uyindawo yakho ephephile
uyindawo yakho ephephile iyincwadi yesine yokuzisiza nokuzithuthukisa ebhalwe isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo saseSpain, umsabalalisi wesayensi kanye nomlobi uMaría Esclapez. Umsebenzi washicilelwa yi-Bruguera publishing house ngo-2023. Ngaphandle kwezihloko zezentengiso ezidalwe ama-gurus noma abantu abakhanyiselwe, ochwepheshe bezempilo yengqondo bazinike umsebenzi odingekayo wokubhalela abantu benyama negazi.
Yingakho kuya ngokuya kuvame ukuthola izincwadi ezibhalwe izazi zokusebenza kwengqondo emashalofini ezitolo zezincwadi, ngoba umuntu udinga ukutshela abantu ukuthi kungenzeka, kodwa hhayi yonke into; ukuthi kuyadingeka ukufuna ukuthula, kodwa hhayi ngaso sonke isikhathi; ukuthi, uma usebenza kanzima ngokwanele, kungenzeka ukufeza izinto eziningi ezinhle, kodwa hhayi yonke into oyifunayo, ukuthi ayikho i-wand magic yokuqeda ukuhlukumezeka, phakathi kwezinye izinto.
Amazwibela we uyindawo yakho ephephile
Ububanzi bokulondeka ngokomzwelo
emakhasini we uyindawo yakho ephephile, uMaria Esclapez iphakamisa amathuluzi athile asebenzayo ukuze umfundi akwazi ukwakha ubuhlobo obunempilo naye. A priori, kunengqondo, ngoba ngabanye siwukuphela komuntu oyohlale enathi. Ngakho-ke, kungcono ukuthi sifunde ukuzihlonipha, ngaphandle kokuzahlulela.
Ngokombono, Kungumqondo ofana kakhulu nalowo owasetshenziswa u-Elizabeth Clapés ku Thandeka: kumele sikhulume. Umehluko omkhulu phakathi kwale mibhalo emibili ukuthi incwadi kaClapés igxile kakhulu ekubeni nengxoxo eseduze nabafundi bakhe, ehlale ekhuluma nabo endaweni ekhululekile.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, Umsebenzi ka-Esclapez uyimpahla ye ukuzisiza onhloso yakhe kuwukuhlola ofundayo. Lokhu, ngoba, ngaphezu kwezici zethiyori, inikeza izinyathelo okufanele uzilandele mayelana nemibono yayo eminingana. Lezi zokugcina zisekelwa ucwaningo lombhali kanye nezikhathi zakhe zokwelapha.
Izinqubo eziyinhloko eziphakanyiswe ngu-María Esclapez
Umkhuba wokuzazi
Izazi zefilosofi ezinkulu, ongqondongqondo kanye nezazi zokusebenza kwengqondo ziye zakhuluma ngaphambili mayelana nokuzazi. Kungokwemvelo ukufuna ukujula kulokhu, ngoba ngenxa yaleli thuluzi kungenzeka ukuhlonza ukuthi yimaphi lawo mandla angaphakathi nobuthakathaka nokuthi ungawathuthukisa kanjani.
Ukusetshenziswa kweziqinisekiso ezinhle
Lena enye indawo evamile mayelana nokuzithuthukisa. Lena akuyona incwadi yokuqala eqinisekisa ukuthi ukucabanga okuhle noma ukucabanga okuhle kunemiphumela enenzuzo emoyeni nasendleleni yokuphila. Mayelana nalokhu, umbhali uhlongoza umfundi ukuthi aphinde imishwana ye-positivist ukuze andise amandla abo.
Ukuzindla nokuphumula
Elinye iphuzu elifana neminye imisebenzi ukuvezwa kwethiyori yokuzindla nokuzivocavoca umzimba. Lezi zenzelwe ukuthi umfundi enze indlela yakhe ngaphakathi, futhi akwazi ukwakha umhlaba wakhe ngokuqaphela okukhulu.
Umkhuba wokubonga
Una vez más, akukho okusha kule mfundiso. Lokhu kuvivinya umzimba kuhlanganisa ukuzindla ngezinto ezinhle ekuphileni nokubonga ngayinye yazo, ukuze ukhiqize umuzwa wenduduzo nenhlalakahle.
