uyindawo yakho ekhuselekileyo yincwadi yesine yokuzinceda kunye nokuziphucula ebhalwe yingcali yengqondo, isazi sesayensi kunye nombhali waseSpain uMaría Esclapez. Umsebenzi wapapashwa yindlu yokushicilela yaseBruguera ngo-2023. Ngaphandle kwezihloko zorhwebo ezenziwe yi-gurus okanye abantu abakhanyisiweyo, iingcali zempilo yengqondo zinike umsebenzi oyimfuneko wokubhala abantu benyama negazi.
Yiyo loo nto ixhaphake kakhulu ukufumana iincwadi ezibhalwe ziingcali zengqondo kwiishelufa zeencwadi ezithengisa iincwadi, kuba umntu kufuneka axelele abantu ukuba kuyenzeka, kodwa hayi yonke into; ukuba kuyimfuneko ukufuna uxolo, kodwa kungekhona ngamaxesha onke; ukuba, ukuba usebenza nzima ngokwaneleyo, kunokwenzeka ukuba ufezekise izinto ezininzi ezilungileyo, kodwa hayi yonke into oyifunayo, ukuba akukho Wand magic ukuphelisa traumas, phakathi kwezinye izinto.
Isishwankathelo se uyindawo yakho ekhuselekileyo
Umda wokhuseleko lweemvakalelo
kumaphepha e uyindawo yakho ekhuselekileyo, uMaria Esclapez iphakamisa izixhobo ezithile ezisebenzayo ukuze umfundi akwazi ukuseka ubudlelwane obunempilo kunye naye. I-priori, iyavakala, kuba ngabanye sikuphela komntu oya kuhlala enathi. Ngoko ke, kungcono ukuba sifunde ukuziphatha ngentlonipho, ngaphandle kokuzigweba.
Kwithiyori, Yingcamango efana kakhulu naleyo isetyenziswa nguElizabeth Clapés kwi Thandeka: funeka sithethe. Umahluko omkhulu phakathi kwezi zibhalo zimbini kukuba incwadi kaClapés igxile kakhulu ekubeni nencoko enzulu nabafundi bakhe, esoloko ethetha nabo ekwindawo ekhululekileyo.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, Umsebenzi kaEsclapez yimathiriyeli ye uncedo onjongo ikukuvavanya umfundi. Oku, ngenxa yokuba, ukongeza kwimiba yethiyori, inika amanyathelo okulandela malunga neembono zayo ezininzi. Aba bamva baxhaswa luphando lombhali kunye neeseshoni zakhe zonyango.
Iinkqubo eziphambili ezicetywe nguMaría Esclapez
Umkhuba wokuzazi
Iingcali zefilosofi ezinkulu, iingcingane kunye neengcali zengqondo ziye zathetha ngaphambili malunga nokuzazi. Kungokwemvelo ukufuna ukukhangela nzulu kule nto, kuba ngenxa yesi sixhobo kunokwenzeka ukuchonga ukuba yeyiphi loo mandla angaphakathi kunye nobuthathaka kunye nendlela yokuphucula.
Ukusetyenziswa kweziqinisekiso ezilungileyo
Le yenye indawo eqhelekileyo ngokubhekiselele ekuziphuculeni. Le asiyoncwadi yokuqala engqina ukuba ukucinga kakuhle okanye ukucinga kakuhle kunemiphumo eyingenelo kwimo kunye nendlela yokuphila. Kulo mba, umbhali ucebisa umfundi ukuba aphinde amabinzana e-positivist ukwandisa amandla abo.
Ukucamngca kunye nokuphumla
Enye ingongoma efana nezinye iincwadi kukuchazwa kwethiyori yokucamngca kunye nemithambo yokuphumla. Ezi ziyilelwe ukuba umfundi enze indlela yakhe ngaphakathi, kwaye anokwakha ihlabathi lakhe ngengqondo enkulu.
Umkhuba wokubulela
Una vez más, akukho nto intsha kule mfundiso. Lo msebenzi uquka ukucinga ngezinto ezilungileyo ebomini kunye nokubulela ngamnye kubo, ukuze kuveliswe imvakalelo yokuthuthuzela kunye nokuphila kakuhle.
Umbono wokudala
Uninzi lwabantu luthanda ukuba nomfanekiso-ngqondweni weemeko ezimbi kudala ngaphambi kokuba ezi meko zenzeke. Ngamanye amaxesha le mimandla yentelekelelo ayinakwenzeka, idala imvakalelo yoxinzelelo. UMariya I-Esclapez ibongoza abafundi bayo ukuba benze okwahlukileyo. Oko kukuthi: khawucinge ngeemeko ezintle kwaye ucinge ngazo ngokungathi sele zisenzeka.
