U-Isabel Allende ngomnye wababhali ababhale ezona ncwadi zininzi. Kwaziwa kwihlabathi jikelele, Umbhali ophawulwe ngokuba "Indlu yeMimoya" usishiyile, kubo bonke ubomi bakhe, ukucinga okuninzi, abanye baqokelelwa kwiincwadi zakhe, kwaye abanye kudliwano-ndlebe oluye lwenziwa nombhali.
Ngeli xesha besifuna qulunqa uluhlu lwamabinzana adumileyo kuzo zombini umsebenzi ka-Isabel Allende njengoko kudliwano-ndlebe lwakhe ukufunda ngenye inkalo yombhali waseChile. Ngaba uyafuna ukubajonga?
U-Isabel Allende, ubomi obungaphaya kweencwadi zakhe
UIsabel Allende wazalwa ngowe-1942 eLima, ePeru. Uyintombi yoonozakuzaku, ngokukodwa uTomás Allende Pesce kunye noFrancisca Llona Barros, kwaye ukwanamaqhina egazi (ungumtshana) kaSalvador Allende, umongameli waseChile kwiminyaka yoo-70s. Ungoyena mdala kubantakwabo abathathu (unababini). abazalwana abancinci).
Kwiminyaka embalwa ubudala, abazali baka-Allende bahlukana waza yena, kunye nabantakwabo, baya kuhlala eChile. Xa wayeneminyaka elishumi elinanye wafudukela eBolivia apho waye wafunda kwisikolo sabucala sesiNgesi.
Xa wayeneminyaka eyi-17 wabuyela eChile kwaye, kwiminyaka emine kamva, Watshata noMiguel Frías, awaba nabantwana ababini., uPaula, owafa ngowe-1992 (naye wabhala incwadi ngaye); kunye noNicholas.
Wahlala eChile de kwangowe-1973, xa kwabakho ubhukuqo-mbuso yaye kwafuneka alishiye elo lizwe aye eVenezuela, apho wahlala khona de kwangowe-1988.
Nangona kunjalo, Ngelo xesha iincwadi zakhe zazisele ziqala ukubonakala kwaye oko kwakuthetha ukuba kufuneka ahambe rhoqo. ukukhuthaza iincwadi zabo. Ewe kunjalo Waphulukana nomtshato wakhe.
Nangona kunjalo, waphinda wafumana uthando negqwetha uWillie Gordon awatshata naye ngo-1988 eSan Francisco yaye, kwiminyaka engama-27 kamva, bohlukana.
Okwangoku, u-Isabel Allende uhlala eUnited States.
Amabinzana angama-50 adumileyo ngu-Isabel Allende
U-Isabel Allende, ukusukela ngo-2024, uya kuba neminyaka engama-82 kwaye kulo lonke ixesha lakhe lokufunda usishiyele amabinzana adumileyo ekufanele ukuba siwafunde. Apha senze ukuhlanganiswa kwezi.
Ukuthandana kufana nokukhanya kwemini kwaye akufuneki ukuba ubukho bomnye buzibonakalise. Ukwahlulwa phakathi kwabantu kukwangumbono, kuba yonke into ibumbene kwindalo iphela.
Akukho kukhanya ngaphandle kwesithunzi, kanye njengokuba kungekho lonwabo ngaphandle kwentlungu.
Mhlawumbi sikulo mhlaba ukukhangela uthando, ukufumanisa kwaye ulahlekelwe, ngokuphindaphindiweyo. Ngothando ngalunye, sizalwa ngokutsha, kwaye ngothando ngalunye oluphelayo sithatha inxeba elitsha. Ndigutyungelwe zizikratshi ezinekratshi.
Uloyiko alunakuphepheka, kufuneka ndilwamkele, kodwa andikwazi ukuluvumela lundikhubaze.
Abantu abayifundi into abangenamdla kuyo kwaye ukuba banomdla oko kuthetha ukuba sele beqole ngokwaneleyo ukuba benze oko.
