Kukho amaxesha ebomini apho imeko yethu yengqondo ingeyiyo eyeyona ilungileyo, kwaye nokuba sizama kangakanani na, asizukuphuma kulusizi nakukudimazeka. Ngesi sizathu, ngamanye amaxesha, kwanezona ncwadi zokuzinceda ezilungileyo zisivumela ukuba sincike kwinto ethile, inkolelo esisinika amandla okuqhubela phambili.
Ukuba uzifumana ukwimeko enje kwaye ufuna inkxaso, namhlanje sifuna ukubonelela nge Ezona ncwadi zokuzinceda zifumaneka kwiimarike. Ngoku, khumbula ukuba ziincwadi, kwaye zinokukwenza ukuba ucinge ngokwahlukileyo. Kodwa amandla okuphuma kule ndawo ukuyo nguwe kuphela.
Ngaba iincwadi zokuzinceda ziyasebenza?
Sifuna ukunyaniseka kuwe. Iincwadi zokuzinceda ziincwadana apho, ngamagama ababhali, umntu ofuna uncedo ajolise ekuqwalaseleni okwenzekileyo, Kutheni le nto uwe kule meko kwaye ungayijonga njani ingxaki ngokungagungqiyo kwisisombululo esipheleleyo.
Kwaye kukuba, xa umbi, uhlala usondela kwingxaki kwicala elingalunganga, lobuqu ... ngaphandle kokuthathela ingqalelo zonke izinto ezingqongileyo ezinokuba nefuthe, kwimeko nakwisisombululo sengxaki .
Ngokwemvelo, uninzi lwabantu ludla ngokucinga kakubi xa lunengxaki kwaye lubangela iziphumo ezibangela ukuba batshixelwe kwisangqa esikhohlakeleyo esinokuba likhoboka. Ngesi sizathu, kukho amaxesha apho ibinzana lomntu, umhlobo okanye umntu ongamaziyo, asebenzise i-chip ekunika amandla owadingayo ukuze uphume koloyiko lobubi kwaye ujongane nobomi kwakhona.
Kwenzeka into efanayo kwimeko yeencwadi zokunceda abantu. Yintoni ababhali abayifunayo yile La magama atshona ngokunzulu ekukunikeni amandla okuba naphambili. Ayilulo unyango, okanye nayiphi na incwadi enokukunceda ukuba usombulule iingxaki zakho; inokwenziwa nguwe kuphela. Kodwa kufuneka uyeke ukuzisizela ukuze uyenze.
Kwaye, njengoko iqhalo lamaTshayina lisitsho, "Ukuba uwa izihlandlo ezilishumi, vuka ulishumi elinanye." Ingaba ithetha ntoni? Ukuba umntu womelele ngokwaneleyo ukuba abuyele kwakhona nakweyiphi na impilo ayenzayo kuwe. Asingombuzo wokubambelela kwincwadi; kodwa ukulwela into oyifunayo. Ewe kunokubiza ngaphezulu ngalo lonke ixesha, kodwa abantu, njengebali lebhokisi kaPandora, soze balahle ithemba, nokuba liyancipha.
Ezona ncwadi zilungileyo zokuzinceda esizicebisayo
Konke okuthethileyo, ngekhe sithi akukho zincwadi zokuzinceda ezisebenza ngokwenene. Kukho abathile abaza kukunika isandla, njengohlobo lokuqeqesha, ukuze uhlalutye ingxaki kwaye uphume kuloo meko. Ayizukuyisombulula ingxaki, kodwa iya kukwenza ucinge ngokwahlukileyo kwaye ikuvumela ukuba wenze izinto ezintsha, wenze kwaye ufumane izisombululo ezingakhange zenzeke kuwe.
Ngaba uyafuna ukwazi ukuba zeziphi ezona ncwadi zokuzinceda ezizezethu? Gcina ukhumbula ukuba zikhethwe kuphela, kwaye ayizizo zonke ezisebenza kubo bonke abantu; nganye inokusetyenziselwa uhlobo lomntu kodwa ingekho kwenye.
