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Ngo-Okthobha i-20, incwadi yokugqibela ka-Albert Espinosa yathengiswa, Iimfihlelo abangazange bakuxelele zona, esele phakathi kwabathengisi abathengisayo. Kodwa kukho izihloko ezingenakubalwa zokuzinceda, ukukhuthaza okanye ukukhula komntu kwintengiso. Bazigubungela iishelufa zevenkile zeencwadi zommandla okanye iityathanga ezinkulu. Kwenziwa intetho enkulu, udliwanondlebe kunye namagama aphambili ... Ngapha koko, zikhona kwaye bezikwifashoni ixesha elide. Kwaye baqinisekile ukuba bayaqhubeka nokuphumelela.
Kodwa ngaba loo mpumelelo ifanelekile? Ewe Bazama ukunceda, ukucebisa, ukucebisa okanye ukuxelela kuphela ngamava ophuculo ababhali abakholelwa ngokwenyani ukuba baya kunceda abanye. Kwaye ke kusemthethweni ukuba banokwenza inzuzo ngayo. Ixesha nje - lalo nawuphi na umbhali-sele enexabiso elingenakuthelekiswa nanto. Kodwa ngaba oku kunjalo ngokwenene? Ngaba ukhe wafunda? Ngaba ucinga ukuba ziyasebenza? Ndiyavuma ukuba andifundanga namnye. Mhlawumbi andizidingi (okwangoku). Masibone…
Inethiwekhi igcwele amabinzana akhuthazayo (angaziwayo okanye hayi), imiyalezo elungileyo enemvelaphi yeendawo ezintle kunye nesibhakabhaka esiluhlaza. Sonke siyazifunda, ngamanye amaxesha sinomdla ngakumbi, ngamanye amaxesha sinokuthandabuza, sifuna ukuyikholelwa, okanye ukuthanda ukwazi. Ezo zinto zingadibani noluntu kwiikiti zikawonke-wonke nasesidlangalaleni zihlupheka kwimingxunya ngesininzi, kodwa Siyabamkela ubunyani bayo kwaye kutheni kungenjalo?. Ke kutheni bengakwazi ukusebenza ngohlobo lweencwadi?
Kutshanje ndibone uAlbert Espinosa e Induli. Besele ndiyazi eyabo Izacholo eziBomvu okanye yakhe Ukuba undixelela, yiza, ndiza kushiya yonke into ... kodwa ndixelele, yiza. Kwaye, njengaye wonke umntu, Ndiyalazi ibali lakhe elibukhali lokuziphucula ethi, ngaphandle kwamathandabuzo, ikhulu lithandeke.
Mna ngokwam Ndithathe inxaxheba ngokuzithandela kwincwadi yomanyano apho ukuxutywa kweefoto kunye noncwadi kuxelwa amabali angama-30 abantwana abangama-30 abanezifo ezinqabileyo ezahlukeneyo. Kodwa incwadi yomanyano asiyoncwadi yokuzinceda. Kujongwe kuphela ukwazisa ngala matyala obomi obunzima, kwaye izibonelelo zoqoqosho zihlala zisetyenziselwa unobangela. Le ncwadi imalunga nokunyusa ingxowa mali ukuphucula umgangatho wobomi baba bantwana.
Iincwadi zokunceda okanye ezikhuthazayo zineyona njongo ngqo. Sonke sihamba ngeendlela ezimbi okanye ezingwevu, sonke sijonga impendulo, ukuqiqa okanye umbono xa izinto zingahambi kakuhle ngexesha elithile. Kwaye siya kumyalezo esiwunikwa zezi ncwadi: Jonga okwenzekileyo kum okanye ujonge endikwaziyo endikufundileyo, yintoni endincedileyo, onokuyisebenzisa kuwe. Kum isebenze. Uyazama. Kutheni ingazukusebenzela nawe?
Ndijonge nezinye izihloko ezinjengezo zikaRafael Santandreu, zePunset (utata nentombi) okanye iBucay esemsebenzini kunye neentsomi zabo ezibandakanyiweyo. Okanye Amandla ngoku: Isikhokelo soKhanyiso lokomoya, apho uhlelo lwesithandathu sele luqhubeka. Kukude kangakanani oko Ngubani othathe itshizi yam? NguSpencer Johnson! Kodwa ke, ezo zihloko zenza ukujonga.
