I-Sentir
I-Sentir liyincwadi esebenzayo ebhalwe yintatheli, umxhumanisi, Umqeqeshi kanye nombhali waseSpain uMíriam Tirado. Umsebenzi washicilelwa ngo-Agasti 31, 2023, yisikhungo sokushicilela saseGrijalbo. Le ncwadi ivela esidingweni sombhali sokusiza abazali baxhumane nezingane zabo noma amanye amalungu omndeni. Kodwa-ke, kulesi senzakalo, umongameli weCrianza Consciente ufunda lokho kuxhumana kusuka empandeni: imizwa.
UMíriam Tirado usevele waziwa kakhulu ngokubonisana kwakhe nezingqungquthela, ngaphezu kwesiteshi sakhe se-YouTube ne-podcast. Ngayo yonke le mithombo yezindaba—kanye nezinkundla zokuxhumana—ukwazile ukufinyelela izethameli eziningi kakhulu, ezikhuluma iSpanishi nezikhuluma isiNgisi. I-Sentir Kuyisibonelo nje sokubekezela kwakhe kubazali kanye nomsebenzi awenze wokufundisa indlela yokuthuthukisa izibopho ezinempilo.
Amazwibela we I-Sentir, nguMíriam Tirado
Uma kungekho muntu owasifundisa indlela yokuzizwa, singabasiza kanjani abanye ukuba bakwenze kahle?
Umbhali uchaza incwadi yakhe ngokuthi "Uhambo lokufunda ukuhambisana nemizwa yakho neyabanye." Ngaphansi kwamuphi umongo?” Nokho, esikhathini esiningi, abantu abakaze bathole imfundo yemizwa noma amathuluzi okufunda ukulawula imizwelo yabo noma eyabanye abantu. Noma kunjalo, umphakathi wethu udinga ukuthi ngaso sonke isikhathi siziphathe ngokwezinga lezimo zethu, siduduze izingane, abantu abadala kanye nozakwethu.
Kodwa singayilandela kanjani imizwa yabanye abantu uma singazi ukuthi siyiphathe kanjani eyethu? Ku I-Sentir, UMíriam Tirado uphakamisa umzila wokuzitholela wena, ukuze sisondelane nezizathu eziyinhloko ezenza kube nzima ngathi ukuqonda nokubhekana ngokuphumelelayo nalokho esikuzwayo. Ikakhulukazi, Umbhali ugxile kulabo imizwelo ezivinjiwe nokuthi, ngokunengqondo, asikwazi ukukhulula kalula.
Kuyadingeka ukufunda ukuthi yini okufanele siyenze ngemizwa yethu
UMíriam Tirado uphakamisa ithisisi elula kakhulu: lapho sifunda ukuthi senzeni ngezethu imizwa nemizwelo, kulula kakhulu ukuhambisana nezikhathi zomzwelo omkhulu wabanye. Nokho, ukusebenzisa le mpikiswano akulula njengoba kubonakala ekuqaleni, ngoba isiphakamiso sangempela siwukubhekana nokuhlukumezeka, ukwesaba, ukungezwani okubonakala kungenakulungiseka, phakathi kwezinye izinqubo.
Noma kunjalo, uMíriam Tirado unikeza umvuzo, okuba yisikhuthazo sokufeza lo msebenzi omkhulu: lo mkhuba usho ukuqonda kangcono izingane zasekhaya, abafundi emakilasini, umbhangqwana kuzo zonke izikhala. , njalonjalo. Kwakho, Umbhali unikeza uchungechunge lwezivivinyo zokuqeqesha umsipha wokuzwa. Iphinde inikeze izinsiza namathuluzi adizayinelwe ukuthuthukisa uhlelo oluzungeze imizwa yethu.
Kungani kufanele sifunde ukuzizwa ngokuqaphela?
Ezingxoxweni eziningi, umbhali ukubeke kwacaca ukuthi lo mbono wazalwa ekuhlaziyweni okwenziwa ngesikhathi kuqubuka lolu bhubhane futhi lwasungulwa. Kwakulapho, ngaleso sikhathi sezinxushunxushu nokungaqiniseki, lokho Umbhali waphawula ukushiyeka okubaluleke kakhulu mayelana nokulawula imizwa kanye nokuvezwa kwemizwa.
