I-Metira, nguCare Santos, yenye yeencwadi ezaziwa kakhulu kulutsha. Bade bayithumele kumaziko amaninzi njengofundo olusisinyanzelo apho kufuneka benze isishwankathelo sencwadi ethi Lie.
Ukuba ungaphezulu kwabantwana kwaye ufuna ukwazi kuqala malunga nantoni na le ncwadi kwaye kufuneka ulindele ukuba abantwana bakho bafunde, ngoko siya kukunika isishwankathelo kunye nabalinganiswa kunye nesakhiwo.
obhale ubuxoki
Umthombo: Yintoni-ukufunda
Umbhali obhale incwadi ethi Mentira nguCare Santos. Yi Umbhali kunye nomgxeki waseSpain owaqala umsebenzi wakhe wokubhala ngo-1995, ngomthamo wamabali amafutshane, Iintsomi zeCitrus.
Unesidanga soMthetho kunye neHispanic Philology kwiYunivesithi yaseBarcelona. Waqala ukusebenza njengentatheli kwiDiario de Barcelona nangona ekwapapashe kwi-ABC okanye ku-El Mundo.
ufumene iimbasa ezininzi ngamabali abo, kwaye kwanomnye wabo, amagumbi avaliweyo, aguqulelwe kwi-miniseries kwi-TVE kwi-2014.
Ngokubhekisele Lie, wayipapasha ngo-2014 kwaye yayisisityhilelo kubafundisi-ntsapho abaninzi ababona isifundo esasijoliswe kakhulu kubantu abatsha nesisebenza kwimbali yanamhlanje nalapho ulutsha olufikisayo lwalunokuchongwa khona. Le noveli ifumene ibhaso le-Edebé loLutsha loLutsha.
Ngabaphi abaphulaphuli benzelwe ubuxoki
Njengoko besesitshilo ngaphambili, incwadi ethi Lie by Care Santos idla ngokuba yenye yezo zithunyelwa njengofundo olusisinyanzelo kumabanga aphakamileyo. Kodwa kweyiphi iminyaka? Ngokutsho kompapashi ngokwakhe, le ncwadi yenzelwe yona amakhwenkwe kunye namantombazana ukusuka 14 iminyaka ubudala. Oko kukuthi, ekufikiseni ngokupheleleyo.
Ukuba siyayithathela ingqalelo into yokuba ibali libalisa kakhulu ngokuhambelana noko kwenziwa ngabantwana ngelo xesha, sinokubona indlela engenye yeencwadi abanokuchongwa kakuhle kuzo.
Ngoku, akuthethi ukuba akwenzeki ukufunda usemncinane; Yonke into iya kuxhomekeka ekuvuthweni kwenkwenkwe okanye intombazana. Kwaye usenokuyifunda xa uneminyaka eli-15, 16, 20 okanye 30 ubudala kuba ibalisa into enokwenzeka nanini na.
yintoni isishwankathelo sencwadi
Apha sikushiya Isishwankathelo sobuxoki ukuze ubone kancinci ukuba kuqhubeka ntoni.
U-Xenia uyasokola ukufumana awona mabanga abalaseleyo, eqhutywa yinkohliso yokungena kwiMedicine, kodwa mva nje ukusebenza kwakhe kuyehla. Kwaye kukuba u-Xenia uye wathandana, nangona kungekhona nenkwenkwe evela kwindawo yakhe, kodwa ngesiporho, ngelizwi elaphuma kwi-Intanethi awabelana ngalo ngokuthanda kwakhe ukufunda. Njengoko u-Xenia ezimisele kwaye uthando lwakhe lwenyani luyala umhla, uzimisele ukumothusa, ngoko uqala imibuzo yakhe ngolwazi oluncinci analo.
Kwaye yonke into ibonakala ibubuxoki, ubuxoki, ifoto okanye igama ayinyani. Ngubani ngokwenene iqabane lakho lomphefumlo? Uguqukile ngokuyeka izifundo zakhe, uxela yonke into kubazali bakhe, eqinisekile ukuba ubelixhoba lomntu ongathembekanga. Kodwa kungekudala ipakethe engalindelekanga iya kutyhila ukuba ngubani inkwenkwe awabelana nayo ngeemvakalelo zakhe ezisenyongweni. Iphuma kwintolongo yabantwana kwaye iqulethe ibali lombulali.
Abalinganiswa bencwadi yobuxoki
Phakathi kwabalinganiswa odibana nabo kwi-Mentira, i-protagonist engathandabuzekiyo Xenia Buck, ibhinqa eliselula eliphupha layo kukufunda ubugqirha. Uzama ukwenza umgudu wokufumana amabakala amahle kwaye yonke into ihamba kakuhle kuye de ingene kwiforamu yeencwadi kwaye ihlaselwe yinkcazo kaMarcelo othile, oye wayishiya kwi-Catcher in the Rye. Kwaye ukusuka apho baqala ukwazana.
