UWalter Riso ngumbhali owazalelwa eNaples ngo-1951, xa wayesengumntwana abazali bakhe bafudukela eRiphabhlikhi yaseArgentina baya kuhlala eBuenos Aires. Ubuntwana bakhe wachitha kwisitalato iPichincha apho yayikhona imakethi endala yaseSpineto, indawo ehlala abantu abavela e-Italiya nakwamanye amazwe. Kuba ebemncinci, wazama ukufunda ipiyano engaphumeleli kangako, nangona kunjalo utitshala wamthengela iincwadana ezibizwa ngokuba "yipeni" ukuze abhale imibongo kwaye ukusuka apho ukuthanda kwakhe ukubhala nokufunda wazalwa.
Waye wabonakala njengomdlali obalaseleyo webhola ekhatywayo kunye nomnyazi webhola yomnyazi, wayeziqhelanisa neembaleki, ngakumbi ukutsiba kathathu. Ekupheleni kwe-baccalaureate yakhe waqala izifundo zakhe kwi-Elektroniki yezoBunjineli kwaye wafunda iminyaka emine kuphela ngenxa yokulukuhlwa yimvubu kunye nengcinga yezopolitiko ngelo xesha, nto leyo eyamkhokelela ekufundeni iinkcubeko zaseMpuma kunye nezenzululwazi zentlalo. Okwangoku ungumhlohli kunye notitshala kwiiyunivesithi ezahlukeneyo, isenzo esitshintshisanayo nophando kwindawo yokuqonda kwengqondo kunye nonyango.
Iingcali zithi amashumi amathathu eepesenti abemi "banendlela eyingozi kakhulu neyingozi yokuthanda" ukonwaba kwezithandani, kwaye ixhaphake emadodeni kunabafazi.
UWalter Riso, ekubonakalisweni kwencwadi yakhe yamva nje, «Uthando oluyingozi kakhulu«, Uzamile« ukwenza indawo yokubonisa ukuqonda ngcono iqabane lakho kunye nokucacisa ukuba kungakanani na ukuba kufanelekile ukumlwela okanye ".
"Le asiyoncwadi yesiko yokuzinceda okanye iiresiphi," ngokutsho kombhali, kodwa ngumsebenzi ochaza iindlela ezinobungozi ezisibhozo: ukuhlukumeza, ukuphambanisa, ukubhukuqa, uburharha, ukungakhathali, ukungabi nabuntu, ischizoid kunye nothando olunesiphithiphithi.
Ezi ndlela zixhaphake kakhulu emadodeni kunabafazi ngezizathu zenkcubeko kunye nezofuzo, kodwa uye wabonisa ukuba "abasetyhini basempilweni kwaye bayavumelana kunamadoda, kuba ngabo abacela uncedo lobuchwephesha kwangexesha."
irayisi Ucacisile ukuba ukuze isibini sisebenze, kufuneka ukuba "sithathe indawo yonyamezelo ngentlonipho; Ukuphindisela kwakhona kwisisa esipheleleyo; ziqheliseni ubumbano - zilwani kunye ebomini - kwaye nifune ukuthanda (hayi uxanduva), kuba uthando kufuneka luzinikele ngokupheleleyo ».
«Iqabane likhethwe kakubi kwaye kukholelwa ukuba intliziyo ikhetha umntu olungileyo, kodwa oku akunjalo kuba uthando kufuneka lucingisiswe njengazo naziphi na izigqibo ebomini. Xa ukhetha ubudlelwane, kuya kufuneka ubone ukuba buhambelana nobomi bakho, iiprojekthi zakho, ukuziqonda kwakho ... kwaye ungabhidanisi uthando nokuthandana ", watsho uRiso.
Ngokwengcali, "ukukhusela ukuzimela kulungile", kodwa phakathi "ngokunyamezelana neqabane lakho njengoko oomakhulu benzile kwaye unganyamezeli kwaphela" kukho indawo ephakathi, kulapho unokufumana khona ukuzimela okunempilo kunye noxanduva .
Kuye, uthando «ludibaniso lomnqweno, ubuhlobo kunye nokhathalelo lomnye», nangona, ngokoluvo lwakhe, «eyona nto ibalulekileyo bubuhlobo (uyichaza njengemvisiswano, uburharha, ukwabelana ...), kuba ihlala ipesenti ezingamashumi asibhozo zexesha njengesibini, uqukumbela.
Ndineminyaka engama-40 ndihlala nendoda eneminyaka engama-61 ... kwiminyaka eli-10 eyadlulayo, ubudlelwane bethu abusebenzi uzicingela kakhulu akathandi ndishiye indlu kwaye xa esekhaya akandihambisi ndawo yonke Ngomhla kukuthuthunjiswa asikuthethi kakuhle, akayithandi incoko kwaye uyandihlaza ngalo lonke ixesha efuna ukundenza ndizive ngathi unochuku kwaye unezinto andazi ukuba mandenze ntoni ndimxelele ngeendlela eziliwaka ukuba andifuni uhlala apha ekhaya ngaphezulu kunokwethu sele engasahambi kwaye akakhathazeki kwaphela uthi uyahamba kodwa akasenzi isigqibo Thixo wam, ndicela ubancede. Andikwazi ukuthoba ubunzima
Ndingumlandeli wakho kwaye ndifunde uninzi lweencwadi zakho kwaye ndingathanda ukuvuyisana nawe ngokubhala iincwadi zakho ezinceda abantu abaninzi
Ewe inyani ibonakala kum njengeyona ncwadi ibalaseleyo nangona ndingakhange ndiyifunde; Ndinomdla kakhulu kwaye inyani kukuba ndiza kuyifumana.
ibali lam kukuba ndinobudlelwane obunzima; Akazihluphi ngokunditsalela umnxeba, kunqabile ukuba aphume endlwini; xa ephuma ugoba ukuze angandijongi, masitsho njalo. Ngamaxesha athile ndiyasiqonda isizathu sokuba emncinci kunam, kodwa ukulula okunje, ukungakhathali phambi kweqabane lakhe, kwaye urhoxile akunakubakho emntwini. Ndicinga ukuba uyazichaza njengothando olungenantlalontle kuba akaziboleki kuye nantoni na kuphela xa esela okanye sikhankanye into njengokuya kusela emva koko ukuba kuyenzeka.
Ndinexhala, inyani yile, ndifuna ukumlahla; shiya indlela simahla kwaye ndizinike ngcono kwabanye abantu kwaye ndidibane namanye amadoda athi ngesiquphe ahambe ngokwezinto ebendizilindele kuba inyani ndiva ngathi ndimosha ixesha lam.
Enkosi, ndilinde impendulo yakho kule ngxaki okanye ingxaki evela kubudlelwane bam ……….
Molo… .Andazi nokuba ingxaki yam yeyokufunda iintlungu zangaphambili …… ndineminyaka engama-23 ubudala kwaye ndineveki nditshatile, umyeni wam umdala kunam ngeminyaka eli-18 nangona emzimbeni wakhe kungabonakali, ngaphandle oku asithethi ulwimi olunye !!!! Ukuba iphambene, yinyani ... andazi ukuba nditshatile ngothando, inyani andikayifumani, ndiyazi kuphela ukuba naye ndiziva ndonwabile kwaye ndinomtsalane omzimba nowesondo, ukuba uyindoda ethambileyo, ekrelekrele enemilinganiselo elungileyo, kodwa iyandikhathaza into yokuba enobomi bakhe obucwangciswe ngokugqibeleleyo kangangokuba izinto zenziwe ngendlela yakhe, ixesha !!! Unegunya kude kube ngumzuzu wokwenza uthando kwaye kuyandicaphukisa !!! Njengengcali imbeko yam, uyiphumezile impumelelo yakhe yezoqoqosho ngomzamo kwaye iyancomeka, kodwa kukho ubunzima, obukholelwa ukuba bubukrelekrele kangangokuba kuye Yeyona nto intle ayixoleli nayiphi na impazamo okanye impazamo endinokuba nayo kwaye iyandicaphukisa kwaye ngaphezu kwayo yonke into indenza buhlungu, ndenze ntoni ????
Molo, NDIFUNDE IINCWADI EZININZI NGEGUNYA LAKHO, NANGONA MVA MVA NDIPHELELWE KANCINCI KANYE NDONAKALISWE NGABANYE…. KODWA NDIZOKUVUKA NGOMHLA
NDINOBUDLELWANE ENDIBUQWALASELA NGOKUSEMPILWENI KODWA NDINGAKUTHANDA UKUGQIBELA KWAKHO NDIZIMISELE UKUKULWELA OKO….
ENKOSI NGAWO ONKE AMAXABISO AXABISEKILEYO KWIMPILO YETHU ……
Ndifuna ukumxelela ukuba ndiyamthanda kakhulu, kwaye uluncedo olukhulu ekuphuculeni kwam kwaye ndiyazifumana iincwadi zakhe zinomdla kwaye zindincedile kulwalamano lwam nomyeni wam nentombi yam. Qhubeka uvuyisane nomsebenzi wakho ogqwesileyo.
