La ngamanyathelo ama-5 endisabelana ngayo xa uphonononga le noveli ikhoyo kwaye ifuna ukuphononongwa. Kuba sele iminyaka emininzi ndizinikele ekuvavanyeni iimpazamo, ngokukodwa ezoncwadi, umsebenzi osafihlakele ngandlel’ ithile nabangaquki bonke abavakalisi, ngokukodwa abo bandilisekileyo. Ngaphezu koko, abanye bayithatha njengento eqhelekileyo ukuba oku kuxhomekeke kumbhali, okanye banemigangatho esemgangathweni enokuthi ililahle ibali elimnandi nje ukuba babone ukupelwa kakubi kwiphepha lokuqala.
Ngoko ke, xa umbhali efuna ukupapasha okanye ukuzipapasha ngokwakhe, ukuba ufuna ngokwenene ukwenza kakuhle kwaye unikezele ngelo bali elilungileyo okholelwa kulo kwaye eliye lakubiza kakhulu, kufuneka ukhathazeke ukuba linesimo esihle kunye nokubhala. kuba sonke siyayazi loo nto Enye into ukubhala kakuhle kwaye enye ukubhala ngokuchanekileyo..
Ngamanye amaxesha bandibuza ukuba wenzeni xa ugqibile ukubhalaInde okanye imfutshane, ayinamsebenzi. Kwaye okufanayo kuya nakweyiphi na itekisi yayo nayiphi na ubude kuba bonke bayayidinga inkqubo yabo. Ke, ekubeni nam ndibhala kwaye ndipapashile, ndingazifaka kuzo zombini izikhumba. Ngoko ke, oko kuthethiweyo, bayahamba abo Amanyathelo asi-5 enokulandelwa, nangona oko kungathethi ukuba kongezwa ezinye okanye ezinye ziyasuswa. Njengoko ndithetha, yonke into isekelwe kwiimfuno kunye neminqweno yombhali.
1. PHUMULA
vumela isicatshulwa sakho siphumle
Eso siphelo sijongeka njengesiphelo, ewe, kodwa asikho. Iiyure ezininzi, mhlawumbi iminyaka, yokubhala ukufumana elo bali limnandi. Ngesivumelwano. Ewe, ngoku makaphumle kancinci kuba kufuneka avuthwe. Zingaphi? Kunzima ukucacisa kwaye kuxhomekeke ekwandisweni kwayo okanye izicwangciso onazo kuyo. Kodwa yinike ixesha. Kakade ke, ukuba ungumntu othanda izinto ngokugqibeleleyo, usenokungaze waneliseke. Kuya kufuneka kwakhona uyithathele ingqalelo loo nto kwaye uzame ukumisela umda, umhla wokugqibela: ukuya kuthi ga apha. Ukuba akunjalo, kunokwenzeka ukuba yonke into ihlale imile kwaye ezinye izinto ezinjengokudimazeka, ukungakhathali okanye ukungazithembi kuvela. Kuya kufuneka ugxothe "andisoze ndigqibe" kuba "ewe ndiza kugqiba kwaye kuya kubonakala kukuhle nakum".
2. FUNDA FUTHI
yenza enye ubuncinane
Wena kunye nomntu omthembileyo nabani na ofuna ukudlulisa isicatshulwa kuye ukuze afumane uluvo lokuqala. Isenokuba a umfundi we-beta, engaziwa okanye yobungcali, ukujonga kude kwinto amehlo akho ayibonayo kakhulu.
Kweli nqanaba lokufunda kwakhona, kwaye ukuba uyafuna, ungasebenzisa isilungisi esizenzekelayo njengale sikuyo igama, kodwa nge nya mekela. Kwanele myyopic kwaye, nangona ifumana ii-typos kunye nezinye izinto, ayahluli uninzi losetyenziso lwegrama okanye lwesivakalisi. Phinda ufunde ngenyameko. Uya kuqonda ngcono kunaye nabani na into engekhoyo okanye engavakali kakuhle kuwe.
3. AMATHANDABUZO
Thetha nabo bonke onayo okanye uphakame
Ngelixa ufunda kwakhona okanye ubhala. Nazi iindawo ezininzi ukuyenza: kwi-net, kwi iincwadi ezibhaliweyo, kwizichazi-magama… Kodwa yenze. Kananjalo uya kufunda kwaye upolishe isitayile. Emva koko unganqikazi kwaye ...
4. FUMANA UMLUNGISI
kuba simbalwa
Kwaye wonke umntu ukulungele ukuphonononga, ukulungisa nokuphucula naluphi na uhlobo lwesicatshulwa. Emva koko nguwe ohlala uneGAMA LOKUGQIBELA, kuba asisichasi, kodwa sisebenzisana nesizathu esiqhelekileyo.
Kukwabalulekile ukuba ucinge malunga nokuba zeziphi izilungiso (upelo nesimbo) usenokucinga ukuba uyafuna. Ukuba awuyazi ukuba yintoni enye okanye enye iqulethe, siya kukucacisela, kwaye ungasithumelela isampuli ukuze sikunike impendulo esulungekileyo.
Kwakhona, jonga kwiiprofayili zethu iingcali, ukuba ngokuqinisekileyo sinabo kwiwebhu okanye kwiintanethi zentlalo. Kuzo uya kubona uqeqesho kunye nekharityhulam. Ungaphinda uqhagamshelane kwaye ubuze zonke iinkcukacha zendlela esisebenza ngayo.
5. HLALUTYA ISILUNGISO
Funda kwaye uphucule kwakhona
Ngenxa yokuba unako. Kufuneka nje ujonge izilungiso, uxubushe ngazo ngaxeshanye okanye kwenye ukuba mhlawumbi akuvumi. Siya kuhlala sikunika izizathu ngeenjongo ezilungileyo ukuba isicatshulwa sakho kwaye sesona singcono kakhulu. Kananjalo khumbula ukuba akukho mntu ungaphosisiyo, ingenguwe okanye thina.
Ke, yiza, kukwenza isigqibo kuphela. Yonke into yokwenza inoveli yakho iphumelele, kulowo uyifunayo.
Ulwimi lwakho lunyanisekile kwaye neenjongo zakho zinyanisekile. Ngaba iindleko ziya kuba ngaphezulu kakhulu? Enkosi kakhulu.