Ifoto esembindini: (c) URafael Plaza Aragonés. Ezinye zivela kwiifayile zam kunye neencwadi zam.
Kulo Usuku lweeNcwadi ndibhala malunga nokubhala. Zimbalwa zi khankanya emva phantse kobomi bonke ndibeka amagama kunye ukusukela oko ndafunda ukuyenza ukuzixelela kunye nokubalisa amabali. Izizathu okanye izizathu, okanye ukonwaba nje. Kwaye uhlala ungene u lonwabo o Ukutsala, kwi cwaka Ngokwesiqhelo, okanye kwi ubumnyama. Nazi izizathu zam. Unokwabelana nabo osebenza nabo, nokuba bahlukile kwaye abanakugqithiselwa.
Ukufunda ukubhala
Iifoto ezingasentla kweli nqaku zibonisa ukuvela kwe ukubhala kwam ngesandla kunye neefonti endizithandayo zokuprinta. Ukuqala kwamanye amabali am. Eyokuqala, umthambo wokubalisa amabali esikolweni igcwele iimpazamo zopelo.
Emva kwexesha loo leta ibhalwe isitayile kwaye yahluka ngaphakathi amabali okufikisa. Kwaye okokugqibela, oonobumba baba zizitshixo kunye namabali kunye amabali aba ziinoveli. Zimbini esele zipapashiwe, enye ngokuhlela kwaye enye ngokuzipapasha. Ngenxa yokuba ndiye ndafunda ukubanika ifom yomzimba evela ezincwadini.
Kwaye kutheni sibhala ukuba sibhale? yakhe izizathu ezininzi njengababhali kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo sonke sabelana ngazo. O mhlawumbi akukho nanye. Kukuphela kolonwabo okanye uloyiko lokwenza ibali, indalo yonke kunye nobomi ongaziyo ukuba uza kuphuma njani okanye bazokusa phi. Njengokuba utsala imitya. Inqaku likwayeka ukuba siyeke ukufunda indlela yokwenza.
Isidingo
Kuhlala kukho ibali phaya okanye ngaphakathi ngaphakathi. Ngamanye amaxesha umfanekiso ubanika yona (yenzekile kum kaninzi), ngamanye amaxesha ingoma (ikwayimeko yam), okanye iinkcukacha zenyani ohlala kuyo. Kulungile, kubi okanye kumndilili. Kukho kwakhona imeko yakho uzimisele okanye abanye kufuneka uhlalutye, qonda okanye utolike. la YinyanisoNgapha koko, ihlala igqithile kwiintsomi kwaye sihlala sifuna ukuyicacisa kuthi. Okanye ukuya yitshintshe ngokuthanda kwethu nendlela.
Kukho kwakhona imfuno yokuthetha kwabo, njengam, abanobuchule obungaphantsi kumagama anesandi. Kwaye kukho inkolelo ngokubanzi malunga izakhono zokutyholwa zombhali ukujongana okanye jongana neemeko ezintsha zokwenyani. Awuzange ube namava kodwa uye wakwazi ukuphinda uzenze, ukuze ube nakho ukuzilawula ngokulula. Kodwa ndiyavuma kuphela ukuba kunokwenzeka, hayi ayinyani.
Inkululeko namandla
Iyavumela ukuyenza nge inkululeko epheleleyo ukusebenzisa nasiphi na isixhobo. Okanye nokuba ungubani na. Kwaye okugqwesileyo: dlala ukuze ube nguthixo ngamandla okunika nokuthatha ubomi nakweyiphi na indalo yokwenyani okanye emnandi. Nakaninzi. Iseti ibandakanya konke utshintsho kubuntu, ubudala, isini, imeko, ubuzwe, ulwimi, kunye nombala yesikhumba. Akukho zithintelo. Njengothixo onguye, unokuthatha isigqibo sokuba ngu idemon. Kwaye akukho nto yenzekayo.
Akukho kunyanzelwa kwaye akukho luchanekileyo kwezopolitiko. I iimbongi, endibathandayo nabahlonela njengeenkosi zokudibanisa amagama, bawashukumisela ukuba benze amanani, bawajikeleze kwaye babanike ubuhle obukhethekileyo. Abo bethu abangaphezulu Iprosaic kwaye sibalisa amabali afanayo ngesantya esahlukileyo, nathi siyalonwabela elo lungelo. Kwaye siyasisebenzisa, ukuba kuyinyani kuphela.