Kamuva, Ngenxa yokuhlangenwe nakho kwakhe nomqeqeshi wabazali nezingane, waqala ukubhala incwadi ukusiza abantu ukusungula izindlela zabo ezizosetshenziswa ekuphileni kwabo kwansuku zonke, ngokuzimele, ngenkuthalo nangokuqaphela ngokugcwele imbangela. Yiqiniso, uhlelo lwakhe lugxile kakhulu emizweni emibi: njengentukuthelo, ukwesaba, umhawu, njll.
Imizwa ivelaphi?
UMíriam Tirado uyachaza ukuthi, lapho kufika ukuhlola imizwa yethu, kuyadingeka ukuhlukanisa ukuthi ziyini nokuthi kungani zavela ngesikhathi esithile. Ngaphezu kwalokho, kufanele sicabangele ukuthi iyiphi enye inkathi yokuphila kwethu esike sazizwa ngaleyo ndlela, futhi iyiphi indlela engcono kakhulu yokukhipha amanzi, ukuveza futhi, ekugcineni, sisebenze kulowo muzwa ukuwuphatha ngendlela enempilo. Lokhu, ukuze uphile impilo eyanelisayo, egcwele nejabulisayo.
Esakufunda kubazali bethu nalokho abakufundiswa
Iphuzu elibalulekile le I-Sentir sekudlule, kahle Sifunda ngakho ngesimo sabantu abasikhulisile futhi basiphelezela phakathi nesigaba sokuphila kwethu. Izingane zifunda ukulawula imizwelo kubazali bazo. Kodwa kwenzekani uma lokhu kuphatha kungenele noma kungekho nje? Abantu bajwayele ukuyeka imizwa engakhululekile. Kungokwemvelo, phela bayasiphatha kabi.
Kodwa-ke, ukugwema nokubavimbela kuyindlela embi kakhulu yokuxazulula inkinga, njengoba leyo mizwelo efanayo engakhululekile ihlala lapho, ivula imbobo ku-psyche yomuntu ohluphekayo. Imizwa enzima ibilokhu yenqatshwa, kodwa ayisuki. Kungcono kakhulu ukwamukela ukuthi zikhona, ukuthi ezesikhashana futhi sinamandla amakhulu okubaphulukisa futhi sifundise abanye ukuthi bangapholisa kanjani amanxeba abo adlule.
Mayelana nombhali, uMíriam Tirado
UMiriam Tirado
UMíriam Tirado wazalwa ngo-1976, eManresa, Barcelona, Spain. Umbhali uphothule izifundo zobuntatheli. Ngemva kwalokho, Wasebenza iminyaka engu-14 e-Information Services yaseCatalunya Rádio. Ngokunjalo, usebenze kwa-RTVE nakuFlash FM. Kodwa-ke, ngo-2014 washiya umsebenzi wakhe ukuze azinikele kuphela ekuxhumaneni komzali oqaphelayo, ngosizo lukanina nosingababa, abazinikele endaweni yokusiza omama abasha.
Umbhali futhi specialized in Umqeqeshi Wokukhulisa Abazali Oqaphelayo ngendlela ye-Conscious Institute kaDkt. Shefali Tsabary, isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo saseMelika. Kusukela lapho, uMíriam Tirado uye wazinikela ekunikezeni imihlangano yokucobelelana ngolwazi, izingqungquthela nezinkulumo zomama nobaba, lapho ebafundisa khona ukuba nokuxhumana okukhulu nabo ukuze bakwazi ukuzuza ukukhulisa izingane ngempumelelo.
Kusukela kulolu hlelo ubhale izincwadi, izindaba, kanye nezincwadi zezingane nentsha. Ngendlela efanayo, Ukhuluma nababhalisile bakhe abangaphezu kuka-45.700 ngesiteshi sakhe se-YouTube. UMíriam Tirado usebenza kakhulu ezinkundleni zokuxhumana ezifana ne-Instagram ne-X, ngaphezu kokuba nebhulogi yakhe.
Ezinye izincwadi zikaMíriam Tirado
- Izixhumanisi. I-Gestació, ingxenye kanye nokukhuliswa ngokucophelela (2005).
Izindaba Zezingane
- Iphathi ye-TETA (2017);
- Nginentabamlilo (2018);
- Intambo engabonakali (2020);
- Ukuzwela (2022).
Izincwadi zabazali
- Izixhumanisi. Ukukhulelwa okwaziyo, ukuzalwa kanye nokuba umzali (2010);
- umama ojulile wesikhumba (2018);
- Ukuhlambalaza (2020);
- Imikhawulo (2020).
Ukulandisa
- isusiwe (2021);
- Igama lami nginguGoa (2023).