Amanga akho amnandi kakhulu: Indaba enzima phakathi kokuthokozela kokudla.
UMary Goodin usinikeze 2013 Amanga akho amnandi. Kulokhu, kuze kube manje inoveli kuphela, wathulula inhliziyo yakhe nesipiliyoni sakhe njengesisebenzi sokuzithandela esikhungweni sabagula ngengqondo.
Kunezikhathi, abantu abanazo indaba yokutshela umhlaba futhi eyodwa kuphela. Endabeni kaGoodin, owayebhekene nedrama yomphakathi kwinoveli yokudla, wakha indaba ehlukile, lapho iqiniso lihlangana nenganekwane, lisonteka, lihlukane liphinde libhajwe kalula.
Maria Goodin uyaba ubani?
UMaria wazalelwa eNgilandi, lapho aqhubeka nokuhlala khona, eHertfordshire. Ngeziqu zemibhalo yesiNgisi, usebenze njenge-Administrative yokuphatha, uthisha kanye nokwelapha i-massage Therapist. Esidlangalaleni Amanga akho amnandi eNgilandi nesicoco I-Nutmeg, esuselwa endabeni enegama elifanayo, yalandelwa e-Australia ngesihloko Indodakazi Yomxoxi futhi kamuva e-United States ngesihloko Kusuka Ekhishini Leqiniso Elihhafu. Ngemuva kokumakethwa emazweni akhuluma isiNgisi, yahunyushelwa olimini lwesiNtaliyane, isiJalimane, iSweden neSpanish.
Ngubani kithi ongaqinisekisa ubuqiniso bezinkumbulo zakhe?
Sazi kanjani ukuthi izinto esiziphilayo zingokoqobo noma zingumkhiqizo wemicabango yethu?
Amanga akho amnandi Yincwadi yalezo ozifunda ntambama, lapho amakhasi evuleka khona unganakile ngenkathi iminyango equkethe imizwa ivulekile nendlala ikhula ukuqhubeka nokungena endabeni. Lokhu akulona ukuphela kwendlala elikhiqizayo ngoba ukuthokozela kokudla okudla ngomzimba kuba ngomunye umlingiswa ophambili.
Inoveli ayinayo abalingiswa ngokujulile, sibazi kuphela kuze kube sezingeni lokuthi bayalusekela udaba uMaria afuna ukuluxoxa. Akuzona izinhlamvu eziyindilinga futhi nokho baba esingenakulibaleka noma isikhathi sihamba nezinye izincwadi zihlala endaweni efinyeleleka kakhulu enkumbulweni yethu.
I-protagonist, uMeg, inothando ngesayensi eyakhulela phakathi kwephunga lesitshulu nama-glazes aphuma esitofini sikamama owayegoqa ubuntwana bakhe ezinganekwaneni nasezinganekwaneni. Umhlaba omnandi futhi omuhle lapho umama wakhe amkhulisa khona njengo-Alice eWonderland, umlethele nje ukunengeka selokhu afunda nabo baqala ukumhlekisa.
«Enkumbulweni yami yokuqala ngimncane kakhulu futhi ngihleli ekhishini nomama wami osezosika ubhontshisi okhuphukayo. Ngokungazelelwe baphunyuka ezandleni zabo bese baqala ukukhuphuka ifenisha »« - »« Ubhontshisi ungikitaza futhi angikwazi ukuyeka ukuhleka »
Iqiniso lifihliwe othandweni nasemaphusheni
Ngenkathi abantu abadala abaningi bekhumbula umhlaba omnandi wobuntwana, UMeg ukuthola kunzima ukuhlukanisa ukuthi yikuphi okuhlangenwe nakho kwakhe kwasebuntwaneni futhi yiziphi izindaba umama wakhe amcabangele zona. Akazi ukuthi ubuntwana bakhe babunjani, yingakho engathandi ukukhuluma ngakho. Uyesaba ukukuqhathanisa nokucabanga okunengqondo kwabantu abaseduze kwakhe. Njengowesifazane osekhulile, akafuni ukuzwa noma yini engachazwa ngesizathu, udinga ukuphepha okunikezwa ngumqondo. Ukungabaza kwabo kanye nokulangazelela kwabo ukunamathela kulokho okungatholakala, kusenza sizibuze ukuthi zingaki izinto esizikhumbulayo eziyiqiniso, zingaki umkhiqizo walokho abasitshele kona nokuthi inkumbulo yethu isethwe njengeyayo, nokuthi ingxube engakanani phakathi kwalaba ababili.
Ukukhungatheka kukaMeg nonina kuzonikeza indlela ukutholwa kweqiniso elifihlwe ngobuhlakani yisihenqo sokukhohlisa umama amgoqa ngaso esengumntwana. Ingabe i- Indaba imnandi njengoba ihlala, idayari ehlukanisiwe, enesigqi futhi engaguquguquki, ekhuluma ngothando ngaphezu kwazo zonke izinto futhi lokho kusifundisa ukuthi inkumbulo neqiniso ngokuvamile akuqondani, kodwa futhi kusenza sikuqonde lokho lokho akwenzi inkumbulo ibe ngeqiniso noma iqiniso libe ngokoqobo ngokwengeziwe. Okuhle nokubi, siphila futhi sizwa lokho ubuchopho bethu obukholelwayo: Ukuthi kwenzekile yini noma cha akubalulekile.
Kuyindaba yokufunda wedwa ukulungele ukuhleka, ukukhala, ukujabula futhi Ukukholelwa ukuthi ubuhle bomuntu bungakhanya ebubini bomhlaba noma bungeke bukuqede.
Ikusasa lisilethelani kuGoodin?
Ngingathanda ukufunda uMaria Goodin futhi, mhlawumbe ngidinga isikhathi esithe xaxa noma mhlawumbe bekuyikho lokhu okuwukuphela kwendaba yakhe, isipho sakhe kuzo zonke izingane ezikhulela endaweni lapho kungafanele neze zihlale khona, ukuhlonipha kwakhe bonke omama abavikela izingane zabo ezimweni ezimbi kakhulu. Uma kunjalo, ngiyabonga ngenoveli yakho, Maria. Noma kunjalo, ikwazile ukwakha isahluko sesikhathi esedlule, noma kwesinye isikhathi singacabanga ukuthi sikucabangile nje.