URafael Santandreu kunye noLuis Rojas Marcos
Y Ndigqibele ngokwenza uphando phakathi kwabahlobo kunye nabantu endibaziyo. Abanye, abanembali yobunzima bempilo yabo okanye kufutshane kakhulu kubo, baye bakwazi ukufumana iindlela zokwenza imozulu yesaqhwithi ngokweemvakalelo ezinje ngezi. Ezinye zeempendulo bezikukuba bazikhokele phakathi kwamagama amaninzi okhuthazo kunye nenkuthazo bakhethe ukuxabisa umbhali ngokulungiselela kwakhe okanye ulwazi lobungcali. Ke, ngoochwephesha bezengqondo okanye oogqirha bengqondo abadumileyo abadla ngokuthatha intende yesandla yokuthembeka. Umzekelo nguLuis Rojas Marcos okanye uSantandreu okhankanywe ngasentla. Ngapha koko, iincwadi zakhe zezona zixabisekileyo kwaye zithengisiwe.
kunjalo, mhlawumbi isibane abanokuphosa asinamandla kangako okanye asiyonyani. Kwaye xa kuziwa ekuvuseleleni ngokwenyani ngokweemvakalelo, kuya kufuneka uye kwingcali ekwayinyani ngakumbi kunamagama aphambili, akhuthazayo kwaye akhuthazayo. Hayi okanye ewe? Ngaba ukukhanya kungabonakala kwezi ncwadi xa sikwingxaki yobumnyama? Ndiyishiya apho.
kwaye ndisayikhumbula le ncwadi: amathamsanqa ukuba ithengise kakhulu epapashwe kwinkampani yokupapasha i-EMPRESA ACTIVA ngababhali: UAlex Rovira noFdi Trias de Bes
Molo Mariola, ndifunde iincwadi ezininzi zokuzinceda kwaye zinxulumene nokomoya. Incwadi nganye indinike izixhobo zengqondo kunye / okanye indlela entsha yokubona inyani ukoyisa ingxaki ethile. Incwadi ayibuguquli ubomi babani na, ngaphandle kokuba loo mntu ugqiba kwelokuba atshintshe indlela abona ngayo inyani, ngokuyinxenye esebenzisa ulwazi ekwabelwana ngalo kule ncwadi. Kodwa ndiqinisekile ukuba abanye abantu olu hlobo lweencwadi aluzukubanceda. Xa uneengxaki ezinzulu kakhulu kufuneka ubhenele kwiingcali zezempilo, amagqwetha aziingcali, njl.
Siyavuma. Ndiyabulela kakhulu ngezimvo zakho.
Njengokuba ukufunda kusinceda kwiinkalo ezininzi zobomi bethu, akukho nto kwaye, xa ndingathi akukho nto ayonto, kungasinceda ukuba umntu, ngokwakhe, angasiboni isisombululo kwiingxaki zakhe.
Iingcali zengqondo, iqabane okanye abahlobo banokuthetha nathi. Ude uthathe isigqibo sokuba kufuneka ushiye itonela lakho, awusoze ubone ukukhanya kwesiphelo.
Ezi ncwadi zokunceda ziluncedo kuphela ukuba uyaqonda ukuba unengxaki kwaye uzimisele ukuyisombulula.
Amanye ngamagama kunye "nabaphathi bemali."
Kunokuthiwa ngaphezulu kodwa kungacaci, u-Isabel. Enkosi ngezimvo.
Ingxoxo entle kakhulu uMariola, ndicinga ukuba incwadi yokuzinceda inokuyicoca ingqondo yakho okanye yomeleze xa unezinto ongaqinisekanga ngazo, kodwa xa ingxaki iba yinto enzulu ngakumbi, iingcali ngabo ababalayo ukukukhokela ekukhangeleni ukukhanya noxolo.
Nangona kunjalo, ndizifundile ezinye ezinjengeeSantandreu, ngakumbi iiglasi zakhe zolonwabo, kwaye zibonelela ngamandla aqinisekileyo okuthatha.
Njengayo yonke into kobu bomi, kubantu ababancedayo, bamkelekile.
Ndiyabulisa uMariola,
Andizithembi kakhulu iincwadi ezenzelwe ikhathalogu ezenziweyo. Ndicinga ukuba kwizihlandlo ezininzi baphatha iimeko ngokombono ophantsi kwaye bengazi ukuba asifani. Ngayiphi na imeko, ewe, ndiyayixabisa into yokuba abantu abaninzi bayisebenzise ukuphucula kunye nokuqhubela phambili kwimiba ebekiweyo kwaye ke, ukuba bayakufezekisa oku, bamkelekile.
Ukugona
Enkosi ngezimvo zakho, Alex. Ngamafutshane, yingxoxo-mpikiswano ethi inike uninzi lwayo.
Iincwadi zokuzinceda zandithwala kanye njengoochwephesha bengcali, njl.
Oko ndafunda incwadi 'eyimfihlo' ndicinga ukuba ndiye ndagula, ndifumana ispasms esingaqhelekanga xa ndifunda izihloko ezithile, kuba kuyakuba ngaphezulu kweminyaka emi-2 eyadlulayo ndanikwa incwadi enesihloko esithi 'ndonwabe ngokuqinisekileyo' nguManfred Lütz nam khange ujonge kuyo nangona uneengcebiso ezinokuthenjwa