E aloha aku i kahi kanaka heluhelu

E aloha aku i kahi kanaka heluhelu

He mea heluhelu maʻa wau. He puke mau kaʻu ma kaʻu papa hele po a i loko o kaʻu ʻeke i hiki iaʻu ke heluhelu ia i kēlā me kēia manawa manuahi aʻu ... kope i hoʻokahi makahiki e hōʻike ma nā pūnaewele o ia.

La palapala, ma ke ʻano he leʻaleʻa, ʻoluʻolu ʻia, ʻono leʻaleʻa ʻia, ola ʻia ... Inā ʻaʻole ʻoe he loiloi palapala a hana paha i kahi hale paʻi a lilo ka hauʻoli o ka heluhelu i kāu ʻoihana. Akā ʻaʻole ia ka hihia aʻu e lawe ai iā ʻoe i kēia lā ... Nui nā papa inoa aʻu e heluhelu ai «E aloha i kekahi kanaka ...», a kau kēlā me kēia i kā lākou ʻoihana: psychologist, kahu wahine, kumu, etc. Akā ʻaʻole i loaʻa iaʻu hoʻokahi "E aloha ʻoe me ke kanaka heluhelu"... ʻO ia ke kumu e makemake ai wau e hana i kaʻu ponoʻī, me kaʻu mau kumu ʻaʻole e aloha wale me kahi mea heluhelu (ala ke aloha a ala ʻole paha) akā e pili pū me kēia ʻano o ka poʻe.

Hoʻohanohano lākou i nā manawa mehameha

ʻO ka poʻe e heluhelu ana e hoʻomaopopo a mahalo i nā manawa o ka noho kaʻawale e pono ai nā mea ʻē aʻe no ke kumu maʻalahi e pono ai i kēlā mau manawa liʻiliʻi o ka noho kaʻawale ʻana a mākou e heluhelu ai ...

He noʻonoʻo loi ko lākou

ʻAʻole mākou e nānā pono i nā mea āpau e hiki mai ana iā mākou akā ʻike mākou pehea e ʻike ai i ka maikaʻi a me ka maikaʻi ʻole i ke kumuhana like. ʻAʻole maikaʻi a maikaʻi ʻole paha nā mea āpau, loaʻa i nā mea āpau ke alo a me ke keʻa, no laila he kōkua nui mākou i ka wā e ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo ai i nā kūlana paʻakikī a i ʻole nā ​​koho ma mua.

Maʻalahi ke hiki mai ka hāʻawi ʻana iā lākou i nā lā nui

E ʻike wale ʻoe i kahi a i ʻole nā ​​mea kākau punahele a me nā puke a i ʻole nā ​​puke a lākou e makemake ai e loaʻa i kahi paʻi kūikawā a kaupalena ʻia. I kēia ala, ke hiki mai kahi lā nui kahi e hāʻawi ai ʻoe i kēlā me kēia mea (Kalikimaka, lā hoʻomanaʻo, lā hānau, a pēlā aku) e maʻalahi ʻoe e hōʻoluʻolu iā ia.

He hoihoi lākou

ʻO ka poʻe e heluhelu ana, i waena o nā mea ʻē aʻe, hana pēlā no ka mea makemake mākou e "ola" i ke ola o kēlā mau ʻano. Ke makemake mākou i kahi puke hoihoi mākou a hiki i ka hopena e ʻike i ke kaʻina e hana ai ka moʻolelo ma hope a i ʻole ka huli e hāʻawi i ke ola o kekahi ʻano a i ʻole i kekahi, i kēlā me kēia mokuna. ʻO ia ke kumu e hoʻāʻo mau ai mākou e hele i waho o nā mea a noho ʻole ma ka ʻilikai ... "wehe" mākou i ka ʻike a ʻike ʻana i nā mea hou aʻe e pili ana i ke ola a me nā mea āpau e hoʻopuni iā ​​mākou i kēlā me kēia lā.

E hoʻopili lākou iā ʻoe me kā lākou ʻono no ka heluhelu ʻana

A me ka hoʻopaʻapaʻa, ʻo kēia ka mea nui nui ma kēia papa inoa pōkole. Inā hiki i ke kanaka ke kiʻi iā ʻoe i kahi puke a lilo ʻoe i mea makemake nui e heluhelu i kēlā me kēia lā, no kēlā wale nō, pono ia i kou ola.

Nanea iā ia! E haʻi iā ia e heluhelu iā ʻoe, e kaʻana like i ka moʻolelo me ʻoe ... E haʻi iā ia e paipai i kahi puke, a kaʻana like i kēlā manawa heluhelu ...


Hoʻopili ka ʻike o ka ʻatikala i kā mākou kumumanaʻo o ka hoʻoponopono hoʻoponopono. E hōʻike i kahi kaomi hemahema ʻaneʻi.

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  1. He kuleana no ka ʻikepili: Miguel Ángel Gatón
  2. Ke kumu o ka ʻikepili: kaohi SPAM, hoʻokele ʻōlelo.
  3. Legitimation: Kou ʻae
  4. Ka kamaʻilio ʻana o ka ʻikepili: ʻaʻole e hōʻike ʻia ka ʻikepili i nā ʻaoʻao ʻekolu koe ka mana o ke kānāwai.
  5. Pūnaewele mālama: Pūnaewele i mālama ʻia e Occentus Networks (EU)
  6. Nā Kuleana: I kēlā me kēia manawa hiki iā ʻoe ke palena, hoʻōla a kāpae i kāu ʻike.

  1.   ʻO Yoz nks ia

    ʻĀ, makemake nui wau i ka helu hope loa, manaʻo wau he mea nui loa ka hoʻoulu ʻana i ka heluhelu a kaʻana like i nā manawa maikaʻi o kā mākou mau moʻolelo punahele, a me ka hāʻawi kālā ʻana i nā puke, ke paipai ʻana i nā poʻo inoa a i ʻole nā ​​mea kākau a me ka heluhelu maikaʻi ʻana ma waena o nā leo ʻelua e hoʻonāukiuki ana.

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