Zithande njengobomi bakho buxhomekeke kuyo
Le ncwadi ibhalwe ngu I-Kamal Ravikant yenye yezona zinto zilungele abo banesidima. Kwaye ngamanye amaxesha uluntu lukhohlakele kangangokuba, kwabo bahlukileyo, nokuba kungenxa yeekilos ezimbalwa ezongezelelekileyo, kuba bakrelekrele ngakumbi, okanye nangaso nasiphi na esinye isizathu babenza babonakale ngathi balahliwe, xa kunganyanzelekanga ukuba yibani njalo.
Ukuba ungomnye wabo bangazithandiyo, le ncwadi inokugqibelela ukunxibelelana nawe kwaye ubone ukuba yonke into ocinga ukuba kuphela kwento eyenzayo kukuzilimaza.
Guqula ingqondo yakho nge-NLP
Ibhalwe nguWendy Jago, isebenzisa i-neurolinguistics, ekwabizwa ngokuba sisichazi esithi NLP, ukuseka utshintsho kwingqondo. Kwaye, njengokuba abathengi "banokucengwa" ukuba bathenge iimveliso, ungenza kwakhona ukuseta kwakhona kwingqondo yakho ukuze uzitshintshe.
Ngapha koko, le yenye yeencwadi zokuzinceda ezizezona zinconyelwa ziingcali zeengqondo kunye nabaqeqeshi bokukhula.
Inkohliso ye-Icarus
Ibhalwe nguSeth Godin, ijongene nayo iinkolelo zokuphela kokuzikholelwa kwaye zisikel'umda xa kuziwa ebomini. Umzekelo, inyani yokuba awukwazi ukwenza le okanye leya into kuba awuloncedo, okanye kuba uhlala usixelelwe ukuba awufanelanga. Uyazivimba kwaye ukholelwe into ekunganyanzelekanga ukuba ibe yinyani.
Yiyo loo nto le ncwadi izama ukuba ubhence loo mida ilawula ubomi bakho kwaye uyihlalutye, uyayiqonda nyani ukuba ichanekile okanye akunjalo, kwaye, ngale ndlela, wophula izithintelo nayo yonke into ekwenza ungaziphosi into oyithandayo.
Ungazoyisa njani ngamaxesha obunzima
Isuka kwi-Shad Helmstetter, enye yeencwadi ezinempumelelo kumaxesha akhoyo. Kwaye kukuba, njengoko isantya sikhula, imisebenzi inyamalala kwaye isenza ukuba kubenzima ngakumbi ukuba sizinze kwimarike yezabasebenzi, inokuba yenye yeencwadi zokuzinceda ezilungileyo kukugcwalise ngamandla kwaye ujongane nezi ngxaki ngendlela elungileyo.
Ubugcisa bokungabonakalisi ubomi
Le ncwadi kaRafael Santandreu ifuna ukuvula amehlo akho kwaye ubone ukuba uninzi lweengxaki zemvakalelo onazo zibangelwa iinkolelo eziphosakeleyo zoluntu ekufuneka siphile kuzo. Ngaphezu koko, ubonakalisa incwadi yakhe ngamava okwenyani abantu abaye bafikelela kuxinzelelo olukhulu kwaye bajongana noloyiko lwabo olukhulu lokuqhubela phambili.
Amandla ngaphandle kwemida
Ukusuka kuTony Robbins, lo mbhali utyhila amandla okwenyani engqondo yakho, le ikuxelela ukuba yonke into oyifunayo ungayifumana ukuba uyayilwela. Ingxaki kukuba ngamanye amaxesha sikhokelwa ngakumbi ziimvo ezimbi okanye izinto ezimbi kubangela ekugqibeleni inkohliso yokuba kufuneka sinyamalale, okanye silahlekelwe sisazela. Kodwa, enkosi kumagama akule ncwadi, ungatshintsha i-chip engqondweni yakho, usebenzisa inkqubo ye-neurolinguistic kunye ne-Emotional Intelligence.
Ngenye yeencwadi ezilungileyo zokuzinceda ezisebenza njengesikhokelo sokunganikezeli.