Ndithatha eli thuba lokukuhalalisela ngeencwadi ezigqwesileyo, bendihlala ndicinga ukuba amadoda anje ngo-WALTHER RISO yiyo le nto ifunwa lihlabathi ukuze abantu abaninzi abahlala kwihlabathi lobukhoboka bengqondo boyise ngale misebenzi zonke iimpikiswano ezibuzayo abantu bonwabe.Ndingathanda ukuba abhale incwadi esekwe kwinkululeko ye-spasms ekufuneka umntu ngamnye abe nayo neqabane lakhe.
Ukusukela oko ndafumana incwadi yakhe yokuqala «Ukuthanda okanye ukuxhomekeka» ndazichaza ngemibhalo yakhe kunye nento endandiyicinga, isibonakaliso endandisenza kangangexesha elininzi kunye nolwalamano lwam neqabane lam, yandinceda okuninzi ukuqonda izinto ezininzi kunye nokukwazi ukwenza isigqibo sokuqhubeka nonyango lwengqondo kunye nokuqhubeka nokuzikhuphela kweminye imisebenzi… «def daing daisy»….
Ngoku ndijamelene nesizungu, ndiziva ngathi ukwahlukana sesona sigqibo silungileyo endinokusithatha, nangona kunjalo emva kweminyaka emine yohlukene neminyaka esibhozo sihlala kunye notata wonyana wam ... Ndiva ukuba isizungu sibuhlungu kakhulu kwaye neenkumbulo ezintle Bahlasela rhoqo kwaye ndiziva ndibuhlungu kakhulu ngamanye amaxesha bundenza ndizibuze umbuzo kwakhona: ndenze ntoni ephosakeleyo? Nangona ndiyazi impendulo, bendingendedwa apho, ibiyinto yokwakha ezimbini, kwaye loo "nqanawa" yayijolise ukuba ithwale yodwa kwaye ayisiyiyo ...
Ndiyalakha kwakhona ilizwe lam, nangona kunzima….
Enkosi ngokwabelana nokuboniswa kwakho kunye nombono wakho wobungcali ngemisebenzi yakho, ndizifundile kuphela izimvo kunye nokuphononongwa kwencwadi yakho entsha kwaye ndifuna ukukwazi ukuyifunda kungekudala kuba iyandikhathaza kwisihloko esicebisa kakhulu ...
Qhubeka uqhubeke ukhanyisela indlela yeyona mvakalelo imangalisayo, uthando… ..
I-claudia arenas betancur
Molo, andithandi kangako ukufunda kodwa ndifuna ukukwazisa ukuba incwadi yakho inothando oluyingozi kakhulu ithathe ingqalelo yam.
Ndiyathemba ukuba iqabane lam liyandinika ngothando nangobuhlobo okanye ukuba andizithengi ngokwam, ukuze ndibelane ngalo naye.
Ndidlula kwiklasi yeengxaki nomlingane wam onengxaki yeemood ndingumama wentombazana kunye nenkwenkwe elilixesha lam lonke kubo ukubakhona kuye nokumamela mna kwaye andisoze kubekho sithuba sokumenywa I-cinema okanye ipati ndineminyaka engama-27 kwaye uneminyaka engama-43 ubudala kodwa akabonakali. Yinto eyenziwe ekhaya kakhulu kwaye ukuba andikaze ndishiye indlu ngaphandle, ungumthandi weTV kwaye ezo zizicwangciso afuna zona kum, andinayo nayiphi na indep.
Indlela endiphila ngayo ngumamazala wam kwaye ukuya emarikeni andikwazi kusebenza kuba abakhwenyana bam bathi uninzi lwabasetyhini abasebenzayo bafunyanwa njengabathandi bomphathi.
Ukuzithemba kwam kuyandikhathaza, undixelela ukuba ndifana nenkomo ngokumcela nje ukuba andithengele i-ayiskhrim, njl.
kwaye ndifuna ukukuxelela ukuba ndinguye kwaye ndizibona ndingumfazi omhle obiza ingqalelo ndiziva ndidiniwe kwaye ndifuna i-adrenaline ebomini bam ndicinga ukuba ubudlelwane bam buyingozi kakhulu ndifuna uncedo lomntu
Molo intsasa emnandi!!! Ndithatha eli thuba ukuvuyisana noMnu. Walter Riso, othe ngendlela yakhe echubekileyo yokuthetha, namava akhe abaliswa kwiincwadi zakhe ezibalaseleyo asenze ngandlel 'ithile sabona ubunyani bethu, iincwadi ezenze ukuba sicinge ngokusuka emazantsi umphefumlo nentliziyo ... kuyamangalisa ngokwenene ukufunda nganye yeencwadi zikaWalter Riso, kuba nganye kuzo uthimba iinyaniso ebesizilele, ziphantse zafa kwaye ngoku singaziguqulela kwizinto eziyinene, ekuphuculeni ubomi bethu kwaye Kwintlalo-ntle eyiyo ... Kwaye ke, amagqabantshintshi ngaphambi kokuba abhalwe nguNkskz. uSandra Milena andishiya ndicinga, mhlawumbi andinguye ugqirha wezengqondo okanye umcebisi, kodwa into endiyaziyo kukuba mncinci kakhulu, uzele bubomi kwaye awunakugutyungelwa ngumyeni wakho nangaphantsi kwezimvo zabantu basebukhweni bakho, kuba inye kuphela UBOMI kwaye kuya kufuneka uzicingele ngakumbi kwimpilo-ntle yakho, bubomi bakho obusemngciphekweni, inkqubela phambili yakho, ukuzaliseka komntu, kusexesha, kuba kwaye Inyaniso yokuba unguMama, ayiphazamisi kwinto yokuba ufuna ukusebenza, ube ngumntu ebomini, ukuba abantwana bakho bazive benelunda ngawe, nanamhlanje uninzi lwabasetyhini bayayifeza indima yabo njengoMama kodwa ngaphandle kokutyeshela indima yabo umfazi., ukuba yingcali, ukufumana umsebenzi, ukuziphilisa, ukonwaba ... ngamafutshane, izinto ezingenakubalwa ezinokwenziwa ngumfazi ngaphandle kokutyeshela ikhaya, kwaye nangaphandle kokungahoyi abantwana ... ukuzaliseka, kunye nezinye izinto ezininzi thina bantu basetyhini esinokukwazi ukuzenza, uSandra Milena UKHUTHAZO ... UBALULEKILE, UYAWULUNGELA ukuze ube nokuhamba phambili usahamba ngexesha akusayi kuba semva kwexesha, KUYOHLAWULELA ITHUBA ...
Mnu.Walter Riso, andizukutyhafa kukuvakalisa eyona mibulelo inyanisekileyo ngentsebenzo yenu ebalaseleyo njengombhali, kuba ngala magama achanekileyo kwaye ayinyani aqulathwe kwiincwadi zakho ... ubenzile UBOMI ngokucacileyo nangokukhulu. izisombululo ... Ndiyathemba ukuba akaze ayiphelise imibhalo yakhe, ezo zondla ubomi emphefumlweni nasentliziyweni yabafundi abafana nam, abaya kusoloko befumana ezincwadini zakhe isingxengxezo sokungaze ndiyeke ukufunda.
Imibuliso, impumelelo kunye neendlela ezintle zobomi, zomphefumlo nezentliziyo ...
Ndicinga ukuba yenye yezona ncwadi zibalaseleyo nguwalter riso, ndifuna ukuba nayo, kuba ndizifundile iingqokelela zakhe ezininzi, ndiyifumene inomdla kakhulu le ncwadi intsha kwaye ndinethemba lokuba neendlela zokuba nayo.
bomi kwaye buphile ngokungagungqiyo, bethanda kwaye bonwabele wonke umzuzu!
UWalter Rizo ngumbhali wam endimthandayo, ndizifunde phantse zonke iincwadi zakhe kwaye sele ndiza kufunda eyokugqibela, undincede kakhulu ukuba ndiqonde izinto ezininzi ngamanye amaxesha ebendingaziqondi kuba zenzekile kum, kuyamangalisa funda imisebenzi yakhe.
