i-punk psychology yincwadi ka-2022 yesayikholoji uVictor Amat. Ipapashwa ngu IVergara, itywina ye Penguin Random House. Ku malunga Incwadi yezengqondo echasana nesiqhelo sangoku (yiyo loo nto kunjalo punk), yaye oko kukhuthaza ukuba umntu azivumele, ngokulungileyo nangaphantsi, ukuze afikelele kwimeko ezolileyo ngakumbi. Ngaphandle kokukhohlisa okanye ukunikela izithembiso zobuxoki.
Ngaba le yincwadi yokuzinceda? Ewe! Ngaba yincwadi eqhelekileyo yokuzinceda? Hayi! Hayi akunjalo. Ngapha koko, uyazikhanyela iincwadana zezengqondo ezixhaphakileyo kwezi ntsuku kunye namabinzana azo enkohliso kunye ne-mediocre positivism. Le ncwadi iza ngamandla, nangona inomdla woburharha. Iphelisa izinto ezininzi abanye abasithengisayo kwaye Crea elungileyo indlela eyiyo ngakumbi yokujongana nobomi xa beza kakubi
i-punk psychology
Ngokuchasene nokucinga okulungileyo kunye nokungenangqondo
Kwanele ngokungenangqondo! i-punk psychology sisikhalo esinemvukelo. Ixoxa ngento eyenziwe mva nje ekufikeleleni ngokwengqondo kunye Iphelisa izithethe abazama ngazo ukwanelisa abantu. Yincwadi echitha intsomi yokuba ubomi bufanele bube yindlela yeentyatyambo, kodwa oko ikwenza ngoburharha.
nayo, ilumkisa ngengozi yokucinga izinto ezintle ngokusisigxina, ngaphandle kokushiya ixesha okanye ukuphumla kwinto yendalo, oko kukucinga kakubi. Kuba ngenxa yoko silungiselelwe kwindalo yethu. Yindlela yokubaleka engozini ngenxa yokukwazi kwethu ukusinda. Endaweni yokukhanyela okubi, kufuneka sivumele ingcinga kunye neemvakalelo ezijikelezayo, ijelo kwaye siyamkele. Kububudenge ukukholelwa ukuba ngamaxesha onke, ngawo onke amaxhala ethu nobunzima obuvelayo, sinokuziva sivuya. Hayi. Kwaye akukho nto yenzekayo. U-Amat akafuni ukungayihoyi into embi, ufuna ukuyisebenzisa ukusikhokelela kwindlela yokwazisa, ukulinganisela kunye nokuzola.
i-punk psychology ujika iitafile kancinci kwaye usikhulule enetyala, ngaphambili uxinzelelo lwentlalo lomzuzu wangoku apho yonke into kufuneka ibe yimeko yolonwabo oluqhubekayo kunye nesigxina. Eyona nto ngokucacileyo ayinakufumaneka. Ngaphandle kokuba uyirobhothi. Kuba kubonakala ngathi ukuba awuzichazi njengomntu owonwabileyo, kukho into engalunganga kuwe okanye isizathu kukuba awuzami ngokwaneleyo.
Ukuthetha ngokucacileyo: ngaba ulonwabo lukhona?
U-Amat uchaza ukuba, ukuba siyayamkela into yokuba ubomi buzaliswe lulonwabo neentlekele, mhlawumbi sinokuqalisa ukutshintsha indlela esizijonga ngayo ulonwabo size sizikhulule kwimbopheleleko yokonwaba. Kuthekani ukuba endaweni yokulangazelela ulonwabo olungunaphakade siye siqonde ngakumbi kwaye silungelelanise? Mhlawumbi Ukuba siqonda ngcono okwenzekayo kuthi kwaye sifune ukulungelelana kuzo zonke iintlobo zayo, sinokuba njalo ngokulula kuhle.
Ukuba ndihlala ndicinga kakuhle kwaye ndinike ingqalelo: "Ukuba uyafuna, unako", "unako ngayo yonke into", "unganikezeli", "yibe yinguqulelo yakho engcono", njl., ngokwenene siphindaphinda amazwi amiselweyo esingayikholelwayo kuba asikhange siyeke nokucinga ngawo. Kuyavela ukuba ukuba awucingi ngolo hlobo ubuthathaka okanye uyonqena. Ewe, nantsi enye inyani: hayi ngokucinga kancinci malunga nokubi, iingxaki ziya kunyamalala ngomlingo. Kungaphezulu, isazi ngengqondo ilumkisa ukuba ukuzinyanzela ukuba menya kunokuba yingozi kakhulu kwaye kutsale impilo yethu yengqondo.
Umbhali ukwabonisa ukuba indlela esiphila ngayo ngoku, ukungaqiniseki esiphila kuko kunye nokuphathwa kakubi kwenkathalo yezempilo okwenziwa ngabalawuli kukwakhuthaza imeko yengqondo eqhwalelayo.
Izigqibo
Yincwadi ethetha ngokucacileyo, kodwa kude nokubadimaza abantu, ibenza babe nethemba ngenxa yokunyaniseka kwayo okusengqiqweni. Yinyaniso ekhuthaza ingqiqo ukuze singakhukuliswa zizo zonke iimpembelelo zangaphandle zokulungileyo ukucinga nokuvakalelwa kunye noko kungenjalo. UAmat ucacisa ukuba akakho umntu onokusinyanzela ukuba sivakalelwe okanye sibone izinto ngendlela ethile, engebhetele okanye embi ngakumbi.. Amaxesha amaninzi into efunwa ngumntu kukuziva elusizi kwaye ajongane nemeko embi. Emva koko, lixesha kuphela elinokwazi ukuba kukho into oyifundileyo okanye hayi.
Yincwadi yokunikela uncedo eyenzelwe ukunceda abantu, kungekhona ukubaqinisekisa ngayo nantoni na okanye ukubenza bacinge ukuba ukuba abakazisombululi iingxaki zabo, kungenxa yokuba bayintlekele. Ukusukela ulonwabo olungafikelelekiyo kunokudanisa, kwaye kuyintlekele ukungacingi ukuba ngamanye amaxesha ebomini kukho iimeko ezimbi kakhulu.. Kodwa ukwenza oko kunokuba luncedo kakhulu. i-punk psychology Ayicinezeli, kodwa ityhila uloyiko kunye nobuxoki, kwaye isibeka ubuso ngobuso nethuba lokuziva kamnandi ngobomi ... ukuba siyayilungiselela kwaye sizivumele ukuba sibi.
Sobre el autor
UVictor Amat (eBarcelona, ngo-1963) yingcali yezengqondo enelayisensi evela kwiYunivesithi yaseRamon Llull., iziko asebenza kunye nalo ngunjingalwazi. Kwakhona kunokwenzeka ukuyifumana kwi-Institut Català de la Salut, i-Generalitat de Catalunya, iYunivesithi yaseBarcelona okanye i-Autonomous University yase-Barcelona. Kwaye ngalo mzuzu ulawula ikhosi yabasele benezidanga kwi-Brief Intervention, uhlobo lonyango lwezengqondo. Usebenza njenge therapist, disseminator kunye nomqeqeshi.
Uyintshatsheli yamanqindi ekhabayo yaseYurophu kwaye uzichaza njengombhali weNAPC: Akabafanelanga oogxa bakhe. Enika umbono ohlekisayo kakhulu wokucinga kwakhe ngokubhekiselele kwisayikholoji. I-Amat ibaleka kwii-fundamentalisms nanjengombhali, ukongeza i-punk psychology, inezihloko ezifana Imfihlelo yentaba engcwele (2011), kunye nokusebenzisana nabanye ababhali.
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