Ukuva
Ukuva yincwadi esebenzayo ebhalwe yintatheli, umcebisi, umqeqeshi kunye nombhali waseSpeyin uMíriam Tirado. Umsebenzi wapapashwa ngo-Agasti 31, 2023, yindlu yopapasho yaseGrijalbo. Le ncwadi ivela kwimfuno yombhali yokunceda abazali banxibelelane nabantwana babo okanye amanye amalungu osapho. Nangona kunjalo, ngesi sihlandlo, umongameli waseCrianza Consciente ufunda olo nxibelelwano lusuka kwingcambu: iimvakalelo.
UMíriam Tirado sele esaziwa kakhulu ngokucebisana kwakhe kunye neenkomfa, ukongeza kwisitishi sakhe sikaYouTube kunye nepodcast. Ngawo onke la majelo eendaba-kunye neenethiwekhi zakhe zentlalo-ukwazile ukufikelela kubaphulaphuli ababanzi kakhulu, abathetha iSpanish nabathetha isiNgesi. Ukuva Kungumzekelo nje wokuzingisa kwakhe kubazali kunye nomsebenzi athe wawenza wokufundisa indlela yokuphuhlisa amabhondi aphilileyo.
Isishwankathelo se Ukuva, nguMíriam Tirado
Ukuba akukho mntu usifundise indlela yokuvakalelwa, sinokubanceda njani abanye bayenze kakuhle?
Umbhali uchaza incwadi yakhe njengo "Uhambo lokufunda ukuhamba neemvakalelo zakho kunye nezabanye." Kaloku, ubukhulu becala, abantu abazange bafumane mfundiso yeemvakalelo okanye izixhobo zokufunda ukulawula iimvakalelo zabo okanye ezabanye abantu. Nangona kunjalo, uluntu lwethu lufuna ukuba sisoloko siziphatha ngokweemeko zethu, sithuthuzele abantwana, abantu abadala kunye namaqabane ethu.
Kodwa singakwazi njani ukugcina umkhondo weemvakalelo zabanye abantu ukuba asiyazi indlela yokusingatha ezethu? Kwi Ukuva, UMíriam Tirado uceba indlela yokuzifumanisa, ukuze sisondele ngakumbi kwezona zizathu ziphambili zokuba kube nzima ngathi ukukuqonda size sihlangabezane ngokuphumelelayo noko sivakalelwa kukuba. Ingakumbi, Umbhali ugxininisa kwezo iimvakalelo eziye zavalwa kwaye, ngokusengqiqweni, asinakukhulula ngokulula.
Kubalulekile ukuba sifunde ukuba senze ntoni ngeemvakalelo zethu
UMíriam Tirado uphakamisa ithisisi elula kakhulu: xa sifunda ukuba senze ntoni na ngeyethu iimvakalelo kunye neemvakalelo, kulula kakhulu ukukhapha amaxesha eemvakalelo ezinkulu zabanye. Nangona kunjalo, ukwenza le ngxoxo isebenze akukho lula njengoko kubonakala ekuqaleni, kuba esona siphakamiso kukujongana neentlungu, uloyiko, iiyantlukwano ezibonakala zingenakulungelelana, phakathi kwezinye izinto.
Nangona kunjalo, uMíriam Tirado unikezela ngomvuzo, othi ube lukhuthazo lokwenza lo msebenzi mkhulu: olu qheliselo luthetha ukuqonda ngcono abantwana ekhaya, abafundi kumagumbi okufundela, isibini kuzo zonke iindawo. , njalo njalo. Kuyo, Umbhali unikezela ngothotho lwemithambo yokuqeqesha isihlunu sokuziva. Ikwabonelela ngezibonelelo kunye nezixhobo eziyilelwe ukuphuhlisa isicwangciso malunga neemvakalelo zethu.
Kutheni sifanele sifunde ukuziva sisazi?
Kudliwanondlebe oluninzi, umbhali uyibeke yacaca into yokuba lo mbono wazalwa kuhlalutyo olwenziwa njengoko ubhubhane wavela kwaye wasekwa. Kwakukho, ngelo xesha lesiphithiphithi kunye nokungaqiniseki, apho Umbhali waphawula ukusilela okubaluleke kakhulu malunga nokulawula iimvakalelo kunye nokubonakaliswa kweemvakalelo.
