Amashwa amancane angabalulekile
Amashwa amancane angabalulekile -Zonke Izinhlungu Zami Ezincane- idrama eyabhalwa umbhali waseCanada, intatheli kanye nomlingisi uMiriam Toews. Umsebenzi washicilelwa okokuqala ngo-2014. Kamuva, inhlangano yokushicilela i-Sexto Piso yathola amalungelo okuhlela nokusabalalisa ngo-2022, ngokuhumusha kweSpanishi kukaJulia Osuna Aguilar.
Encwadini yakhe, I-Toews ibhekana nezindaba zempilo yengqondo ngokombono womuntu siqu, ngoba ukuphila kwakhe kuye kwazungezwa imiphumela yokugula okuthile. Amashwa amancane angabalulekile yindaba ethinta inhliziyo esekelwe ebudlelwaneni bakhe nodadewabo omdala, owazibulala ngo-2010, cishe eminyakeni eyishumi nambili ngemva kokuba uyise wombhali eziphonsa emzileni wesitimela.
Amazwibela we Amashwa amancane angabalulekile
Isinqumo esibalulekile
Amashwa amancane angabalulekile Yindaba yothando, enye yalezo zothando eziqinile ezidlula. Emigqeni yakhe ungakwazisa ukuzinikela okuphelele komunye, futhi lapho kungenakwenzeka, uyadedelwa, ngoba yilokho okumelwe kwenziwe, ngoba kuyinto efanele ukuyenza.
U-Elfrieda no-Yolandi Von Riesen bangodade ababili okuye kwadingeka badlule esihogweni. Phakathi, bobabili babuya benemibono nemiqondo ehluke kakhulu, futhi bakhela izimpilo zabo phezu kwalokhu okuhlangenwe nakho ngokusemandleni abo.
U-Elfrieda ungumdlali wopiyano onethalente futhi owaziwayo onezinga lamazwe ngamazwe. Ushade nendoda emthandayo, futhi uzungezwe ubukhazikhazi nobukhazikhazi. Ngokolunye uhlangothi, Impilo ka-Yolandi ibingachazwa nanoma yiliphi elinye igama ngaphandle “kwesiphithiphithi”. Izingane zakhe ezisencane ziseduze kakhulu nokushiya isidleke, akakwazi ukukhokha izikweletu, futhi ngaphezu kwalokho, usanda kudivosa. Kodwa-ke, u-Elf uhola imizamo eminingi yokuzibulala, futhi u-Yoli ubambelela ekuphileni njengebhubesi elilambile elingenza inyama yokugcina.
Sawubona Yoli, ngiyeke ngihambe
Isifiso sikaYoli sokuphila asimvumeli ukuthi aqonde ukuthi kungani udadewabo engafuni ukuqhubeka ephila. Bobabili bagcina izinkulumo ezihlala njalo ngakho, kodwa abavumelani. U-Yoli, ezivumela ukuba athathwe usizi lokubona omunye wabantu abathandayo kakhulu engakwazi ukuyeka umqondo wokuhamba unomphela, uthi kuye:
“Awukwazi yini ukufana nabanye, ojwayelekile futhi odabukileyo kanye namakaka akho, uphila futhi unonembeza? Khulula ubheme sengathi alikho ikusasa futhi udlale upiyano njengembongolo. Fuck it!"
Lenkulumo ayinabo ubulungisa, inonya, inobugovu, yebo, kodwa ubani ongeke asebenzise amazwi anonya ukuze azame ukugcina othandekayo ephila? Njengoba ezama ukungashoni kakhulu futhi ecabanga "ngamashwa akhe amancane angabalulekile", U-Yoli uhlezi eduze nodadewabo esibhedlela, ngemva kokuzama okokugcina ukuzibulala. Uqala ukuzibuza ukuthi uzoyidlulisela kanjani kuye indlala yakhe yokuphila. Ngesinye isikhathi, uyaqonda ukuthi ngeke akwazi ukumsiza aphile.
Ukugxekwa kokucwaswa kokuphazamiseka kwengqondo
UMiriam Toews wazibonela mathupha ukwesaba nobuhlungu obungabangelwa izifo zengqondo. Ubaba wakhe wahlushwa yi-bipolar isikhathi esiningi sokuphila kwakhe. Kulokhu wayezama ukumhlekisa njengodadewabo. Umbhali ubalule ukuthi amahlaya angenangqondo yindlela yakhe yokubona umhlaba nokulwa izimpi, futhi lokho kumsize ukuthi akwazi ukuziphilisa ngemuva kokulahlekelwa ingxenye yomndeni wakhe.