Ityala elinye: abo kuthi bayithandayo inoveli emnyama Sisoloko sizibuza ukuba lo okanye umbhali angabumba njani ububi obuninzi, ubundlobongela kunye nezinye izikhohlakali eziqhelekileyo zengqondo engenangqondo. Kodwa yinto nje yokudlala nayo iimvakalelo ezisisiseko kunye nezendalo kunye neemvakalelo zendalo yomntu, eyona ilungileyo nembi.
Zininzi iimeko ze ababhali basindise kubomi babo enkosi kuncwadi. Ayisiyiyo impumelelo abayiphumezileyo kuphela, kodwa nosindiso lokwenyani ngokunqanda ukubaphelisa ngeyona ndlela imbi. Kufuneka ufunde, umzekelo, Iikona zam ezimnyamaNguJames Ellroy.
Imingeni yendalo
Inkululeko namandla kwakhona asivumela ukuba singene kwiigadi ezinokuthi ngamanye amaxesha zindyebe kakhulu. Ke sikhangele izikhokelo. Kulapho kuvela umbuzo odumileyo: Ngaba kufuneka sibe namava esibhala ngawo? Ngokucacileyo akunjalo. Kwaye ngokucacileyo nathi ukuba sinazo, sinokubaxelela kuqala. Kodwa inqaku lelokuba mhlawumbi, ukuba siyazisebenzisa, asizukukwenza njengoko sasihlala ngenene ngomhla wabo.
Ixesha liqabane elikhulu. Inika ubuhlanga kunye nembono. Ingakumbi ukuba idlulileyo. Kwabo bethu abangasiboneleliyo nomdla ngakumbi kunokuphila ngeyona ndlela ibhetele, okokugqibela yindalo iphela ngokwayo. Inga cinga kwakhona kwaye uphinde wenze, Bade bayila ukusuka kukhula kwabo. Kuyafana naye elizayo, inkulu kakhulu ukuyila nokuthelekelela. Ukuyibhala kwaye mhlawumbi ukuyifumana ngokuchanekileyo.
Yonke le mingeni inokunceda fumana ilizwi elilandisayo. Kungekudala umntu ofuna ukuqala ukubhala wandibuza. Kodwa andinguye umntu onokukhokela okanye anike iingcebiso. Ngamnye wahlukile kwaye ndacebisa ezona zisisiseko: "bhala malunga nento oyifunayo, into oyithandayo, kwaye uzame amazwi." Akusekho nto. Banokukufundisa nawe, kukuqeqesha, kodwa kuqala kufuneka uzizame nokuba ufiphaza amaphepha aliwaka. Kwaye ngaphezu kwako konke kufuneka uqhubeke ufunda. Ngaba ezo ukufundwa okuthandayo kunye neentlobo ezo zikwaphawula umxholo kunye nesitayile sakho.
Bhala kuba
Ngokulula. Akukho sizathu. Kungenxa nje yokwenza. Ukubetha izitshixo okanye ukuhambisa ipensile okanye usiba kwiminwe yakho kwinto engenanto, elektroniki okanye iphepha lephepha. Ngamanye amaxesha i ibinzana elinye kwimbono ebanjwe kubhabho okanye kwingcinga esinokuthi siyisebenzise kwelo bali okanye kumbongo. Kwaye ngamanye amaxesha ewe yile nto Ukuphefumlelwa oko kubonakala xa kulindelwe kancinci. Abanye banokuba ngabadumileyo umlambo wokuqonda, zithini iiSaxon, ukuba umlambo wokuqonda okanye ukuhanjiswa kwengqondo apho iingcinga zihamba khona ngaphandle kolawulo olubonakalayo.
Kodwa rhoqo, rhoqo, yedwa okanye ukukhutshwa. Ixesha nendawo. Ngokwethu. Ukuphuma kuyo okanye ukuyiguqula okanye ukwahlulahlula ngewaka. Kuba siyathanda ukubhala.