Molo… NDINOBUDLELWANE BOMNYAKA EMI-2 NOMNTU OWAYENGAM KWAYE ESEBALULEKE KAKHULU, NAKUBA EBANGELE UKONAKALISA KAKHULU, ANDAZI UKUBA NDENZANI UKUMSUSA ENGQONDWENI YAM NENTLIZIYO Yinto UKUBA ANDINAKWAMKELA INYANISO YOKUCINGA UKUBA ANDIHAMBI NAYE NDIKHOKELE, NDIYANGOYIKA UKUZE NDIVALELE UKUBA NDIQONDA UKUBA NDITHETHEKE KAKHULU KUYE KUKHO KAKUBI UKUBA NDIZIVA NDITHEMBEKE KUYE NDINGAYENZI KANJALO, NDIGQIBA KWIZIBONELELO ZOKUNGAThethi NAYE NGAPHAMBILI KODWA XA ENDIBIZA OKANYE NDIMBONA NDIDIDEKILE YONKE INTO EZA NENYANISO, KUXAKEKILE KUPHELA NGAYO YONKE INTO ENDIVAKALAYO, NGAMANYE AMAXESHA NDIYAQINISA UKUTHI OBUDLELWANE BANDENZE NDILAHLEKE IZINTO EZININZI NDISE NDIBALELA INQUNUNU NAMAXABISO AM KAKHULU KANGOKO NDISETYENZISE UKUXHAPHAZA NGAYO YONKE INDLELA, NDINGATHANDA UKWAZI OKO NDIMELE UKUKWENZA UKUSOMBULULA LE NGXAKI.
Enkosi ngokubhala konke oku kunye nokunceda ekuchongeni iintlobo zothando, ndiziva ngathi bendinomntu odibene nomxube weentlobo ezimbini zothando kwaye mna ngokukodwa, le ncwadi indincedile ndachaza kwaye ndenza izigqibo zobom ngobomi bam
Ndacinga ukuba ngumsebenzi omkhulu, umxholo wawo mkhulu, yile nto ulindelo lothando lwalulindile.
Kulungile ... bendinomfana endandiqhatha, emva kobudlelwane beminyaka emi-4, kodwa andenzanga njalo ndamnika ithuba elitsha kunye nexesha ndikhathalele ukuba eli thuba litsha lasilela, waphinda wandiqhatha kodwa mna ndiyifumene kamva…. Lo mntu undicelile indawo ndamnika kodwa emazantsi bendisazi ukuba kwenzeka ntoni, besinonxibelelwano oluhle nothando oluninzi kodwa inye into ebesingenayo sobabini ngamava ... emva kweentsuku ezininzi sigqibe ngamxhelo mnye ... kwaye namhlanje u-Okthobha 22 ndiye ndabona ukuba ubudlelwane endandikuyo babuyinto yokuncamathela kuloo mntu, ndandihlala kuye, ndamphefumlela kwaye nengqondo yam yathothisa iminyaka eyi-4 yalomntu kwaye khange ndiyiqonde kude kube namhlanje. .. Ndizamile ukuzihlasela ubomi, kodwa ndinabahlobo abakhulu abaya kundinceda ndiphume kolo xinzelelo bendikwazi ukuthatha iingcebiso zabantu abandingqongileyo kwaye ndiye ndaphuma kakhulu ndiyokudibana nabantu kwaye kutheni ndingadibani Amava amatsha, kwaye phakathi kokuza nokuhamba ngoku ndinomntu endithandana naye kwaye andikacingi njalo, eli soka ndinalo ngoku ngumlingane wam wesikolo endandingazange ndalinga ukumxelela ukuba ndiyamthanda, kodwa kuba ndandithandana naye wayendihlonipha ukuzibophelela kwaye ndothuswa kukuba naye uyamthanda kwaye ngalo mzuzu ndonwabile naye kwaye ndiyabulela incwadi uthando okanye kuxhomekeke kubudlelane nesithandwa sam, ndinobuganga bokuthi ndiyathanda kwaye andixhomekekanga kwaye kulonwabo olukhulu ndibuyiselwa ngandlela zonke kwaye ndiziva ndonwabile kakhulu…. Ubudala bam bufutshane ndineminyaka eli-17 ubudala kodwa ulwazi lwam ngothando lubanzi kwaye yonke imihla ndiyayandisa indlela yam yokucinga ebomini ...
Ewe ndineminyaka engama-24, abantwana aba-2 kunye nendoda engandithandiyo kwaye ingandihoyi, inyani yile, andazi kwenzeka ntoni kum, ndiyamthanda umyeni wam kakhulu kwaye ndiyazi ukuba ngaphandle kwakhe andizuku ubenakho ukuba uphile ngokupheleleyo, kuba ngengxoxo encinci ndiziva ngathi lihlabathi liza kum, ndizama ukucinga ngabantwana bam kunye nentlalo-ntle yabo, yiyo loo nto ndisenza isiganeko singapheli ngaphezu kweentsuku ezimbini zomsindo kwaye Ndenza uxolo ngayo kuba ngaphandle kwento esidlule kuyo, undixelele ukuba uyathanda kwaye undibonisile ngoba asidingi nto, kodwa ndifuna ngaphezulu kwamagama ukuze ndiqiniseke ngothando lwakhe ndinyanzelisile kulonto Ingqondo kwaye ndicinga ukuba imtshatile kancinci kuba umsebenzi kunye nosapho benza amaxesha okuthandana bambalwa kakhulu. Ndizama ukumbonisa uthando lwam ukuba angadikwa yinto yesiqhelo, ke ngosuku lokuphumla ndimphatha njengokumkani kwaye ndimbonisa ngeendlela eziliwaka indlela endikhathalele ngayo nokuba akahambelani nam Ngendlela efanayo ngoba uyindoda enamagama ambalwa kwaye ndicinga ukuba iyandicaphukisa, ndiyathemba ukuba akacaciswanga njengam, ndizama ukumqonda ngoba wayenjalo oko sathandana, hayi ngoku , kodwa ndifuna ingqwalaselo yakho, inkathalo yakho kuba Ngokwenyani, ndiye ndalingwa ukuba ndimkhohlise kuba kukho abo bandixelelayo ukuba ndingathanda athini kum kwaye inyani ndiyoyika ukuwa nokuphulukana naye ngenxa ukukhohlisa kwaye nangona ndimxelele ukuba ndingathanda ukuba abaluleke ngakumbi kwaye andithande, andiboni ziphumo. Ndiza kwenza ntoni? Lowo ngumbuzo omkhulu, ndiyathemba ukomelela ndibeke ikamva lam ngaphambi kokutyibilika nokuzibetha kakubi.
molo ndiyazithanda iincwadi zakho…. Ndizibeke kwezinye zazo ukunika isiqalo kunye nesiphelo kulwalamano. Kuphela kwalonto ndishiye nosana endilithandayo, kwaye ndihlala kuye ... Okwangoku ndikubudlelwane obuyingozi kakhulu kuba ndiyazi ukuba ayindifanelanga kwaye ndihlukumeze usapho kunye nam, ndiye ndakhangela kuzo zonke iindlela zokuphelisa kodwa nguye ongandishiyiyo, ndiyikhulisile ngeendlela eziliwaka kwaye akandivumeli ... undixelela kuphela ubuxoki «Andisalali naye sise intombazana »kodwa ayishiyi icala layo okanye ishiye ukuphuma nayo, ngelixa ndisekhaya njengowesifazane ongazinikeliyo ongonwabanga…. Ngamanye amaxesha ndicinga ukuba ubandezeleka kakhulu kunam, kuba anganyamezela, akalali, afumane izimvo zokuba basibonile sisonke, sancamisana, kwaye ke siyakuphepha ngandlela zonke uyasibona okanye naye ngokwakhe uthi usibonile. Sele ndiyazi into endilindeleyo engenanto. Akukho nto, kwaye ayindonwabisi tu…. kodwa okokugqibela babekhona ngokuzibophelela kwabo kwaye yena ngokukrakra kwakhe ... Ndifuna ukubonisa ukuba ndiyamthanda, andazi ukuba ndiza kuthini ... kodwa ndifuna ukukuphelisa oku kwaye ndonwabe ngokupheleleyo. Ingadlula kum ngokungathandabuzekiyo okundibethayo? Ndiyathemba ukujongana nayo yonke into eza nokukhula ngokubanzi.
Ubudlelwane bemvakalelo bufuna ukukhula kukuchonga kunye neqabane lakho elineenjongo ezifanayo xa zinokwenza nesibini, inyani ngothando kufuneka ihlale ikho isizathu ngaphezu kwentliziyo.
Ndingumntu odlala ngeemvakalelo zabasetyhini, ndihlala ndisebenzisa umfazi osebenzayo ebomini bam, bendinobudlelwane obandimakayo yiyo le nto ndingakholelwa eluthandweni, ndiyazi ukuba ndigqibile Umntu olunge kakhulu Ngalo lonke igama lelizwi, wayengowesifazane ofanelekileyo endandimfuna kodwa ndaye ndagqiba kwelokuba ndimtshintshe ukuze abe ngumamkeli mali owayelula kakhulu kum, ndiziva ndilungile naye mhlawumbi ngelixa ikhemistri ihlala njalo ndicinga njalo, yintoni kufuneka ndenze ukuze ndifumane into endiyifunayo, hayi ndifuna ukwenza okubi nakubani na.