Khona manjalo, ukhuluma kabi ngeqhaza lodokotela bengqondo nabahlengikazi ezibhedlela ezisebenzela abantu abaphazamisekile emqondweni. Ngokuqondile, likusho lokho kukhona uhlobo "lwezinsana zeziguli ezikhona ngoba zihlupheka, ngoba zidinga ukunakekelwa."
Abantu abaningi abanesifo esingokwengqondo basolwa ngokuphatheka kabi kwabo, bayahlukaniswa, futhi, ngaphezu kwalokho, uMbuso awunikezi izinsiza ezanele zophenyo.
UMiriam Toews uvikela ukusizwa ngokufa
Ngokungafani nezinye izincwadi ezinezindikimba ezifanayo, Amashwa amancane angabalulekile inesiphetho esingagxili ekutheni uthando lukwazi kanjani ukusisindisa. Ngokuphambene nalokho. Umphumela wale noveli ka-Miriam Toews udabukisa inhliziyo, futhi umema ukuzindla.
Ngomzuzu wokugcina, U-Yoli uyakwazi ukubona ubuhlungu bengqondo kadadewabo, ukuze abone ukuthi uhlupheka ngempela. Ngenkathi lokhu kwenzeka, u-Elf uyamncenga ukuba amsize afe, futhi umlingiswa oyinhloko akanayo enye inketho.
Ekugcineni, uyanikezela, futhi ukwenza ngoba emthanda kangangokuthi abe nesihawu nokuphana.. UMiriam Toews uyaqinisekisa ukuthi bonke abantu bazizwa benomunyu, ukuthi lokhu kuyingxenye yempilo. Kodwa-ke, uma lolu hlobo lokuhlupheka luqhutshwa ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, kungenzeka ukuthi sikhuluma nge-pathology.
Kungakho kudingekile ukukhuluma kabanzi ngezifo zengqondo: yokucindezeleka, ukukhathazeka, ukuphazamiseka kobuntu bomngcele... Ukuyibeka phambili kwenza isiguli sibe nobuntu, futhi kwenza kube lula ukusinika amathuluzi afanele, ngisho noma lelo thuluzi kuwukufa.
Mayelana nombhali, uMiriam Leslie Toews
UMiriam Toews
UMiriam Leslie Toews wazalwa ngo-1964, eSteinbach, eManitoba, eCanada. Lo mlingisi nombhali waseCanada uthole i-BA in Film Studies eNyuvesi yaseManitoba. Uphinde abe nezifundo zeJournalism azithola eKing's College eHalifax. Abazali bomlobi babengamaMennonite, futhi lo mphakathi waba nethonya elikhulu ekuphileni kwawo. Leli qiniso lilotshwe ezincwadini zakhe eziningi, lapho kuboniswa khona amathonya amabi okucindezela okungokwenkolo.
UToews wayenobuhlobo obukhethekile kakhulu noyise, uMelvin C. Toews, owayenguthisha ohlonishwayo wesikole samabanga aphansi., enomthwalo wemfanelo wokubambisana ekusungulweni komtapo wolwazi wokuqala womphakathi eSteinbach. Kamuva, le ndoda yazibulala, isenzakalo esaphawula umbhali nomkhaya wakubo wonke, ikakhulukazi udadewabo omdala, uMarjorie, ongakwazanga ukululama.
UMiriam Toews wayecabanga ukuthi ngeke aphinde abhale, kodwa ukwenza kanjalo kwamkhulula. Ngamazwi akhe, kwakudingekile ukuba abuyele ezincwadini ukuze alondoloze ingqondo yakhe. Uphinde wanquma ukukwenza ngethemba lokuthi lokhu kuzoba yindlela yokugcina ubuhlobo obunempilo nabanye abantu.
Ezinye izincwadi zikaMiriam Toews
- Ihlobo Lenhlanhla Yami Emangalisayo (1996);
- Umfana Ozala Kahle (1998);
- Swing Low (2000);
- ubuhle obuyinkimbinkimbi (2004);
- Ama-Troutmans endizayo (2008);
- irma voth (2011);
- Zonke Izinhlungu Zami Ezincane (2014);
- Bayakhuluma (2018);
- I-Women Talking: Ifilimu eyawina i-Oscar edlalwa uRooney Mara, uJessie Buckley noClaire Foy (2018);
- Fight Night (2021).