Iindlela ezi-6 zokufumana inkuthazo

Ukuphefumlelwa

Ngokuqinisekileyo uninzi lwenu ludlula ngamaxesha apho niqonda ukuba khange nibhale ixesha elide kakhulu okanye xa ukuswela inkuthazo kujika kube lunxano, ibe yindlala engaqhelekanga.

Kwaye kunjengokuba uCapote wayekhe wathi: "Xa uThixo ekunika isipho, ukwakunika nesabhokhwe", ibinzana elithi, intsingiselo bdsm Ngaphandle koko, isishwankathela ngokugqibeleleyo ukukhangela okungapheliyo apho umzobi, imvumi, okanye kule meko umbhali, eqhutywa ebomini bakhe bonke, nokuba ucinga ukuba ulahle itawuli kwaye ukhululekile "kumandla" akhe. .

Nangona kunjalo, ayizizo zonke iindaba ezimbi, kuba nangona izimvo ziza ngexesha ongazilindelanga ngalo, ezi Iindlela ezi-6 zokufumana inkuthazo Baza kukunceda ukhulule i-subconscious egcwele amabali amnandi.

Sebenzisa ubugcisa

Xa ubomi bethu buhamba kwelinye lala maxesha athandekayo kunye nemihla ngemihla, ubugcisa buba yeyona festile ibalaseleyo kubuchule bokuyila, ngakumbi xa iyigalari yobugcisa apho ipeyinti ethile yesurrealist isikhuthaza kwaye isisebezela imibono emitsha, okanye imuvi apho izinto ezithile ezinomdla zinokuthi kukhutshwa. Ngokutsho García Márquez "umntu ngamnye unento yakhe apho afuna ukukhuthazwa khona" Kwaye kwimeko yakhe ibiyifoto okanye indawo apho avele khona ibali lakhe elitsha. Kusenokwenzeka ukuba ufumane eyakho, kodwa ukuba uyaphanda kubugcisa, ukuphefumlelwa kuya kuza ngokwendalo.

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Izizathu ezili-14 zokufunda zakudala, ngu-Italo Calvino

Kuzo zonke iintlobo zobugcisa, ukufunda yeyona nto ifanelwe kukukhankanywa ngokwahlukileyo. Ngangoko sithanda ukubhala, ukuba kwelinye icala asilisebenzisi uncwadi ngokwamandla ethu ziguquke njengababhali okanye ukutyebisa imisebenzi yethu yexesha elizayo akunakufane kwenzeke, kuba incwadi icinga ukuba ioyile ethile kwi-injini yokuyila, inkuthazo evelayo ngenxa yomsebenzi okanye isimbo salo mbhali wumbi kwaye ikuvumela ukuba uvule amehlo akho, uthathe umngcipheko kwaye uqaphele ukuba yonke into inokwenzeka xa unephepha elingenanto phambi kwakho.

Camngca

Ukucamngca

Ukubeka phambili kweminye imicimbi ethatha ixesha kuthi xa ubhala yenye yeengxaki ezinkulu xa unikezela iiyure kubugcisa bethu. Ukuba koku sidibanisa uxinzelelo oluthintela ubuchule bethu, ziqhelanise neyoga kunye nokucamngca iba yeyona ndlela ilungileyo yokubeka zonke ezo ngxaki okanye iziphazamiso ecaleni kwaye uvumele ubuchule bokuhamba bungaphazanyiswa. Kwaye ndiyakuxelela kumava.

Ukuhamba

ICuba, isiqithi esinokufundwa kwakhona.

ICuba, isiqithi esinokufundwa kwakhona.

Nangona kuvakala kufutshane, Ukuhamba yeyona ndlela ilungileyo yokubiza inkuthazo unikwe zonke ezo zinto zintsha zokuba undwendwele indawo entsha ucinga. Ivumba, imibala, umculo ovela kwimivalo, imbali yesikhumbuzo okanye naloo mfazi ungqiyame ebhalkhoni iba yimizobo emitsha yento "efanayo neyahlukileyo" ngaxeshanye, ekufuneka siyifakile incwadi yokubhalela apho la mabali matsha aza kuqala ukwalukwa. Uninzi lwababhali abazinzileyo bangabahambi abakhulu, into ehlala inceda ukukhulisa umsebenzi wakho.

Amabali emihla ngemihla

Ukuba, kwimeko yakho, ukuhamba kuyakuchasa ngezizathu eziqhelekileyo (imali, ixesha, abantwana, njl.njl.), Ujonge ngasemva kwilizwe lemihla esiphila kulo linakho iba yindlela (engaphantsi) yokufumana inkuthazo. Ukutshona kwelanga kwibhalkoni yakho, loo mmelwane umhlola ngasese, abantu abangena nabashiya iindlela zangaphantsi. . . Ukukhutshwa kwesiqhelo esinokukhokelela ngokugqibeleleyo kwamanye amabali.

Enye indlela inokuba kukucela umntu oyinxalenye yobomi bethu bemihla ngemihla ukuba asibalisele ibali elinomdla okanye amava ukuze siliphuhlise, kuba nangona ingabonakala ngathi ayifani, sonke sinamabali namava esinokuwabalisa.

Ukuqiqa

Ukuqiqa

Kwaziwa njenge kucinga, ukuqiqa ngeengcinga akuyona indlela enjalo yokufumana inkuthazo, kodwa yeyona ndlela ilungileyo yokugcina zonke ezo ngcamango kwiphepha elinye kwaye uzivumele uqhutyelwe yinto elandelayo. Ngapha koko, isenzo esilula sokubhala umbono sinokuvelisa inkuthazo enkulu kuthi xa siyithelekisa nabanye okanye ngokuyibona ibonakalisiwe. Khangela inkuthazo, kodwa ungalibali ukuyirekhoda kweso "saqhwithi" sisikhonkco phakathi kobuchule bakho kunye nomsebenzi wakho olandelayo.

Ezi Iindlela ezi-6 zokuphefumlelwa Kufuneka zenziwe ngendlela echuliweyo, ngaphandle kokunyanzelwa, kuba ukuba kukho into engayiqondiyo into yokuyila, bayangxama nababhali abanomdla. Vula nje amehlo akho kancinci, jonga iimpendulo kwinyani yakho kwaye uthathe ithuba laso nasiphi na isikhuthazi esikuthumela ebomini. Kuba kuhlala kunjalo.

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