Ndingathanda ukwazi ukuba uWalter Riso uza nini eMexico.
Ubonakala kum njengomntu onomdla kakhulu, ndifunde uninzi lweencwadi zakhe kodwa zonke, ndizicebisile, ndiyamthanda umbhali, iincwadi zakhe ziye zandixhasa kakhulu kwaye ukuxhasa abanye abantu.
Ndiyamvuyisana naye, ndiyathemba ukuba uzakubhala nezinye iincwadi kwaye ndizakube ndibabukele.
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Molo, ndafumanisa ukuba iqabane lam liyintsomi, andazi ukuba ndenzeni, ukuba ndiyamnceda okanye ndimke kuye, mncinci kunam, una-21 kwaye mna ndina-26. Ndenze ntoni?
Ndizifundile ezinye iincwadi ezinjengezothando eziyingozi kakhulu kwaye ndicinga ukuba zilunge kakhulu, ukuba zinceda abantu abanobudlelwane obunzima okanye izibini ezintsonkothileyo, ukuba nje bayazamkela, bendinomdla kwezi ncwadi ukuqonda imeko eziyiyo ndigqitha kumninawa wam, ukubona ukuba ndingakunceda njani, kodwa ndiyabona ukuba unyango lwesibini okanye ukuzithemba kubalulekile, kodwa ndingathanda ukwazi ukuba kubiza malini, kwaye ukuba ugqirha ungakwenza oko.
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Sawubona uWalter, ukungena emntwini kunye nokuyicacisa njengoko usenza akukho lula, emhlabeni kukho izigidi zabantu abafuna uncedo, ngakumbi xa kuziwa ekuhlaleni kunye njengesibini.
Enkosi ngezi ncwadi zimangalisayo, ziluncedo lwabantu, eyona nto inzima kukuziqhelanisa.
Incwadi "uthando oluyingozi kakhulu" ngumsebenzi olungileyo wokufunda kwam ukuthanda, ndicinga ukuba le ncwadi kufuneka ifumaneke kuwo wonke umntu, kuba isithende se-Achilles sokwahlulwa kwezibini kwindawo esihlala kuyo kukungazi ngokungazi Yazi umntu on Ukuphazamiseka kubuntu, iingcebiso zam kubafundi kukuba ukuba ufuna ukonwabela ukufunda okunomdla kunye nokufundisa kakhulu, ndincoma le ncwadi. enkosi att: k2
Mholweni!!! Malunga nezimvo zakho ndiyakuxelela ukuba bendihlala iminyaka eyi-8 nditshatile nomntu oxhomekeke kwi-100% kuye, isigqibo sam ibikukumqhawula umtshato kwaye ukuba kunyanzelekile kodwa yonke into ingoyiswa kwiminyaka emi-2 kamva ndiyinto ebendingenakuba nayo kufezekiswe kunye naye kunye nomntwana ongaphambili. I-SI SE PUEDE imalunga nokwenza okungcono kakhulu, uthathe isigqibo kwaye uzimele ngokwakho usazi ukuba bunye kuphela ubomi kwaye kungcono ukuba ubuphile ngokupheleleyo.
UWalter Riso unceda kakhulu ukuqhubeka. U-Leidy Mateus uyigqibile incwadi kwaye ugqiba kwelona lilungileyo kuwe nakumntwana wakho.
Impumelelo kubo bonke ukufumana ulonwabo
Ndifunde inqaku malunga nencwadi kwiphephandaba kwaye yatsala umdla wam, kuba Uthando lusoloko sisihloko esinomdla nesingapheliyo, ngokoluvo lwam. Ndivuma ngokupheleleyo ukuba asinakukhetha ukuba sithandana nabani, kodwa sinamandla okukhetha ukuba sifuna ukugcina ubudlelwane naloo mntu. Ngamanye amagama, ukusebenzisa isizathu ukuvavanya ukuba ingaba lo mntu sithandana naye ngulowo ulungelayo kwindlela yethu yobomi okanye ukuba sinako na ukungena kwabo ... Xa ndisithi "inkqubo yobomi" ndithetha into kakhulu zinzima, ezinje ngeeprojekthi, izinto eziphambili, umdla, ukuthanda, ... Ukungagungqi kwezinto ezenza ubudlelwane phakathi kwabantu ababini bube nzima.
Mna ndisebenzisa izizathu amaxesha amaninzi ukugqiba ukuba ingaba ubudlelwane bunekamva na okanye hayi kwaye ndenza izigqibo ngentloko yam, ndithandana kakhulu. Abanye baya kuthi ndenze kakuhle, abanye abayi kuqonda. Ndiyakholelwa ukuba khange ndiphazame nangayiphi na imeko.
Okwangoku ndineminyaka emibini ndithandana kakhulu, ndinemincili, ndihlala neqabane lam, endinezinto ezifanayo naye, ungumhlobo wam osenyongweni (kwaye siyathanda ukwenza Uthando !!). Ndenze isigqibo sokutshintsha isixeko sam, umsebenzi wam, ukuba ndiye kuhlala nomntu okokuqala, ndithandana kakhulu, kodwa ndinentloko ... Ndihlala ndibeka ubunzima kunye nobubi ... Kule meko ndinomkhulu Ngethamsanqa ukuba intliziyo yam nentloko bandixelele into enye.
NDIFUNA UKUVULELA NGOKUQHELEKILEYO KWEENCWADI ZAKHO, NDIZIFUNDILE KUNYE NOMNTU ONKE NDITHEMBA UKUFUMANA EKUGQIBELA NGOKWENZEKA, NJENGOKO NDIDINGA UKUVUSA ISIQINISEKISO SAM, NJENGOKO NDANDINOBUDLELWANE KAKHULU KANGAMASHUMI AMASHUMI IMINYAKA, NDANDIHLALA NABANTWANA ABABINI NATHI BELUNGISELELA UMTSHATO WAKHE NOMTHANDI WAKHE OWAYENEMINYAKA EMITHATHU EHAMBA KUNYE, YAYINGUMNTU OBENZELELA KAKHULU WAM NABANTWANA BAM, NDICINGA UKUBA AKAKABIJONGI OKWENZEKILEYO NGENXA YOKUBA EZE ENDLWINI NJENGOKO EWE ESEPHANDLE APHO AHLALA KHONA, UFUNA UKUBA NOKUXHALA NAM NDISITHI AKANAKULIBALA KUNYE NEZINTO EZIQHELEKILEYO EZIYE ZENZIWE NGAM KUPHELA, NDIFUNA UKUBA NESIBINDI SOKUXELELA YENA MANDIVULE NDIPHILE UBOMI BAM, NDIMFUMANE ABANTWANA BAM BANDITHANDE, NDIYAFUNA INGCEBISO YAKHO. ENKOSI UTHIXO AKUSIKELELE
Iincwadi zikaWalter Riso ziluncedo olukhulu kubo bonke abantu, abathi nanini na baphoxeke, okanye bazive bephazamisekile, basinceda ukuba sicacise iimeko zethu zeemvakalelo kwaye sibubone ubomi ngenye indlela.
Mholweni. Ndiyithandile incwadi yakho, uthando oluyingozi kakhulu. Ndinxibelelana kakhulu nezimvo zakho apho uchaza ubudlelwane obudala kumda womda / isitayile esingazinzanga. Ngokuqinisekileyo zi-supernova. Ndiyabulela uThixo kunye nencwadi yakhe ndiqonda ukuba kutheni iqabane lam lingazinzanga kwaye akasoze atshintshe. Ke ndiye ndakwazi ukubuphelisa ubudlelwane kwaye ndikwazile ukufumana uxolo olulahlekileyo okoko ubudlelwane baqala, obuhlala phantse iminyaka emi-3. Incwadi ibalasele kwaye ndiyacebisa kuye nakubani na onobudlelwane obunetyhefu. Enkosi.
… Kum kunzima kakhulu ukuqonda ukuba kutheni sibambeke kubudlelwane obunesiphepho kwaye okubi kakhulu, sisazi ukuba oku akulunganga nangayiphi na indlela, asinakuphuma apho.
Ityala lam lelinye lalawo, apho uyazi ukuba umntu osecaleni kwakho, "iqabane" lakho, akakufanelanga. Ndizamile "ukujongana" nale ngaphezulu kweminyaka esi-8. Yonke into iyaphikisana nathi, nangona kunjalo, khange ndikwazi ukuyeka.
Ndifuna, ngawo onke amandla am, ukuphuma kule nto, ndizamile izinto eziliwaka, kodwa ukuza kuthi ga namhlanje andikhange ndikwazi, kufana nobubi obubi. Kwaye ndiyayifuna, ayilunganga, kodwa ndiyayifuna.
Ndifune uncedo lobuchwephesha, ndiphucule, kodwa andikwazi ukuyeka.
