Walter laugh is a writer who was born in Naples in 1951, as a child his parents emigrated with him to the Argentine Republic and settled in Buenos Aires. His childhood was spent in Pichincha street where the old Spineto market was located, a neighborhood populated by Italian immigrants and of other nationalities. Since he was a child, he tried to study piano with little success, however the teacher bought him some booklets called “pen” so that he could write poetry and from there his passion for writing and reading was born.
He stood out as an excellent soccer and basketball player, he also practiced athletics, especially triple jump. At the end of his baccalaureate he began his studies in Electronic Engineering and only studied four years because he was seduced by the hippie and political thought of the time, which led him to the study of oriental cultures and social sciences. He is currently a lecturer and teacher at different universities, a practice that alternates with research in the area of cognitive psychology and therapy.
Experts say that thirty percent of the population has "a highly dangerous and harmful way of loving" for the emotional well-being of couples, and it is more frequent in men than in women.
Walter laugh, in the presentation of his latest book, «Highly dangerous loves«, Has tried to« create a space for reflection to better understand your partner and elucidate to what extent it is justified to fight for her or not ».
"This is not a traditional self-help book or recipes," according to the author, but a work that explains eight harmful affective styles: harassing, paranoid, subversive, narcissistic, obsessive, antisocial, schizoid and chaotic love.
These styles are more common in men than in women for cultural and genetic reasons, but he has pointed out that "women are healthier and more conciliatory than men, since they are the ones who ask for professional help on time."
Rice He has commented that for a couple to function, it is necessary to “replace endurance with respect; reciprocity for total generosity; to practice solidarity - to fight together in life - and to want to love (not duty), since love has to be totally voluntary ».
«The partner is poorly chosen and it is believed that the heart chooses the right person, but this is not the case since love has to be reasoned with just like any other decision in life. When you choose a relationship, you have to see if it suits your life, your projects, your self-realization ... and not confuse love with falling in love », Riso clarified.
According to the expert, "defending autonomy is good", but between "stoically putting up with your partner like grandmothers did and not putting up with it at all" there is an intermediate point, which is where you can find a healthy and responsible individualism.
For him, love is «a conjunction of desire, friendship and care for the other», although, in his opinion, «the most important thing is friendship (he defines it as harmony, humor, sharing ...), since it occupies the eighty percent of the time as a couple, "he concludes.
I am 40 years old I live with a man of 61 ... 10 years ago, our relationship does not work he is very selfish he does not like me to leave the apartment and when he is at home he does not take me anywhere every day it is a torment we hardly speak ,, He doesn't like dialogue and he humiliates me every time he wants to make me feel like he is very aggressive and possessive I don't know what I should do I have told him in a thousand ways that I don't want you to live more at home than ours already He does not go any more and he does not flinch at all he says that he is leaving but he does not make the decision my god, please help them I can not massss
I am a follower of yours and read many of your books and I would like to congratulate you for writing your books that help many people
Well the truth seems to me that it is a supremely extraordinary book even though I have not read it; I am very interested and the truth is if I go to obtain it.
my story is that I have a somewhat hard relationship; He doesn't bother to call me, he hardly ever leaves the house; when he comes out he is crouched so as not to look at me, let's say it like that. At times I understand why he is younger than me, but such simplicity, carelessness in front of his partner, and resigned cannot exist in a person. I think he identifies himself as an antisocial love because he does not lend himself to anything only when he is drinking or we mention something like going out to drink then if it happens.
I'm worried, the truth is, I want to give it up leave the way free and give myself better to other people and meet other men who suddenly go according to my expectations because the truth is I feel that I am wasting my time.
Thank you, I await your response to this concern or problem that arises in my relationship ……….
Hello… .I don't know if mine is a problem reading the previous torments …… I am 23 years old and have been married for a week, my husband is 18 years older than me although in his physicality it is not apparent, apart from this we do not speak the same language!!!! If it's crazy, it's true ... I don't know if I got married in love, the truth I have not discovered yet, I only know that with him I feel a well-being and a terrible physical and sexual attraction, if he is a very tender, intelligent man with good values , but it bothers me that he has his life so perfectly planned that things are done his way, period !!! He is authoritarian until the moment of making love and that annoys me! As a professional, my respects, he has achieved his economic success through effort and that is admirable, but there is the complex, which is believed so brilliant that for him it is only The best does not forgive any error or mistake that I may have and this infuriates me and more than everything saddens me, what should I do ????
HELLO, I HAVE READ MANY BOOKS BY YOUR AUTHORITY, EVEN THOUGH LATEST I HAVE BEEN A LITTLE OUT-OF-UPDATED AND I HAVE BEEN DAMAGED WITH SOME…. BUT I'LL GET UP TO DATE.