Kanjalo, "Iqabane" likaXenia ngulo Marcelo, inkwenkwe esebenzisa i-Intanethi ukuseka ubudlelwane kunye ne-protagonist kunye naye kubonakala ngathi kukho uxhulumaniso olukhulu, kwinqanaba lokuba bobabini "bawele eluthandweni". Kodwa akafuni ukudibana naye, kwaye ngaphandle koko, imiyalezo yakhe ayinde kakhulu okanye ayicacisi, ingeyiyo yonke imihla.
Ukongeza kwaba balinganiswa babini babalulekileyo, sinabanye (yinoveli engenabaninzi). Ngaloo ndlela, sinokugxininisa UBen, "uMarcelo" umzala, uKevin, umhlobo kaBen okanye uMarta, umfundi ofunda naye esikolweni esiphakamileyo.
Isishwankathelo sencwadi yobuxoki
Okokugqibela, enoba ungumfundisi-ntsapho okanye ungumama okanye ubawo ofuna ukwazi ukuba uMentira ungantoni na, unaso isishwankathelo sencwadi ethi Mentira ukuze wenze isigqibo enoba inokuba luncedo na kubantwana bakho.
ubuxoki buqala ngo U-Xenia, intombazana yesikolo samabanga aphakamileyo efuna ukufumana amanqaku amahle ukuze ikwazi ukungenela ubuGqirha. Nangona kunjalo, ezi ziye zaqalisa ukuhla ngenxa yokuba uchitha ixesha elininzi kwi-Intanethi kunokufunda. Isizathu soku nguMarcelo, a umfana adibene naye kwiforum yokufunda adityaniswe naye ukuya kwinqanaba lokufuna enye into naye.
Ingxaki kukuba, kungakhathaliseki ukuba u-Xenia uzama kangakanani, uMarcelo akadli ngokuphendula kwizivakalisi ezide okanye athethe ngobomi bakhe babucala. Ngoko xa esenza isibindi sokumcela ukuba athandane, uyala. Ejongene nale meko, u-Xenia uqala ukukrokra kwaye, ngolwazi oluncinci analo, uzimisele ukufumana uMarcelo kwaye afumanise ukuba ungumntu awayebanga ukuba unguye okanye akunjalo.
Uphando lwakhe luphela ngobuxoki: fumanisa ukuba zombini ifoto kunye negama aziyonyani kwaye, ezisola ngokulahla ikamva lakhe ngenxa "yobuxoki", ugqiba ekubeni axelele abazali bakhe ukuze bamncede "abambe" loo mntu ukhohlakeleyo kwaye kungabikho amaxhoba afana naye.
Ngaloo ndlela, waqhawula ngokupheleleyo ubudlelwane bakhe naye, kwaye emva kweenyanga ezintathu, ufumana iphakheji enedayari kumntu awayemazi njengo "Marcelo", nangona igama lakhe lokwenyani nguErick. Kuyo ubalisa lonke ibali, elona lokwenyani, apho siza kubona ukuba ubomi bukaErick abukho bumnandi kangako.
Kwaye kukuba uhlala kwikhaya elingasebenziyo, kunye notata ongumqhubi welori kunye nomama othengisa ngomzimba owamshiyayo. Ngaloo ndlela, uye wahlala nomalume wakhe kunye nabazala bakhe, kodwa engakwazi ukubala kubo, ngaphandle kukaBen.
"Ubuhlobo" phakathi kwabo bunjalo ukuba, ejongene nokubulawa okwenziwe nguBen, unquma ukuzifaka ityala ukuze athintele umzala wakhe, ngoku oneminyaka yobudala esemthethweni, ukuba aye entolongweni, kwaye ngokutshintshisana uya kwiziko loluleko.
Ngenxa yoku, U-Xenia wenza isigqibo sokwazisa abazali bakhe kwaye, ekhatshwa ngumama wakhe, uya kwiziko loluleko ukuze adibane no-Erick buqu. Kodwa, kananjalo, ukuqokelela ubungqina ukubonisa ukuba yayingenguye umbulali wokwenene.
Njengesigqibo sinokukuxelela ukuba kunjalo enye yeencwadi apho amaxabiso kunye neemfundiso ezingakumbi zixelelwa abafundi. Ukongeza, ithetha ngesihloko esikhathaza abazali kunye nabantu abadala, kwaye kukuvezwa kolutsha olukwi-Intanethi kunye neengozi kunye nemingcipheko abajongene nayo, ngamanye amaxesha bethule, bebandezeleka ngenxa yabo.
Akunjalo kuphela, kodwa kwakhona uthetha ngokubulala okwenziwa ngabantwana; into osoloko ungafuni ukuthetha ngayo.
Kwaye, kwangaxeshanye, icinga inguqu, zombini kwicala lika-Xenia kunye ne "Marcelo".
Ufundile ubuxoki? Ngaba unaso isishwankathelo sencwadi ethi Lie esinokusinika inkcazelo engakumbi?