Akukho nto indizisayo, akukho nto indityebisayo kolo lwalamano. Uyazingca, akathembekanga, uxinekile, umama wakhe uyandicaphukela, asinabudlelane, asihlali kunye, kwelinye lamalinge wam okuphuma kule nto sohlukene, kodwa kuphela yimizimba, kuba isuka entliziyweni yam Khange ndikwazi ukumshiya.
Ndiyazi ukuba kunzima kakhulu ukutshintsha inyani, kodwa andikwazi ukuphuma kule nto.
Ukuba nabani na uyazi ifomula yokulahla olu hlobo lobudlelwane, nceda undincede, ndifuna ukuphuma kule nto, kodwa ndiyayifuna. Undixelela ukuba yonke into izotshintsha, uyandithanda, ukuba sizinika ithuba elitsha, kodwa ndiyazi ukuba amathuba okuba asebenze mancinci.
Inyathelo lam elilandelayo kukufunda le ncwadi, nangona inyani yile, ngalo mzuzu ukholo lwam luyaphela. Ndiyathemba ukuba into ethile iyandinceda.
Andiqhelanga kupapasha ubomi bam babucala, kodwa andinakuyenza kwakhona kwaye ndicinga ukuba yindawo elungileyo le. Ukuba umntu ufuna ukundinika iingcebiso, ziya kwamkelwa kakuhle.
Enkosi kuwe.
Molo ngokuhlwa kum, kuyonwabisa. Ungumfundi ongumfundi kwizicatshulwa zakho zolu lwazi londliweyo, ikakhulu kuba zihlala zishiya kwaye zilungiselelwe "ukufundisa nokusebenzisa kubomi bemihla ngemihla" konke ukuqaphela kunye nophando alwenza ngaye imibhalo.
Ndingumfazi ongeyonto imbi kakhulu, masithi ndinezifundo zobungcali kwaye ndicinga ukuba ndingumfazi okhutheleyo osoloko esilwela into ayifunayo kwaye ayiphumeze, nangona kunjalo, kuba ayisiyiyo yonke into egqibeleleyo, ndiphila ubomi obuhlungu kakhulu iqabane lam okanye andazi ukuba ndimbize ndithini, kwaye eyona nto imbi kukuba kufuneka ndiyeke ukumthanda kuba akukho ngqiqweni ukuqhubeka nomntu othi emva kweminyaka emine sikunye angaxabisanga mfazi onje ngam, kuhlazisa kakhulu phezolo kwindawo yethu encinci sidibene nokuba nangona sihlala kunye isiqingatha sithetha xa siyokulala, kuyabanda kakhulu andazi nokuba ndingacacisa njani ngamanye amaxesha ndicinga ukuba ndim ndedwa umfazi okhe wehlelwa yile meko , ungumntu ngamanye amaxesha uchanekile kwaye abanye abaninzi baphosakele, uhlala ehlala ekrakra, akakhathali malunga nantoni na andazi ukuba injani .... kakuhle izolo ebusuku undixelele ukuba andinamsebenzi, bendithintela ebomini bakhe ukuba ndandingenamsebenzi, ukuba wayengahambeli phambili kungenxa yam endandinayo, kwaye oko akuyonyani kuba ndinguye kwaye ndingumfazi olungileyo, Umntu olungileyo, osebenza nzima, kwaye egxile kakhulu kwinto ayifunayo,… wandixelela nokuba akandithandi ukuba qho xa endixelela ukuba uyandithanda kungenxa yokuba ndiyamcela okanye ukuba andikholise ngenxa yokuba ekholelwa yile nto ndifuna ukuyiva, ndicinga ukuba akazukutshintsha kwaye kufuneka ndimke kuye kodwa ndingathanda nokuyeka ukumthanda kuba iminyaka emi-4 ayicinywanga okanye ayilibalekanga ubusuku bonke abangcwatywanga, kwaye abangcwatywa baphila kwaye bahlala berekhodwe ngonaphakade….
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Andazi ukuba kungaluthando olungakanani ukuhlala nendoda eneminyaka emibini itshatile, ndiyazi kuphela ukuba ndineminyaka esi-7 naye kwaye andifuni ukumshiya ndixhomekeke kuye andinguye ukuba ndiqinisekile kodwa andifuni kumshiya umbuzo wam kukuba le nto izakubizwa njani?
Andizifundanga zonke iincwadi, kodwa kukho enye ethe yatsala umdla wam, ibizwa ngokuba "luthando kwaye ungasokoli." Iindlela zakhe zokuhlalutya ngandlel 'ithile iindlela abantu "abathanda" ngazo zichanekile kakhulu, ukuze zibe ziziganeko ezenzeka kubomi bokwenyani, oko kukuthi, aziyontsomi. Ngokoluvo lwam, ndicinga ukuba wonke umntu, ngakumbi ndithetha nabasetyhini kuba ndinguye, ukuba sinxibelelana ngokwenzekayo kuthi, nokuba kulungile okanye kubi, kodwa ASIKE sivale umlomo ... ukuthula sesona sixhobo siphambili ezishiya iimpawu ezonakalisayo ebomini bethu. UKUTHANDA KULONWABO….
Molo .. NDANDIFUNA UKUBHALA INCWADI YOTHANDO EYINGOZI NGUWALTER RISO MARCO UBOMI BAM… NDIFUNDE PHANTSE ZONKE IINCWADI ZAKHE .. WANDINIKA AMANDLA AMANINGI KWIINZUZO ZAM EZINZIMA KAKHULU NDIBONAKALISE .
Molo, ndifuna ulwazi oluthe kratya malunga nezifundo nguWalter riso
umbono kukuqhagamshelana nawe kwinkomfa e-san juan de pasto nariño colombia
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Ndichithe iminyaka eli-9 kubudlelwane obuxhomekeke kakhulu, xa ndaye ndagqiba kwelokuba ndiyishiye yandibiza kakhulu, kodwa ndaphinda ndayiqinisekisa kakhulu, incwadi yakhe ethi Uthando okanye ukuxhomekeka, nothando kwaye sukubandezeleka ndaqonda ukuba yi-100% yokuxhomekeka ngokweemvakalelo , namhlanje ndineminyaka engama-31 ubudala kwaye ndineminyaka emi-2 yokuba nolwalamano olwahluke kakhulu nolusempilweni, iincwadi zakhe zindincedile ngendlela enkulu yokuqinisekisa elo lizwi lingaphakathi kwalowo usixelelayo ukuba ayilunganga kwaye ilungile , kodwa abaninzi bethu bayayihoya ngenxa yokungazi, ngokubuyela ebomini, ngokungakhuli, okanye ngokukholelwa nje ukuba umntu ubazi bonke
Namhlanje ndinobuhlobo obuhle ne-ex yam, kodwa yahluke kakhulu, kwaye ndiyabona ukuba usafana njani nomhlobo wam wangaphambili, kubuhlungu kubo ukuba basabambekile kwisangqa esikhohlakeleyo se-naca ukuphela, kodwa Ndiyabulela kuThixo kunye namandla akhula ngokuhamba kwexesha, ngoku ndibona "iinqaba ezisuka ecaleni" kwaye oko kundenza ndonwabe kunye nam.
Iqabane lam kungoku lizinzile kwaye ndiziva ndinamandla okungcono kwiinkalo ezininzi zobomi, ndiye ndaqala ukuziphilela andenzeli abanye….
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Enkosi Walter Riso. Ndifunde nje incwadi ethi "Ukuthanda okanye ukuxhomekeka" kwaye indincedile ukuba ndishiye ubudlelwane bam bokugqibela. Ubudlelwane bam busebenzela ukuba ndibandezeleke, ndikhetha indoda engafanelekanga, kuba kuhlala kukho inkohliso kuba ndifumanisa ukuba utshatile okanye unabafazi abaninzi. Kwaye ndiwela kwimpazamo enye kwakhona. Ndiyazi ukuba ndenza into engalunganga kodwa andiboni kakuhle ukuba yeyiphi iarchetype endiyifunayo ukuze ndiphucule ubudlelwane bam kwaye ndingakhangeli kwezi ntlobo zabalinganiswa.
UWalther Riso ungomnye wababhali abagqwesileyo, ukhathazekile ngokunceda ekufumaneni intyatyambo kwindlela yobomi, ukhathazekile kwaye usenenkxalabo ngokunceda abantu ukuba baphile ngemvisiswano bobabini kunye nabanye. Ndilinde incwadi yakho entsha enxulumene nokukrakra, isifo esihlasela bonke abantu, esikhokelela ekutshatyalalisweni.
Ndifuna ukuvuyisana nawe kule kona yaseColombia, uNeiva Huila, ilizwe labantu abathanda ukufunda.