Uthando lusenza silunge. Ayinamsebenzi ukuba sithanda bani, akunamsebenzi ukubuyiselwa okanye ukuba ubudlelwane buhlala ixesha elide. Amava othando anele, ayasiguqula.
Kuyinyani emangalisayo ukuba izinto esizifunayo ebomini - injongo yenjongo, ukonwaba kunye nethemba- zifezekiseka ngokulula ngokunika abanye.
Ukubhala kufana nokwenza uthando. Sukuba nexhala malunga ne-orgasm, ukhathazeke ngenkqubo.
Kunceda ntoni ukuba namava, ulwazi okanye italente ukuba andiphikisi ngayo? Kutheni ndazi amabali ukuba andiwaxeleli abanye? Kutheni ubutyebi ndingabelani nabo? Andizimiselanga kutshiswa ngayo nayiphi na loo nto! Kukupha okundidibanisa nabanye, nehlabathi kunye nobungcwele.
Uphila ... Kancinci yonke imihla, kufana nohambo olungenanjongo, into ebalulekileyo yindlela.
Ndiyazisola ngokutya, izitya ezimnandi ezikhatyiweyo, njengoko ndizisolayo ngeziganeko zokwenza uthando endiluphosileyo ngenxa yokwenza okanye ukulunga.
Intliziyo yiyo esiqhubayo kwaye ichaze ikamva lethu.
Sonke ngoku sikwiminyaka yokulahla iimvakalelo ezingasincedi nganjongo, kwaye sigcine kuphela ezo zisinceda siphile.
Kubafazi, ezona aphrodisiacs zibalaseleyo ngamagama. Indawo ye-G isezindlebeni. Nabani na ofuna ngezantsi uchitha ixesha.
Oko kuye kwenzeka akunakulungiswa. Oko kuzayo kunokuphuculwa, kodwa ixesha elidlulileyo alinakuguqulwa.
Mhlawumbi kuya kuba lula ukuba awuzami ukulawula umzimba wakho ngengqondo yakho. Kuya kufuneka ufane nengwe yeHimalaya, utyekelo olusulungekileyo kunye nokuzimisela.
Ukuba andibhalanga, umphefumlo wam uyoma kwaye ufe.
Andifuni nzala, andifuni mntu ozondikhumbula nangayiphi na indlela. Andiyikhathalelanga loo nto kuba ndizobe ndifile. Ndiyakholelwa ukuba umoya uya kufudukela kwelinye ilizwe.
Ukuxhobisa abasetyhini kuthetha ukubathemba.
Kufuneka ubethe ezantsi, emva koko ukhabe kwaye unyuke uye phezulu kwakhona. Iingxaki zilungile, zikuphela kwendlela yokukhula kunye nokutshintsha.
Ubuhlobo bokwenene bumelana nexesha, umgama kunye nokuthula.
Ngomso liphepha elingenanto.
Ithala leencwadi lihlala yimimoya ephuma emaphepheni ebusuku.
Umntu wenza oko anako; Umfazi wenza into engenziwa yindoda.
Sonke sinokugcinwa okungalindelekanga kwamandla okuvela xa kuvavanywa ubomi.
Akukho nkululeko ngaphandle kokuzimela kwezoqoqosho.
Ukufunda kufana nokujonga kwiifestile ezininzi ezivuleleka kwimbonakalo-mhlaba engapheliyo. Kum, ubomi ngaphandle kokufunda bebuya kufana nokuba sejele, bekuya kuba ngathi umoya wam usengxakini. Ubomi buya kuba yindawo emnyama nemxinwa.
Ndiyakuthembisa ukuba abasetyhini abasebenza kunye, benxibelelene, benolwazi kwaye befundile, banokuzisa uxolo kunye nempumelelo kulo mhlaba ushiyiweyo.
