Kwiintsuku ezimbalwa ezidlulileyo ndikuphathele ezinye zezi Iinyani ezili-10 eziyinyani nezinyani malunga nababhali, kwaye omnye wabo wayehlala yedwa kumzobi, kuloo ndawo inye apho sihlala khona kuphela kwaye (ngaphandle komnye umbhali) bambalwa abaya kuba nakho ukuqonda. Nangona kunjalo, ayisiyiyo yonke into embi okanye edandathekisayo kweso siqwenga sedwa, kodwa endaweni yoko sichasene. Ngaba ukwazisa nakuphi na oku kulandelayo ulonwabo kuphela ababhali abalixabisayo?
Wena, incwadi yokubhala kunye nevenkile yekofu
Abantu basijonga ngokumangalisayo njengoko sidlula kwaye kuphela ngabo banoxabiso lokonwaba lokubhala (ngcono kwincwadana yokubhala kunakwikhompyuter) abaya kuza kuwe bakuxelele ukuba naye uyakwenza oko. Uya kukuxelela encumile, ngokungathi uthi "asiqondwa kakuhle." Kungenxa yokuba ewe, zimbalwa iziyolo zilungile kumbhali njengokuhlala kwithambeka lokutyela (inokuba sele ikho kwindawo ohlala kuyo enjengeyaseCuba okanye eSan Francisco) kwaye unika amagama ngokukhululekileyo.
Ukuphefumlelwa ebusuku
Olunye ukhetho ababhali abaluthandayo luqhelekile bhala ebusukuAsazi ukuba kutheni, mhlawumbi kuba xa iinkwenkwezi zisiwa, wonke umntu uba sisihobe ngakumbi, uyimfihlakalo, kuba ukuphefumlelwa kufana nesikhova esilala emini kwaye siqala ukuhamba xa izibane zifiphele. Emva koko kuyeza usuku olulandelayo xa sifunda oko sikubhalayo phantsi kwempembelelo yeglasi enye (okanye ezingaphezulu) zeglasi. Kodwa lelo lelinye ibali.
Yiba nombono olungileyo
Ngalo mzuzu ungqalileyo xa uza kulala phantsi uvale amehlo, ingqondo yakho iqala ukubhadula kwaye ngequbuliso ikho: loo mbono ubalaseleyo, eso sicatshulwa, loo ngxoxo yokuba kufuneka ubambe ngandlela thile kwilizwe lokwenyani. Kwaye ungxamile uphakama, khangela ipeni kunye nephepha (okanye incwadana yokubhala ephathekayo, uyisilele loo nto) kwaye ubhale yonke into oye wayisebezela kuwe ngalo mzuzu ungalindelekanga. Emva koko uvale kwakhona amehlo akho, kodwa uyazi ukuba uvule nje ibhokisi kaPandora.
Ukufunda incwadi elungileyo
Nawuphi na umbhali kufuneka afunde ukuphucula okanye ukugqibezela ubugcisa babo, into endicinga ukuba uninzi lwethu luyavumelana ngayo. Nangona kunjalo, ngamanye amaxesha kufanelekile ukubonisa umahluko phakathi kwencwadi esiyithandayo kunye nenye apho sinokufumana khona izimvo okanye iimbono ezintsha. Ukujonga ukuba ezinye iindlela zokubalisa ibali zinokwenzeka kunokuyibuyisela ngokupheleleyo indlela esivakalisa ngayo izimvo zethu.
Gqibezela into oyiqalileyo
Nokuba sisibongo, ibali elifutshane okanye inoveli, zimbalwa iziyolo kumbhali ezonelisayo njengokugqiba loo msebenzi wayentywiliselwe kuwo ixesha elide. Ukusukela ngoko ukuya kwelinye inqanaba eliqala, apho ulonwabo kunye nokudana kuhamba kunye kodwa kufuneka ujongane nayo yonke inkohliso esehlabathini.
Bona incwadi yakho epapashiweyo
Imbongi yaseCuba UJose Marti Wakhe wathi "zintathu izinto umntu ngamnye ekufuneka ezenzile ngexesha lobomi bakhe: tyala umthi, bhala incwadi kwaye ube nomntwana." Isicatshulwa esiqinisekisa ubuhle bendalo kwaye, ngaphandle kokungahambelani neleta okwangoku, ndingalixhasa elo xesha lingenakuchazeka apho upapasha incwadi. Inxalenye yakho efakwe encwadini, ineqweqwe layo, ilungele ukwenza uphawu (nokuba lincinci kangakanani) emhlabeni. Kuyamangalisa oko.
Uluvo lokuqala lomfundi
Inzame ezininzi ziqala ukuhlawula, kwaye uphawu lokuqala luza ngohlobo lwezimvo ezilungileyo okanye uphononongo apho umntu athi uyifundile incwadi yakho kwaye uyayincoma kwabanye abantu; umkhenkce uqhekekile kwaye enye i-adventure entsha iyaqala. Kwaye ukuba umbhali ngamnye ufuna ingxelo, nokuba intle okanye imbi, ukuxabisa umgangatho womsebenzi, chaza umkhombandlela ekufuneka uwalandele kodwa, ngakumbi, qinisekisa isidingo sokukholelwa kwinto esiyenzayo.
Amavumba athile
Incwadi endala, leya intsha, yeepensile kunye nephepha, levenkile endala yeencwadi, ethi, ngokungalindelekanga, ikuthuthele ebuntwaneni kwaye ivule isikhukhula ngaphakathi kuwe ukuya kwiingcamango ezintsha.