Namhlanje 14/08/2009 Ndikhumbula, ndincoma kwaye ndinethemba lokuba ngenye imini ndizakunxibelelana noGqirha Walther Riso, sikumboniso weencwadi kwisixeko saseBogotá kwaye zininzi izincomo zalo mbhali ubalaseleyo.
I-Colombian iyakuthanda kwaye iyakuhlonipha wena DR. URISO WABANTU
UMBHO
Singamthanda umntu kakhulu kodwa sivumele ubudlelwane ukuba busenzakalise, sehlise ukuzithemba kwethu, asinakho ukukuvumela oko kuba oko kudala ukuxhomekeka kwaye siwela kwisangqa esikhohlakeleyo. Ukuthi uza kutshintsha bubuxoki kuba ukuba loo mntu akenzi ukuqonda ukuba kukho into eyenzekayo kwaye kufuneka atshintshe ukuze alunge ukuze wonwabe, awusoze ukwazi ukumtshintsha. Senza iinguqu kuthi ngaphakathi nangaphandle. Ndiyamthanda kwaye ndiyamthanda uWUALTER RISSO. sisidalwa esenza ukuba utshintshe umbono wakho wobomi
Sawubona,
Bendihamba kumboniso weencwadi kulo nyaka eBuenos Aires kwaye ndiye ndafumana incwadi yakhe yamva nje… Ukusuka kwikhava, ndisiya kwisihloko ndaza ndaphela kwiphepha elingasemva… yandibamba. Ndingutitshala kwaye ndikhulisa abantwana ababini ndedwa, iincwadi zizinto zokunethezeka ngamanye amaxesha andinakukwazi ukuzifikelela. Kodwa imvuthuluka yandiboleka, kwaye kufuneka ndimxelele ukuba ndiyayithanda indlela yakhe yokubhala kwaye ... kwaye ndaziva ngathi uluchonga ulwalamano lwam nenye yeendlela zakhe ezichaphazelekayo ezichazwe kule ncwadi. Ukusukela ngoko ndifuna ukuqhubeka ndifunda incwadi yakhe kodwa kunzima kum ukuyifumana edolophini yam ... Ndifuna ukufunda Uthando okanye ukuxhomekeka ... Kunzima into ayithethayo ngothando lokuqiqa ... kodwa yile nto Ndenze emva kokufunda kwaye ndaqonda ukuba andinabo ubudlelwane obunempilo ... ndaphinda ndedwa ndinethemba lokufumana umntu okhetha ukuba kunye nam yonke imihla kuba efuna ...
UWalter ndimthanda kakhulu. Ndizifundile phantse zonke iitekisi kwaye ukuthanda kakhulu okuyingozi yeyona ncwadi ndiyifundileyo ngalo lonke ixesha. Kuyamangalisa ukuba umbhali ebexhalabile ukubhala malunga nesi sihloko esinceda ukuba sikhethe iqabane esilifunayo ebomini bethu. Umbuzo omkhulu esizibuza wona ngalo lonke ixesha sithanda umntu uthi: Ngaba obu buhlobo buyandifanela? Ngalencwadi ndaye ndazinceda ekuchongeni kungekuphela nje kubantu abadlulayo ebomini bam, kodwa nakum, ukuba kufuneka ndiphucule izimo zengqondo kwaye ndiqiniseke ukuba ndiza kukhetha bani njengeqabane lobomi. UWalter ndicebise incwadi yakho kuye wonke umntu endinako, kubahlobo bam, abantu endisebenza nabo, abantu abatsha endibaziyo, ngokufutshane, izinto ezintle endinazo ecaleni kwebhedi yam njengombhalo osecaleni kwebhedi. Ndiyabhala kwaye nangona indawo yam ingabhali, ndiyakuthanda ukubhala kwaye ndinceda nabantu. Mhlawumbi inxenye yento endiyifumeneyo kukuqhubeka nokuzondla ngemibhalo yakho. Halala !!!
Molo, ndineminyaka engama-24 ubudala kwaye ngamanye amaxesha ndicinga ukuba uthando sele luyinto yakudala kuba amadoda ajonge kuphela isondo kwabasetyhini kuba abasathandi ukuzibophelela, ndiyafa ukuthandana kodwa andikwazi thandana nokuba ndizama kangakanani, andide ndonwabe kungekho nomnye umntu sele ndicinga njengendoda ngengqondo yokuba yonke into yeyokwexeshana kwaye ngoku kwaye oko kundenza ndizive ndingenanto ndedwa kwaye ndingonwabanga ………… .. ukuba umntu ufuna ukundinceda enkosi …… Andrea
Uwalter riso zezona ncwadi zakhe ziluncedo kakhulu. Nanini na xa ebhala incwadi entsha uyothuka, ngokuqinisekileyo le ndoda yindoda elumkileyo yeyona ilungileyo …………………… ..
Molweni nonke kwakhona! Ndineminyaka eli-17 ubudala! Ndifunda iPsology! Sele ndizifundile zonke iincwadi zikawalter riso! Abahlobo bakho abaye babalisa ezo ziqendu zobomi bakho malunga nothando kunye nobudlelwane, ndiyakuxelela into ebaluleke kakhulu kubo bonke abantu: PHILA! UKUKHOLELWA! UKUJONGA AMAPHUPHO WAKHO.AMEN AKUSIYO INDODA OKANYE INKOSIKAZI KODWA YONKE INTO EBANGQONGILEYO!, PHILA NGAMNYE UMZUZU NGOKUBA NGOKUGQIBELA, UNCUMELE EBOMINI NGENXA YELI LITHUBA LOKUPHILA IMIHLA ZAMA UKULwela INJONGO! kwaye ngaphezu kwako konke ukuphefumla! ukuphefumla kakuhle kwandisa amandla ethu okucinga ngokuzola, ngakumbi kweli hlabathi lixakekileyo! mamela iimfuno zabo zangaphakathi kwaye ubenelise KODWA ngendlela esempilweni! … Masingoyiki UKONWABA! …… .. UYABAFUNA! ……. NCEDA QAPHELA LA MAZWI! …..Enkosi!
Molo, ndizifundile ezinye iincwadi zikaRiso, ezinje ngeeNzondo eziPhezulu eziNgozi, iNdlela yeZilumko, okanye ukuTanda hayi ukubandezeleka, zibonakale zilungile, ziyinyani, zinenjongo, ngamafutshane, zilunge kakhulu.
Ngoku ndinengxaki yokungakwazi ukuba nenjongo, andazi ukuba ndiyibona njani inyani, okanye ndingaphuma njani kule meko ndikuyo. Kungenxa yoko le nto ndingacela nabani na ofunda la magqabantshintshi ukuba ancede acacise esona sigqibo kufuneka ndenze.
Umcimbi yile ilandelayo, ndinobudlelwane nomfana, oyinyani, andazi ukuba ndingayichaza njani, eyaqala njengengcali kwiminyaka emi-5 eyadlulayo, kuba ndamnceda ngawo onke amaphepha kunye namaxwebhu inkampani yakhe, senza abahlobo, ndahlala isidlo sangokuhlwa endlwini yakhe yonke imihla endandihamba ngayo, njl. Ungutata ongatshatanga, unentombazana ekwishumi elivisayo ehlala naye, kwaye ndihlala kakuhle kakhulu nentombi yakhe. Emva koko waqala ukunditsalela umnxeba kwiintsuku ezininzi ngaphandle kwesizathu esikhethekileyo, njl. Xa enengxaki, uyanditsalela umnxeba, okanye kufuneka enze isigqibo esibalulekileyo seshishini, uyayenza naye. Inyani yile yokuba ndicinga ukuba andazi ukuba ndimthande nyhani na, ndicinga ukuba ndinayo, kodwa ungumntu othanda abafazi, ndiyayazi nam lonto. Njalo ngoku ndiziva ndibuhlungu ngesimo sengqondo anaso. Into endifuna ukuyazi yile kufuneka ndiyenze kwimeko enokuthi ngamanye amaxesha indenze ndingonwabi. Kuba kakade uhlala enditsalela umnxeba xa efuna ndimenzele iphepha. Sisiphi isisombululo endinaso ???????????? »
Enkosi, ndilinde uluvo lwakho, ungayishiya kwidilesi yam: zarinaret@hotmai.com
Ndizithanda kakhulu iincwadi ze-RISO ... okoko nditshatile ngaphezulu kweminyaka engama-30 kwaye bendisoloko ndiziva ukuba iqabane lam alindithandi, kuba yena akakhathali phantse ngam, nokuba ndiyaphuma okanye akunjalo kuyafana kuye, andikhe ndibenomona, kwaye akathandani ngamanye amaxesha ngamanye amaxesha kuphela ngamanye amaxesha unolwalamano kunye nam olungonelisekanga kum. kodwa andazi kwenzeka ntoni kum, kubonakala ngathi ndisathandana. Ndifuna ukuphuma kule nto, ndifuna ukucetyiswa.
