ukufa kuyinxalenye yobomi. Abancinci kufuneka baqaphele kwaye badibanise eli nqanaba ngendlela efanelekileyo yobudala babo. Kuya kubanceda bavelise izixhobo zeemvakalelo zokujongana nokufika kwelahleko, enokuthi yenzeke kwangoko okanye ngexesha lokukhula okukhulu emntwaneni. Ewe kulungile ukufa yinto yendalo kwaye kufuneka kwaziwe, ngaphandle kokujongelwa phantsi okanye kucingwe ngendlela eyoyikekayo, ingqalelo ekhethekileyo kufuneka ihlawulwe ekuqondeni nasekunqobeni intlungu, xa ukufa kuye kwaba buhlungu okanye kwenzeke ngaphambi kwexesha layo.
Ntsapho nganye imele ikhethe eyona ndlela ilungileyo yokungenisa ukufa kubomi babantwana babo, babazukulwana, nabatshana. Ngokufunda siphakamisa ezi zixhobo zilandelayo ukuba zinokuba ziinketho ezilungileyo zokwenza lo mbandela we-taboo kuluntu lwethu ube yinkalo ecacileyo neqhelekileyo yobomi kubantwana.
Ngalo lonke ixesha (+3 iminyaka)
Njalo Libali elomeleza ingcamango yokuba abantu bahlala kwiinkumbulo zethu nasezintliziyweni zethu. nokuba ngenye imini bayahamba. Abahambi ngonaphakade; ixesha abaye bahlala kunye lanele ukuba bakhumbule kwaye babe nombulelo ngaloo mntu. Eli bali libhekisa kumama. UBhere uyazi ukuba unina uyamkhusela kwaye uyamthanda, uyonwabile ecaleni kwakhe kwaye ufunda izinto ezininzi kunye naye, zithwala izinto, njengokuloba okanye ukuqokelela ubusi. UOsito wonwabile nonina kangangokuba ngenye imini uyazibuza ukuba inoba kwenzekani xa ngenye imini engekho. Umama uchaza ukuba oku kuya kwenzeka ngokuqinisekileyo ngenye imini, kodwa uya kumfundisa amandla othando ngaphandle kobukho bakhe.
Uthetha njani nabantwana bakho malunga nokufa kunye nentlungu (+3 iminyaka)
Le ncwadi inceda abazali nabantwana bahlangabezane nokufelwa ngumntu abamthandayo. Kwabo bangaphambili, unika izalathisi kunye nemigaqo yokufundisa ebanceda bacacisele abantwana babo oko kuthethwa kukufa, kwenzeka ntoni xa ilungu lentsapho okanye umntu esimthandayo esifa, indlela yokusabela kuko noko kwenzekayo emva koko. Owokugqibela uya kukwazi ukufumana intuthuzelo nokuqonda ngemizekeliso yakhe nangendlela yakhe eyakhayo. Ngale ncwadi abakhathaleli kunye nabantwana Baya kufumana iimpendulo kumathandabuzo anokuvela ngalo mbandela..
Utat'omkhulu yinkwenkwezi (+3 iminyaka)
Licwecwe elinemifanekiso elikhusela umbono wengcinga njengesiseko sokoyisa ukufa komntu othandekayo.njengootatomkhulu noomakhulu. Incwadi enceda ukucacisela abantwana abancinci endlwini ukuba kwenzeka ntoni xa loo mntu eyeka ukubakho; kuyanceda kwinkqubo yokwamkelwa nokuqonda ukuba utatomkhulu waya ezulwini kwaye ukusuka apho uya kuhlala ehamba nomncinci.