Ukubona ngeso lobuciko
Abantu abaningi bathambekele ekuboneni ngeso lengqondo izimo ezimbi kudala ngaphambi kokuba lezi zimo zenzeke. Kwesinye isikhathi lezi zindawo ezicatshangelwayo azikaze zenzeke, zidale umuzwa wokucindezeleka. UMaria I-Esclapez inxusa abafundi bayo ukuthi benze okuphambene. Okusho ukuthi: cabanga ngezimo ezinhle futhi ucabange ngazo njengokungathi zenzeka kakade.
Lo msebenzi kufanele ube nenhloso yokuveza izifiso ezifihliwe ekujuleni kwengqondo. Ngokolunye uhlangothi, umbhali uphinde athi ukubona ngeso lengqondo kuphumelela ekwakheni ukuzethemba, futhi ikhiqize amahomoni ahambisana nenjabulo.
Isakhiwo se- uyindawo yakho ephephile
Njengoba eyincwadi yokufunda, uMaría Esclapez unikeza isakhiwo esicacile. Izihloko okukhulunywa ngazo emsebenzini zihlelwe kanje.
Isingeniso
Lesi yisigaba esifushane, lapho u-María Esclapez ethula khona indlela yakhe mayelana nokuthi kubaluleke kangakanani ukuthi abantu baqale ukuzethemba ngabo ukusungula ubudlelwano obunempilo.
Isahluko 1: “Isidingo sendawo ephephile”
Kamuva, umbhali uchaza ukubaluleka kokwenza indawo yangaphakathi ephephile. Ngokusho kwesazi sokusebenza kwengqondo, le ndawo izovumela ukuphathwa okungcono kwezithiyo ezivela nsuku zonke.
Isahluko 2: "Ukuvimba endleleni"
Kulesi sigaba, u-María Esclapez ikhuluma ngaleyo mikhawulo engavimbela abantu ukuthi bafinyelele endaweni ephephile yasendlini. Lawa mabhuloki angaba ngenxa yokwesaba ukwehluleka noma ukuzifuna ngokweqile.
Isahluko 3: "Indlela Yangaphakathi"
Kusuka kulesi sigaba lapho umbhali eqala khona ukunikeza amathuluzi ashiwo ngenhla. Ingabe Kuhloswe ukuthi kube yizivivinyo zomfundi ukuze akhe amandla emizwelo futhi ubeke izinhlelo zendawo yakho ephephile ekuthuthukisweni.
Isahluko 4: "Ubudlelwano bomuntu siqu"
Phakathi namakhasi alesi sahluko, uMaría Esclapez ichaza ukuthi ubudlelwano phakathi kwabantu buthinta kanjani ukuhlanganiswa kwendawo ephephile. Ngendlela efanayo, iveza ukuthi kungenzeka kanjani ukumisa imingcele ukuze kwakhiwe ubudlelwano obunempilo nobunomsoco ngokwengeziwe nemvelo.
Isahluko 5: "Indima yengqondo"
Kulesi sigaba, isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo siphawula ngokubaluleka kokuhlakulela isimo sengqondo esihle ukuze kugcinwe ukuzinza nokuvumelana kwendawo ephephile.
Isahluko 6: "Ukuhlanganisa indawo ephephile empilweni yansuku zonke"
U-Maria Esclapez uhlongoza uchungechunge lwamasu okukhipha indawo ephephile yangaphakathi endizeni yempilo yangempela.
Isiphetho
Ekugcineni, umbhali inikeza isifinyezo samaphuzu amakhulu alencwadi. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, ikhuthaza abafundi ukuthi basebenze kanzima ekwakheni indawo yabo ephephile yangaphakathi.
Mayelana nombhali, u-María Esclapez Cartagena
UMaria Esclapez
UMaría Esclapez Cartagena wazalwa ngo-1990, e-Elche, e-Alicante, eSpain. Ufunde e-Faculty of Psychology eMiguel Hernández University., indlu yemfundo ephakeme e-Elche. Kamuva, uthole okukhethekile kwezokwelapha imibhangqwana kanye ne-sexology esikhungweni se-ISEP.
UMaria Esclapez Uyaziwa ngokusebenzisana nabezindaba, njenge kwesilungu, El País, RTVE y I-Mediaset. Kuzo, uvame ukukhuluma ngokuzethemba noma impilo yocansi.
Ezinye izincwadi zikaMaría Esclapez
- ubuhlakani bocansi (2017);
- thanda ucansi lwakho (2020);
- Ngiyakuthanda, ngiyakuthanda (2022).