Kuyinyani emangalisayo ukuba izinto esizifunayo ebomini - injongo yenjongo, ukonwaba kunye nethemba- zifezekiseka ngokulula ngokunika abanye.
Ikhamera sisixhobo esilula, kwaneyona i-inept inokuyisebenzisa, umngeni kukudala kunye nokudibanisa inyaniso kunye nobuhle obubizwa ngokuba bubugcisa.
Ubudala, ngokwayo, ayenzi nabani na ongcono okanye osisilumko, bugxininisa kuphela into ehlala iyiyo.
Esona siphako sam sesokuba ndixela iimfihlo, ezam nezabanye.
Uthando luyinkontileka yamahhala eqala kwintlantsi kwaye inokuphela ngendlela efanayo. Iwaka leengozi liyayisongela kwaye ukuba isibini siyayikhusela inokusindiswa, ikhule njengomthi kwaye inike umthunzi neziqhamo, kodwa oko kwenzeka kuphela ukuba bobabini bathatha inxaxheba.
Uloyiko lulungile, yinkqubo ye-alarm yomzimba, iyasilumkisa ngengozi; Kodwa ngamanye amaxesha ingozi ayinakuphepheka kwaye uloyiko kufuneka loyiswe.
Ubomi bam benziwe ngokwahlukileyo, ndiye ndafunda ukubona amacala omabini engqekembe. Ngalo mzuzu wokuphumelela okukhulu andiphulukani nombono wokuba abanye abanentlungu enkulu bandilindile endleleni, kwaye xa ndiphantsi kweshwangusha ndilinda ilanga eliya kuphuma kamva.
Yintoni eyinyani kunenyaniso? Impendulo: ibali.
Jongana nezithintelo njengoko zivela, musa ukuchitha amandla esoyika okuza kwenzeka.
Izilwanyana azikhohlakala njengabantu, zibulala kuphela ukuzikhusela okanye xa zilambile.
Amava anamhlanje ziinkumbulo zangomso.
Ungumbalisi wobomi bakho kwaye unokwenza eyakho intsomi, okanye hayi.
Bendingumntu wangaphandle phantse ubomi bam bonke, imeko endiyamkelayo kuba andinayo enye indlela.
Kufuneka ubeke imfazwe eninzi. Akukho mntu unobuganga bokujongana nezinja eziphambeneyo, kodwa zikhaba ezi mbuna. Kufuneka uhlale ulwa.
Iinyanga ezimbalwa zokuqala zobomi bam nyaka ngamnye kukurhoxa ngokupheleleyo. Andiboni mntu ngaphandle komyeni nenja yam, andithethi namntu ndibhala qha.
Uninzi lwabantu luziva bebancinci kuneminyaka yabo, kodwa inkcubeko ixabisa ulutsha, impumelelo, ubuhle kunye nemveliso. Akukho ndawo kule nkcubeko yabantu abadala.
Sonke siza kufa, kuphela kwento eqinisekileyo.
Ikhalenda yinto eyenziwe ngabantu; ixesha kwinqanaba lomoya alikho.
Wena usisithunywa sam nesigwebo sam. Ebukhoneni bakho ndifumana uvuyo olungcwele kwaye xa ungekho ndihla ndiye esihogweni.
Ngoku, kunjalo, sinababhali bembali abantsundu, kodwa badla ngokuba ngamadoda. Sisoloko sinombono, imbono ecalanye, yento eyenzekileyo. Amadabi, izinto eziphunyeziweyo, imithetho, kodwa baphi abantu, iintsapho? Kwenzeka ntoni ezindlwini, ezingqondweni nasezintliziyweni? Yiloo nto endinomdla kuyo.
Akukho mfazi onengqiqo ofuna umyeni wesingxungxo.
Ekugqibeleni, unako kuphela oko ukunikezile.
Ngaba uyawazi amanye amabinzana ka-Isabel Allende ofuna ukwabelana ngawo? Yiyeke kuthi kwizimvo.