Lo msebenzi kufuneka ube nenjongo yokutyhila iminqweno efihliweyo ekujuleni kwengqondo. Kwelinye icala, Umbhali ukwachaza ukuba ukubonwa kuyasebenza ekwakheni ukuzithemba, kwaye ivelise iihomoni ezinxulumene nolonwabo.
Ulwakhiwo lwe uyindawo yakho ekhuselekileyo
Ukuba yincwadi yokufunda, uMaría Esclapez ubonisa isakhiwo esicacileyo. Izihloko ekuthethwa ngazo kulo msebenzi zicwangciswe ngolu hlobo.
Intshayelelo
Eli licandelo elifutshane, apho uMaría Esclapez abonisa indlela yakhe malunga nokuba kubaluleke kangakanani ukuba abantu baqale ukuziva bezithembile ngeziqu zabo ukuseka ubudlelwane obunempilo.
Isahluko 1: "Imfuno yendawo ekhuselekileyo"
Kamva, umbhali uchaza ukubaluleka kokudala indawo yangaphakathi ekhuselekileyo. Ngokutsho kwesazi sengqondo, le ndawo iya kuvumela ulawulo olungcono lwemiqobo evela imihla ngemihla.
Isahluko 2: "Iibhloko endleleni"
Kweli candelo, uMaría Esclapez ithetha ngaloo mida inokuthintela abantu ekufikeni kwindawo ekhuselekileyo engaphakathi. Ezi bloko zinokubakho ngenxa yokoyika ukungaphumeleli okanye ukuzifuna ngokugqithisileyo.
Isahluko 3: "Indlela yangaphakathi"
Kukweli candelo apho umbhali eqala ukubonelela ngezixhobo ezikhankanywe ngasentla. Ngaba Zenzelwe ukuba zibe yimithambo yomfundi ukwakha amandla abo ngokweemvakalelo kwaye ubeke izicwangciso zendawo yakho ekhuselekileyo kuphuhliso.
Isahluko 4: "Ubudlelwane bomntu"
Ebudeni bamaphepha esi sahluko, uMaría Esclapez ichaza indlela ubudlelwane phakathi kwabantu ekuchaphazela ngayo ukuqiniswa kwendawo ekhuselekileyo. Ngendlela efanayo, ityhila indlela ekunokwenzeka ngayo ukuseka imida ukuze kwakhiwe ubudlelwane obunempilo nobanesondlo kunye nokusingqongileyo.
Isahluko 5: "Indima yengqondo"
Kweli candelo, isazi sengqondo siphawula ngokubaluleka kokuhlakulela isimo sengqondo esifanelekileyo ukuze kugcinwe ukuzinza kunye nokuvisisana kwendawo ekhuselekileyo.
Isahluko 6: "Ukudibanisa indawo ekhuselekileyo kubomi bemihla ngemihla"
UMaria Esclapez uphakamisa uluhlu lwezicwangciso zokukhupha indawo ekhuselekileyo yangaphakathi kwindiza yobomi bokwenyani.
Isiphelo
Ekugqibeleni, umbhali inika isishwankathelo seengongoma eziphambili zale ncwadi. Kwangaxeshanye, ikhuthaza abafundi ukuba basebenze nzima ekwakheni indawo yabo yangaphakathi ekhuselekileyo.
Malunga nombhali, uMaría Esclapez Cartagena
UMaría Esclapez Cartagena wazalwa ngo-1990, e-Elche, e-Alicante, eSpeyin. Wafunda kwiFaculty of Psychology kwiYunivesithi yaseMiguel Hernández., indlu yemfundo ephakamileyo e-Elche. Emva koko, wafumana okukhethekileyo kunyango lwezibini kunye ne-sexology kwiziko le-ISEP.
UMaria Esclapez Uyaziwa ngokusebenzisana namajelo eendaba, njenge Cosmopolitan, El País, RTVE y Imidiya. Kuzo, ngokuqhelekileyo uthetha ngokuzithemba okanye impilo yesondo.
Ezinye iincwadi zikaMaría Esclapez
- ubukrelekrele ngokwesondo (2017);
- thanda isini sakho (2020);
- Ndiyakuthanda, ndiyakuthanda (2022).