I HAVE A RELATIONSHIP THAT I CONSIDER HEALTHY BUT I WOULD LIKE IT TO LAST AND I'M WILLING TO FIGHT FOR THAT….
THANK YOU FOR ALL YOUR VALUABLE CONTRIBUTIONS TO OUR LIVES ……
I want to tell him that I admire him very much, that he is a great help for my personal improvement and his books seem very interesting to me and have helped me in my relationship with my husband and my daughter. Go ahead and congratulations on your excellent work.
I take this opportunity to congratulate you on such excellent books, I have always thought that men like WALTHER RISO are the ones that the world needs so that so many people who live in a world of mental slavery can overcome through these works all conflicts that ask human beings. humans to be happy. I would like you to write a book based only on the freedom of the spasms that each person must have with their partner.
Since I came across his first book «To love or to depend» I identified myself with his writings and what I was thinking, the personal reflection that I had been doing for several time with my relationship with my partner, it helped me a lot to understand many things and to be able to make the decision to continue with psychological therapy and to continue documenting myself with other works ... «defollowing daisies» ....
Now I face loneliness, I feel that separating was the best decision I could make, however now after four years of separation from eight years of living together with the father of my son ... I feel that loneliness hurts a lot and the beautiful memories They assault frequently and I feel a deep pain that sometimes makes me ask myself the question again: what did I do wrong? Although I know the answer, I was not alone there, it was a construction of two, and that "ship" intended to carry alone and that's not how it is ...
I am building my world again, although it is so difficult….
Thank you for sharing your reflections and your professional vision through your works, I have only read the comments and reviews of your new book and I wish to read it soon because it worries me from the title that is very suggestive ...
Go ahead and continue to illuminate the path of the most wonderful feeling, love… ..
Claudia Arenas Betancur
Hello, I am not so much a lover of reading but I want to inform you that your book of highly dangerous loves has caught my attention.
I hope that my partner will give it to me with love and friendship or if I don't buy it myself, to share it with him.
I am going through a class of problems with my partner suffers from moods I am the mother of a girl and a boy for which all my time is for them and to attend to him and for me there is never a space for a -invitations to cinema or partying I am 27 years old and he is 43 years old but he does not look like it. It is supremely homemade and if I would never leave the house on the outside, he is a lover of tv and those are the plans that he wants for me, I do not have any kind of indep.
My life routine is my mother in-laws and going to the market I cannot work because my in-laws say that most of the women who work are found as a lover for the boss.
My self-esteem hurts me, he tells me that I'm like a cow for just asking him to buy me an ice cream, etc.
and I want to tell you that I am and I see myself as a beautiful woman who calls attention I feel exhausted and I want adrenaline for my life I think my relationship is highly dangerous I need someone's help thanks
Hello good Morning!!! I take this opportunity to congratulate Mr. Walter Riso, who with his eloquent way of expression, and his experiences related in his magnificent books has made us in one way or another see our reality, books that have really made us think from the bottom of the soul and heart ... it is truly impressive to read each of Walter Riso's books, because in each one of them he captures truths that we had asleep, almost dead and that now we can translate them into realities, in improving our lives and in an authentic Well-being ... And well, a comment before written by Mrs. Sandra Milena leaves me somewhat pensive, perhaps I am not a psychologist or a counselor, but what I know is that she is very young, full of life and cannot be overshadowed for your husband and less for the comments of your in-laws, because there is only one LIFE and you should think more of yourself in your well-being, it is your life that is at stake, your progress, your personal fulfillment, it is still on time, because and The fact that you are Mom does not detract from the fact that you want to work, be someone in life, that your children feel proud of you, also today the vast majority of women fulfill their role as Mom but without neglecting their role as a woman. , to be a professional, to have a job, a livelihood, to have fun ... in short, infinite things that a woman can do without neglecting the home, and of course not neglecting the children ... being a Mom does not mean cloistered to raise children, it means have personal fulfillment, and many other things that we women are capable of doing, Sandra Milena ENCOURAGEMENT ... YOU ARE IMPORTANT, YOU ARE WORTH IT, YOU ARE A UNIQUE AND UNREPEATABLE BEING, you are capable of many things, give it the will and conviction that you can get ahead you're still on time it's never too late, THERE WILL ALWAYS BE AN OPPORTUNITY ...
Mr. Walter Riso, I will not tire of expressing my most sincere CONGRATULATIONS for your excellent performance as a writer, because through those precise and extremely true words embodied in your books ... you have made the LIFE of a more clearly and with great solutions ... I hope he never puts an end to his writings, those that feed life to the soul and heart of readers like me, who will always find in his books the perfect excuse to never stop reading.