Ndingukufa (+5 iminyaka)
Ndim ukufa ibhukuqa ingcamango yesithethe yokufa, edla ngokumelwa ngendlela eyoyikekayo nemnyama. Ngokuchasene noko, kwayeKule ncwadi ukufa kubonakala kuhlobo lomfazi, ocacileyo kunye nomama ohamba kunye nazo zonke izinto eziphilayo. (abantu, izilwanyana kunye nezityalo) kuhambo lwabo lokugqibela lobomi. Uyenza ngothando nangombono oguqulayo wolu hambo. Ngokukwanjalo, ichaza ukuba ukufa kunokufikelela kungekuphela nje abantu abadala, kodwa kwanabancinane, abantwana okanye iintsana ezingekazalwa. Isiphumo kukuba a Ingcamango ethuthuzelayo yokulahlekelwa luthando kungekhona kuloyiko, inika ukukhanya kwimpendulo yokuba kutheni kufuneka sife.
Umthi weenkumbulo (+5 iminyaka)
Ijongana nembono yokufa ngempungutye evala amehlo emva kobomi obude kunye nolonwabo.. Udiniwe kwaye ujonge ihlathi lakhe, indawo ebelikhaya lakhe ubomi bakhe bonke, okokugqibela. Ukufa kwe-fox kubonwa ekuvunyweni, kwaye intlungu yokuhamba kwayo iqinisekisiwe, kodwa iphinda ikhunjulwe, kuba umntu ohambayo, ngendlela efanayo, usaphila kwimemori yethu. Ibali elingaqhelekanga nelichukumisayo intliziyo.
Akunanto (+5 iminyaka)
Ukuziva ungento yanto yinto enokukhapha abantu abadala kunye nabantwana. Inokwenzeka ngezizathu ezahlukeneyo, esinye sazo kukulahlekelwa ngumntu omthandayo. Emva koko kukho isithuba esinzulu esinokukunika i-vertigo kwaye kunzima ukuyizalisa. vacío nikela ingqalelo ekhethekileyo kwinyani yokuzalisa eso sikhewu, kuba asiyiyo yonke into esebenzayo ukusomeleza kwaye sizive sizolile kwaye siseluxolweni.. Eli libali likaJulia, intombazana ekhokelela ubomi obuqhelekileyo de kube ngenye imini ivakalelwa ngumngxuma obangelwa yinto engakwazi ukuyichaza. Kule ncwadi umfundi (omdala okanye umntwana) uya kuba nako ukufumana isisombululo kwintsingiselo yobomi.
Ngonaphakade (+7 iminyaka)
Kule ncwadi zonke iimvakalelo ezibakho xa sifelwe zibonakaliswa. Awufuni ukufihla nantoni na kwinkqubo yokuba buhlungu kunye nokuqonda ukuhamba kunye nokuhamba kakuhle. Iimeko ezahlukeneyo kunye nemiba ehlasela abancinci iyacetywa: ukungabi nanto, intlungu, ubomi emva kokufa. Le ncwadi iphendula imfuneko yokuchaza ukuba ukufa sisibakala esibalulekileyo nesingokwemvelo esifanele siqondwe kwasebuntwaneni. Usebenzisa amandla enkumbulo ukuthuthuzela umntwana xa ebandezeleka ngenxa yokufelwa ngumntu obalulekileyo ebomini bakhe.
Ngaphezulu (+7 iminyaka)
Abalinganiswa beli bali liqela lezilwanyana zesekisi ezichazayo, ngokombono wabo, oko kulele ngaphaya kokufa.. Khuthaza abantwana ukuba benze ezabo izimvo ngokubulela kwiimbono ezahlukeneyo zezilwanyana. Bathetha ngeenkcubeko neenkolelo ezahlukeneyo: ubuKatolika, ubuBhuda okanye inkcubeko yaseMexico zezinye zazo. Into ebaluleke kakhulu kukuba umntwana ufumanisa ukuba nayiphi na inketho inendawo ukuba ukholelwa kuyo kwaye ikunika impilo kunye noxolo lwengqondo. Ixabiso longezwa kwinto eyahlukileyo komnye kwaye ifundiswa ukuba akukho nto ibhetele kunenye ingcamango. Ukongeza ekuqondeni ukufa, ufunda ukuhlonela ezinye iimbono kunye nolwazi.