Uneminyaka engama-60 kwaye mna ndineminyaka engama-45.
Inomdla kakhulu kuba ezi zitayile zixhaphakile emadodeni kunabafazi. "Uthando oluyingozi kakhulu" lufundisa kwaye lukhokele ulindelo olutsha ekuphuculeni ubudlelwane phakathi kwabantu abatshatileyo kunye nokwakha ngokwazi ukuba ubudlelwane obunothando obusempilweni buyafunwa kwaye buyafuneka.
8 amanqaku aphambili endlela abantu abayiyo. Ndiyithandile kakhulu
kuba zineendlela ezisibhozo eziphambili ekunokuthi kungangcono ungazinxibelelanisi nazo! Ndiyincoma.
Ndifunda le ncwadi, ndikuthando lokuqala oluyingozi, kubonakala kum ngathi isinika izimvo ezininzi zokuphucula ubomi bethu, kwaye akufuneki sinyamezele iqabane elisivisa ubuhlungu, kufuneka sizicingele nathi kwaye singazivumeli ukuba siziphathe kakubi iimvakalelo zethu. Ndiza kuhlala ndikuxelela ukuba ndihamba njani.
Kokokuqala ukuba ndive ngo-walter riso, kodwa umntu onolwazi wayicebisa kum kwaye ndingene kwangoko kwiphepha. Ndingathanda ukufunda iincwadi zakho, ndiyathemba ukuba ndingayenza, ngakumbi uthando oluyingozi kakhulu
Inyaniso yeyokuba yeyona ncwadi intle endiyifundileyo kuninzi kakhulu, kulungile kakhulu ukuba ndazi kwaye ndazise ukuba ngubani oyena mntu ubalulekileyo ebomini bakho njengoko uyikholelwa, ukuze wazi ukuba ungaya phi ukuze wonwabe Loo mntu, abahlobo bokwenene ndiyazi ukuba ndibacebisa kakhulu, le ncwadi indincede kakhulu ukuba ndiqonde iqabane lam kunye neqabane lam kum… Enkosi !!!!
Ngaba ukhona umntu owaziyo ukuba leliphi ilizwe uGqirha Riso ahambelayo?
Uhlala phi ngoku kwaye ungaqhagamshelwa njani?
mbulela
Mholo! Ndizifundile iincwadi ezimbini zikaWalter Riso kwaye zindincedile ngaphezu kwalo naluphi na olunye unyango, mna neqabane lam sihlalutya incwadi Imida yothando kwaye isifundisile ukuba siqonde izinto ezininzi esingazivisisiyo, ngakumbi kwiqabane lam ukuqonda okungakumbi kwaye uhloniphe amalungelo am kunye nobuntu bam.
Ndiyifundile incwadi ethi Highly Dangerous Loves kwaye ndafumana iimpendulo ezininzi ebendizifuna, ndiyabulela ugqirha wezengqondo uWalter Riso ngeencwadi ezintle zoncedo asinike zona, enkosi ngokungapheliyo ngoncedo esilufumene kuzo !!!
Mholo! Ndiyakuthanda kakhulu, Walter.Ndizifundile ezinye zezinto ozenzileyo, kwaye zindincedile ukuba ndenze izinto ngendlela eyiyo.Namhlanje ndifumene incwadi yakho ethi «Highly Dangerous Loves» kwaye injongo yam kukuyifunda kuba ndiyifumana inomdla … .. Ndiyavuyisana nawe ngomsebenzi wakho.
Molo, ndinguAli kwaye ndizifundile iincwadi zakho ezinje ngokungathandi uthando lwedayisy kwaye kuyaxhomekeka kwaye ndicinga ukuba iincwadi zakho zilunge kakhulu kuba zinceda izibini kunye nomntu uqobo oku kungaphezulu kwonyango Kungcono ukufunda incwadi nguWalter Rizzo kunokuya apho ugqirha wezengqondo ndiyitsho ngamava
Siyavuyisana nawe, incwadi ebalaseleyo, ifuna ubungqongqo kwaye eyona nto iphambili kukuzazi emva koko udibane nomnye umntu ...
UWalter rizzo
Akufanele ube ngqwabalala ekuxabiseni ezikwenzayo ngeencwadi zakho, nceda uqonde, ayithi sonke sinobuchule bokubhala, kodwa inyani yokuba bashiye uluvo luthetha ukuba bayayivuyela imibhalo yakho, kwaye bazise izibonelelo ezininzi kwabaninzi.
Ndicinga ukuba iincwadi zakho zilungile
Yincwadi engaqhelekanga ... amaxesha amaninzi sikholelwa ukuba sikubudlelwane apho sicinga ukuba silawula, kodwa ayifani kwaphela naleyo nkolo kukho iindlela ezininzi zokuziphatha obusirhuqa ngelishwa ixesha elide .
Ndicebisa ukuba le ncwadi ibhekiswe kubo bonke abantu, hayi eyabantu abatshatileyo, kuba ukuba umntu akanaye umntu osecaleni kwakhe kwaye uyayifunda le ncwadi, baya kuthi baziqonde isimilo esikhoyo kunye nendlela yokumelana nobudlelwane.
Ndifunde enye yeencwadi kwaye ndiyifumene ibalaseleyo ... inyani kukuba singatshintsha kuxhomekeke kubungakanani bomonakalo esiwenzileyo okanye into abayenzayo kuthi, kodwa ukuba ayizizo kuthi ukwenza njalo, thina Siza kuqhubeka sizithobe ekuxhatshazweni, ekuthotyelweni ... iincwadi zokunceda kuba yile ndlela endibona ukuba inomdla ukuya kuthi ga kwinqanaba lokuba siziqhelise .. awucingi na?. Amava okoko ndanobudlelwane nabantu abandonzakalisayo .. Andazi ukuba uthando lukhona ngokwenyani ukuba lolomzuzwana malunga nokuthandana kuba iCharm iphela ngokukhawuleza kunye nokubandezeleka kwexesha elide, kuyasongamela, kuyonakalisa ... sifumana Kude kube kwinqanaba lokuba ukudakumba kusenza sixhomekeke kwintlungu yabantu abangafanelekanga ... yomelela kwaye uhlale usiya phambili ukhangela amathuba angcono kwaye ngaphezu kwako konke okuqinisekileyo ...
Kungenxa yokuba amaxesha amaninzi sifuna ukubambelela kuthando olungasahambelaniyo nathi? Ngamanye amagama, umntu usixelele "andisafuni ukuba nawe" kwaye ngobuyatha sicinga ukuba ukuba simgcina ecaleni kwethu uya kuphinda asithande, kwaye HAYI .. yimpazamo kwaye uyazi kodwa kodwa sinethemba
Molweni, ninjani nonke. Uyazi ukuba ndiyifunda le ncwadi, ndiyayithanda kwaye andikhe ndibandezeleke, kubonakala kum ukuba inomxholo obalaseleyo, yonke into ikufutshane kakhulu kule nto ndiyiphilayo ngalo mzuzu. Incwadi yathetha lukhulu kum, kuba kuluncedo kakhulu ukwazi ukuba umntu othile angakuqonda ngaloo ndlela okanye anike amagama akhuthazayo ngamanye amaxesha kangangokuba kukhangeleka ngathi oyena mntu usondeleyo kuwe akathembekanga. ukuba oyena mntu usondeleyo kuwe ukuhlekisile, kwaye ugqibile ngokhuseleko lwakho le ncwadi yeyona indenza ndibone indawo elungileyo ebendingakhange ndicinge ukuba ndingaze ndiyibone, kodwa hay ndiyabulela nje ukuba uMntu ukhathalele elona candelo libalulekileyo kubomi babaninzi, luthando. Enkosi.
NDINGUMBHALI, NDINGathanda ukunxibelelana noWalter.
IINCWADI ZAKHO ZIHLE KAKHULU.
Mholweni . Ndizithanda kakhulu iincwadi zakho !! zezona zilungileyo. Ndifunde okuninzi kubo, Baye bandibiza kakhulu ngento nganye, isimbo, amagama…. Ngalo lonke ixesha ndifunda incwadi yakho, inkuthazo enkulu endiziva. Ndiyavuyisana nawe. iintsikelelo kuwe. att: duberlys
HOLA WALTER ukuba uyawufunda lo myalezo phambi kwempelaveki ndingathanda ukuba undiphendule oko bendikuvile kutshanje eColombia kwaye uza kumboniso weencwadi eGuatemala, ndingathanda ukuba uze eyunivesithi ndizokwazisa ngencwadi yakho…. Ndiza kuzama ukunxibelelana nawe ngazo zonke iindlela. Imeyile yam abmarin@yahoo.com
Molo, ndatshata emva kweenyanga ezi-5 ndithandana, kamva ndafumanisa ukuba sele enesifo sengqondo esixhalabisayo, kwabakho ubundlongondlongo ngokwasemzimbeni nangokwengqondo, sohlukana ngoku ufuna ukubuya, sele ndisoyika, ukuba angandiphendula, imeyile yile jeny21693@yahoo.es
Uyazi kwiinyanga ezintathu ezidlulileyo ndadibana nomfana endandithandana naye kodwa andizange ndicinge ukuba xa ndiqala ubudlelwane naye, ubomi bam bungaba kukufela ukholo, kuba unesiphene esikhulu, uyathanda ukusela!