Kamva, Ngombulelo kumava akhe kunye nomqeqeshi kubazali kunye nabantwana, waqala ukubhala incwadi ukunceda abantu baseke iindlela zabo eziya kusetyenziswa kubomi babo bemihla ngemihla, ngokuzimeleyo, ngokukhutheleyo nangolwazi olupheleleyo lonobangela. Ngokuqinisekileyo, isicwangciso sakhe sigxile kakhulu kwiimvakalelo ezimbi: njengomsindo, ukwesaba, umona, njl.
Zivela phi iimvakalelo?
UMíriam Tirado uyachaza ukuba, xa kwafika ukuvavanya iimvakalelo zethu, kuyimfuneko ukwahlula ukuba yintoni na kwaye kutheni zavela ngexesha elithile. Ukongeza, kufuneka sithathele ingqalelo ukuba leliphi elinye ixesha lobomi bethu esiye saziva ngalo, kwaye yeyiphi eyona ndlela ilungileyo yokukhupha, ukuvakalisa kwaye, ekugqibeleni, sisebenze kuloo mvakalelo ukuyilawula ngendlela enempilo. Oku, ukuze uphile ubomi obanelisayo, obugcweleyo kunye nobonwabileyo.
Oko sakufunda kubazali bethu noko bakufundiswayo
Inqaku eliphambili le Ukuva lixesha elidlulileyokuhle Sifunda kuyo ngendlela yabantu abasikhulisayo kwaye basikhapha kulo lonke inqanaba lobomi bethu. Abantwana bafunda indlela yokulawula iimvakalelo kubazali babo. Kodwa kwenzeka ntoni ukuba olu lawulo alunelanga okanye alukho? Abantu baqhele ukukhulula iimvakalelo ezingakhululekanga. Kungokwemvelo, ngapha koko, zisenza sizive sibuhlungu.
Nangona kunjalo, ukuphepha kunye nokuthintela kuyona ndlela imbi kakhulu yokusombulula ingxaki, ekubeni ezo mvakalelo ezifanayo ezingathandekiyo zihlala apho, zivula umngxuma kwi-psyche yomntu ohluphekayo. Iimvakalelo ezinzima bezisoloko zikhatywa, kodwa azipheli. Kungcono ukwamkela ukuba zikho, ukuba zexeshana kwaye sinamandla amakhulu okubaphilisa kwaye sifundise abanye indlela yokuphilisa amanxeba abo angaphambili.
Malunga nombhali, uMíriam Tirado
UMiriam Tirado
UMíriam Tirado wazalwa ngo-1976, eManresa, Barcelona, eSpain. Umbhali uphumelele isidanga sobuntatheli. Emva koko, Wasebenza iminyaka eli-14 kwiNkonzo yoLwazi yaseCatalunya Rádio. Ngokunjalo, wasebenza kwi-RTVE nakwiFlash FM. Nangona kunjalo, ngo-2014 wayeka umsebenzi wakhe ukuze azinikele ngokukodwa kunxibelelwano lomzali onolwazi, ngoncedo lukanina kunye noyise wesibini, abazinikele kwindawo yokunceda oomama abatsha.
Umbhali naye ekhethekileyo kwi Umqeqeshi woBuzali kunye nendlela yeConscious Institute kaGqr. Shefali Tsabary, ingcali yengqondo yezonyango yaseMelika. Ukusukela ngoko, uMíriam Tirado uye wazinikela ekunikeni iindibano zocweyo, iinkomfa kunye neentetho zoomama nootata, apho ebafundisa ukuba babe nonxulumano olukhulu kunye nabo ukuze babe nokufezekisa ubuzali obunempumelelo ngakumbi.
Ukusuka kule nkqubo ubhale iincwadi zesikhokelo ezininzi, amabali, kunye noncwadi lwabantwana nolutsha. Ngendlela efanayo, Uthetha nababhalisi bakhe abangaphezu kwe-45.700 ngetshaneli yakhe yeYouTube. UMíriam Tirado usebenza kakhulu kwiinethiwekhi zentlalo ezifana ne-Instagram kunye ne-X, ukongeza ekubeni neyakhe ibhlog.
Ezinye iincwadi zikaMíriam Tirado
- Unxulumano. Gestació, inxalenye kunye nokukhuliswa ngononophelo (2005).
Amabali Abantwana
- Iqela leTETA (2017);
- Ndinentaba-mlilo (2018);
- Umsonto ongabonakaliyo (2020);
- Uvakalelo (2022).
Iincwadi zabazali
- Unxulumano. Ukukhulelwa, ukuzalwa kunye nokuba ngumzali (2010);
- Ukubeleka phezu komhlaba (2018);
- Umsindo (2020);
- Imida (2020).
Ibali
- Isusiwe (2021);
- Igama lam ndinguGoa (2023).