onengqondo lapho kubhekene namashwa angenakugwenywa okuphila kuholela ekubekeni eceleni ubandlululo nokukhathazeka okubangela ukukhathazeka nokuhlukumezeka. Ekugcineni, umuntu unamathuba amakhulu (afakazelwe ngokwesayensi) okucacisa izixazululo zenkinga uma ekwazi ukulawula imizwa yakhe engemihle.

Mayelana nombhali, u-Rafael Santandreu

URafael SantandreuURafael Santandreu Lorite Wazalelwa e-Barcelona ngoDisemba 8, 1969. Uqede ingxenye yokuqala yezifundo zakhe zokusebenza kwengqondo eNyuvesi yaseBarcelona. Kamuva, Uphothule iziqu zakhe ze-Psychotherapy ngaphansi kokuqeqeshwa kukaSolwazi Giorgio Nardone. Waziwa ngenxa yokudalula kwakhe okuhlobene ne-psychology kumagazini Ingqondo enempilo (lapho ayengumhleli oyinhloko)

Futhi, ube yisivakashi esivamile ezinhlelweni zethelevishini zomphakathi eSpain ezihlobene nalesi sihloko. Ngo-2013, wenza i-debut yakhe yokuhlela no Ubuciko bokungathukuthelisi impilo. Njengamanje, u-Santandreu unomtholampilo egameni lakhe le-psychology yasemtholampilo edolobheni lakubo. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ufundisa eRamón Llull University naseBarcelona College of Physicians.

Amabhuku

Imibhalo yesazi sokusebenza kwengqondo saseBarcelona ibonakala ngokusetshenziswa kolimi olulula, egcwele ama-anecdotes namanye ama-neologisms avela ekuhlakanipheni kwakhe. Lezi zindlela ezintsha zezwi lobuchwepheshe ("terribilitis", "necesititis") zisetshenziswa ngesilinganiso sazo esifanele ngenhloso yokuheha umongo omnandi wokuzindla. Nalu uhlu lwezincwadi zakhe ezishicilelwe:

• Ubuciko bokungathukuthelisi impilo (2013);
• isikole senjabulo (2014);
• Izihluthulelo zoshintsho olungokwengqondo kanye noshintsho lomuntu siqu (2014);
• Izibuko zenjabulo (2015);
• Jabula e-Alaska. Izingqondo eziqinile ngokumelene nazo zonke izinkinga (2017);
• Ngaphandle kokwesaba (2021).