Kwaye ndaqala ukuyenza loo nto ngexeshana elincinci kwaye yatshintsha kakubi kum, akasathethi nam, khange andikhangele njengakuqala, uziphatha kakhulu f
Uhleka kwaye ukude nam kwaye xa efuna ukuthetha ngezinto angasawuxhasiyo umthwalo, undikhangela ukuze ndimmamele kwaye andikwazi ukuma ndingenza ntoni ??????? ?
kukuthi xa esithi kubonakala ngathi ngumntu ongenabungozi
Ndizithanda kakhulu iincwadi ze-RISO ... okoko nditshatile ngaphezulu kweminyaka engama-30 kwaye bendisoloko ndiziva ukuba iqabane lam alindithandi, kuba yena akakhathali phantse ngam, nokuba ndiyaphuma okanye akunjalo kuyafana kuye, andikhe ndibenomona, kwaye akathandani ngamanye amaxesha ngamanye amaxesha kuphela ngamanye amaxesha unolwalamano kunye nam olungonelisekanga kum. kodwa andazi kwenzeka ntoni kum, kubonakala ngathi ndisathandana. Ndifuna ukuphuma kule nto, ndifuna ukucetyiswa.
Uneminyaka engama-57 kwaye mna ndinama-49
Ukalo lwakho
Mhlobo uJulio Octavio, andazi ukuba umbhali uza kukuphendula kwangoko, kodwa ukufunda uluvo lwakho ndingakuxelela nje ukuba intandabuzo oyivakalisayo ngokwazi ukuba umntu okweli xesha lobomi bakho uchanekile na okanye hayi, Ayisiyo imbambano, inqaku kukuba awukaqiniseki ngento oyifunayo ebomini bakho, mhlawumbi imeko enjengamaqabane awayekhe wanayo ngaphambili ikuphawule kangangokuba namhlanje awunakubona mpawu zibalulekileyo emfazini Usuku lwanamhlanje kunye nawe kwaye loo nto ayithandabuzeki kwinto yokuba nabani na okuthandayo, uhamba kunye nawe, olindele wena uyakuthanda, owamkela njengoko unjalo uyakuthanda. Apha sithetha ngento ebalulekileyo eyiXABISO. Xa unokumxabisa umntu osecaleni kwakho akukho ndawo yokuthandabuza. Amaxesha amaninzi sineemvakalelo ezixubeneyo kwaye sigweba abanye kuba bengacingi okanye bazive ngathi. Into ebalulekileyo kukuba kufuneka ufunde ukuthanda loo mntu, ukuthanda umntu ayonto umntu azalwa enayo, yinto ayifundayo kwaye eyakha uthando, yiyo loo nto namhlanje uninzi lwabantu abatshatileyo besahlukana kuba besitsho nje ukuba baphelile uthando nothando, kwaye umcimbi uya ngaphaya koko, uthando alupheli, yayikukungadli nje kuphela imihla ngemihla, into engondlekanga iyafa, ke ulibale elidlulileyo, jonga okwangoku ukuze wakhe ikamva. Ukudideka onako kuyimveliso yokungazithembi, into enokulawulwa nguwe kuphela. Xa uqinisekile ngesiqu sakho, abantu abeza kuwe nabo baya kuba njalo, ukuba ngokuchaseneyo awukhuselekanga kungenxa yokuba lo mfazi usenokungazithembi ngawe, ke ndicebisa ukuba bathethe kwaye bafikelele kwisivumelwano esifanelekileyo apho wonke umntu anokuhlala khona mabahlale ngaphandle kokuncamathiselwa kwaye bazobona ukuba yonke into izakuhamba ngcono kubo bobabini. Unethamsanqa. Ibhlog yam ibonakalalisa icorina.blosgspot.com
Molweni, ninjani nonke? Ndiyathemba ukuba andifundanga ncam incwadi ejijekileyo kodwa ukuba ndingathanda ukuyifunda ukuze indincede ndiphume enkohlisweni endishiye ndiphawule umntu endihlala naye iminyaka emi-5 Ukhohliswe ngomnye kwaye ngaphandle kwakhe wandenza intlekisa ngoba wandijika wasibiza ukuba sibuyele kodwa yayiyinto yesondo kuphela le ayifunayo wandibetha wanditsala wathi useless ayisebenzi igcina isela kwaye ngaphandle wandoyikisa ngelithi ukuba andenzi lento ayithethileyo uzakundishiya kwaye uyenzile Kule minyaka mi5 bendikunye naye sekuphele iinyanga ezi6 emnkile kwaye ndisasokola kuba andinakumlibala busuku ngabunye ndilila ndiyazi ukuba ndimbi kakhulu kubi kodwa andinakumlibala ke ukuba bendifuna ukufunda le ncwadi ndingaba ndimbi kakhulu, nditsho ndicinga ngokuzibulala, kwaye ngaphandle kwalonto, akhonto indincedayo ngoba ndicinga ngaye, enkosi ngayo yonke into , kwaye ndiyathemba ukuba ungandiphendula bye
(KuGaly)
Ndiyaxolisa ngokwenzekayo kuwe; ukuba uyaqhubeka ukhumbula umntu okuphethe kakubi kwaye ongazange akuxabise. Ndiyaxolisa ucinga ngokuzibulala. Ngokuqinisekileyo oko kuthetha ukuba awuzithandi kwaye uzixabisile njengoko kufanelekile.
Yiyo loo nto utsalile kwaye wakhetha umntu okuphethe ngoluhlobo.
Iincwadi zinokukunceda kancinci, kodwa eyona nto uyifunayo (ukuba awukenzi oko) lunyango lwengqondo. Unengxaki yokuxhomekeka kakhulu kwaye efuna unyango.
Oko kukuthi, ukuba ufuna ukuziqonda ngokwenene, uphile ngcono kwaye ungonwabi kwaye, mhlawumbi ngenye imini, umntu owonwabileyo.
Ayikho enye indlela. Ukubandezeleka kunye nokuziva uxhatshazwa akuzange kusombulule nantoni na.
Ixabisa kodwa inokwenziwa.
Amathamsanqa!!
for galy ,,,, UTHANDO OKANYE luxhomekeke nguWalter Riso
Molo, le ndawo yeecomments inomdla.Intombi yam indishiyile kuba ifuna ndiyeke ukuphatha umfazi wam wangaphambili ndinabantwana, kwaye engqondweni yakhe ucinga ukuba ndisabelana naye.Iyona nto imbi ngalento Kukuba sibuyele emva kweentsuku ezimbalwa emva koko ahlukane neenyanga zam angandiphenduli iifowuni okanye ii-imeyile kwaye ndizongeze ngaphezulu ukuba sidibana esitalatweni sithetha imizuzu embalwa abaleke ... naphi na .ndikhala ... sineminyaka emi-4 sikule nto kwaye oku ukuzama ukusombulula le ngonyango sesithathu.Ncedo ndilukhangelayo .... Ndixelele uluvo lwakho nceda kwaye ndiyabulela kakhulu ...
Into endiyifunayo kukufumana incwadi yakho yamva nje kubudlelwane bobabini.
Siyabonga ngoncedo lwakho
Ndifuna ukuvuyisana kwaye ndibulele umbhali uWalter riso ngeencwadi ezintle ngolu hlobo, ziyasebenza, ziyingcali kwaye ziyaphumelela Ndiyazithanda, enkosi. .
le ncwadi yeyona ilungileyo
Mva kwemini, bathethe nam kakhulu malunga ne-waletr risso, malunga nentlupheko yayo, endingene kuyo kweli phepha, bandixelela ngomsebenzi ocacileyo ngaphandle koxinzelelo. Ndiyazithanda izimvo, ngakumbi ezivela kumntu onegama elinguCorima, ukusukela kwinyanga kaFebruwari, kulungile andazi ukuba ungandinika i-imeyile, ukuze ndikwazi ukunxibelelana kunye nokubeka izimvo kwezinye zeendlela zobomi bam, Ndicinga ukuba ungumntu onengqondo kwaye uzilungiselele kakhulu.
Atte,
manuel
Akukho mfuneko yokuba ndiyifunde le ncwadi ndikubuze yona ... Uqhubeka njani ukonakalisa ubomi bakho nobabantwana bakho behlala nendoda enje? ... Ndiyakuqinisekisa ukuba ngaphandle kwakhe baya kuba ngcono, xhobani ngenkalipho!
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