Ukufundisa izingane akulula ngaso sonke isikhathi. Abazali abaningi bazovuma ukuthi, yize benolwazi oluningi oluvela kochwepheshe bezengqondo noma kothisha bezemfundo, Uma kuziwa ekusebenziseni iseluleko sakhe, inkolelo-mbono ayivumelaniswa kahle ngaso sonke isikhathi ukuze yenziwe.
Kunezincwajana eziningi kodwa kunezikhathi lapho izincwadi zingafundisa ngobuciko ukuthi abazali kufanele noma bangaziphathi kanjani phambi kwezingane zabo.
Enye yezincwadi okufanele iphathwe njengeyisimangaliso Umhlahlandlela wokufundisa uthi: “Amor y Pedagogía” kaMiguel de Unamuno. Le noveli ikhombisa thina esakhiweni sayo lokho ubaba okungafanele akwenze nezingane zakhe.
Isakhiwo sencwadi sigxile endodeni, uDon Avito, ezithi ziveza ubuhlakani. Ngenxa yalokhu, ukhetha ngisho nowesifazane othile omvumela leyo njongo. Yize ekugcineni ethandana nomunye wesifazane, uMaría, futhi enendodana naye, umqondo wakhe ususelwa eqinisweni lokuthi ubuhlakani bungenziwa nokuthi ukuphelela kungafinyelelwa.
Ngalokhu kukhulelwa ifundisa indodana yakhe, u-Apolodoro, kukho konke akholelwa ukuthi kuyadingeka ukufeza izinhloso zakhe, ngaleyo ndlela imhlukanise nelungelo lakhe lokuba yingane. Ukugwema, ngakho-ke, noma yikuphi ukuxhumana nalokho okungaphazamisa imfundo yabo. Ubuye aze afike emkhawulweni wokumncisha uthando lukanina ukuze agweme ubuthakathaka obukhona besikhathi esizayo.
"Uthando nokufundisa" kuseyihaba lokho okufunwa abazali abaningi ngezingane zabo. Umkhuba wokuthi kwesinye isilinganiso, kuyaphindwa kaningi lapho izingane zidonswa ukuba zenze okuthile, zifunde ngokuya ngeziyalo noma ukubamba iqhaza emisebenzini ethile ezingayithandi. Ngoba nje abazali bakuthola kuzuzisa ekukhuleni kwabo nasekukhuleni kwabo.
Ekugcineni, kugcina sekungumuntu omdala okholelwa okungcono kakhulu kwengane ngaphandle kokuzibuza ukuthi ikuthanda noma cha. UDon Avito ufuna indodana yakhe ibe yingcweti ngokufunda ngolaka. Inhloso yakhe, ngokunengqondo, ukwenza okuhle ku-Apolodoro kodwa ekugcineni akakwazanga ukwenza ubuhlakani kepha abe usizi.
Ngalesi sizathu ngicabanga ukuthi kuyinoveli enhle yabo bonke abazali, abanezinhloso ezinhle emhlabeni, Bafuna izingane zabo zibe munye noma ezinye kepha bayakhohlwa, njengoba kwenza uDon Avito, ukuthi bajabule ngempela.
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