Greetings, successes and very good vibes for life, for the soul and for the heart ...
I think it is one of the best books by walter riso, I want to have it, because I have read many of his collection, I find this new book very interesting and I am hoping to have the means to have it.
Life must be lived intensely, loving and enjoying every moment!
Walter Rizo is my favorite author, I have read almost all his books and I am about to read the last one, he has helped me a lot to understand many things that sometimes I did not understand because they happened to me, it is wonderful to read his works.
HELLO ... I HAD A 2-YEAR RELATIONSHIP WITH A PERSON WHO WAS FOR ME AND STILL IS VERY SPECIAL, EVEN THOUGH HE HAS CAUSED A LOT OF DAMAGE, I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO TO REMOVE HIM FROM MY MIND AND HEART IS SOMETHING THAT I CANNOT ACCEPT THE FACT OF THINKING THAT I'M NOT GOING TO BE WITH HIM TREADS ME, I AM AFRAID TO FEEL THAT BECAUSE I REALIZE THAT I AM VERY ACCUSTOMED TO HIM AND THE WORST IS THAT I FEEL SOME DEPENDENCE AND I DON'T LIKE THAT, I DECIDE ON OCCASIONS NOT TO TALK WITH HIM ANY MORE BUT WHEN HE CALLS ME OR I SEE HIM I AM CONFUSED AND EVERYTHING COMES UP TO ME THE TRUTH IS VERY COMPLICATED TO END WITH EVERYTHING I FEEL, SOMETIMES I EVEN REALIZE THAT THIS RELATIONSHIP MADE ME LOSE MANY THINGS UNTIL MY PRINCIPLES AND VALUES SO MUCH THAT I GOT USED TO ABUSE IN EVERY SENSE, I WOULD LIKE TO KNOW WHAT I SHOULD DO TO SOLVE THIS PROBLEM.
Thank you for writing all this and helping to identify the types of affections, I feel that I was with someone who met a mixture of two types of affection and I specifically one, this book helped me define and make assertive decisions for my life
I thought it was a great work, its content is great, it is what literary romanticism was waiting for. WALTHER CONGRATULATIONS KISSES AND HUGS
well ... I had a boyfriend who cheated on me, after a relationship of 4 years, but I did not do that and I gave him a new opportunity and time took care that this new opportunity failed, he cheated on me again but I found out later …. that person asked me for space and I gave it to him but deep down I knew what was happening, we had good communication and a lot of love but the only thing we did not have both was experience ... after several days we finished unanimously ... and today October 22 I realized that the relationship I was in was an absolute attachment to that person, I lived for him, breathed for him and my brain atrophied for 4 years for that person and I did not realize it until today ... I tried to attack myself life, but I have some great friends who will help me get out of that depression I knew how to take the advice of the people around me and I went out a lot to meet people and why not to meet new experiences, and between coming and going now I have a boyfriend and still I don't think so, this boyfriend I have now is my schoolmate who I never dared tell him that I liked him, but since I had a boyfriend he respected my commitment and to my surprise he liked him too and at this moment I'm happy with him and thanks to the book love or depend on the relationship with my boyfriend, I dare to say that I love and do not depend and for greater happiness I am reciprocated in every way and I feel very happy…. My age is my short I am 17 years old but my knowledge about love is very broad and every day I expand my way of thinking towards life….
Well, I have 24 years, 2 children and a husband who is not very affectionate and attentive to me, the truth is, I do not know what happens to me, I love my husband a lot and I know that without him I will not be able to be completely well, because with a little discussion I feel that the world is me comes down, I try to think about my children and their well-being, that's why I make an incident not last more than two days of anger and I make peace with it because despite what we have gone through, he has told me that he loves and has shown me because we do not need anything, but I need more than words to feel sure of his love I am very insistent in that sense and I think that has married him a bit because work and family make romantic moments they are very few. I try to show him my love that he does not get bored with the routine, so on his day off I treat him like a king and I show him in a thousand ways how much I care even if he does not correspond to me in the same way because he is a man of few words and I think that makes me angry, I despair that he is not as detailed as I am, I try to understand him because that was the way it was since our courtship, well not as much as now, but I need your attention, your care because the Truthfully, I have been tempted to deceive him because there are those who tell me what they would like him to say to me and the truth is I am afraid of falling and losing him because of an illusion and although I have told him that I would like him to be more special and affectionate with me, I do not see results. What will I do? That is the big question, I hope to be strong and put my future before slipping and hitting myself badly.
hello I love your books…. I have relied on some of them to give the beginning and the end of a relationship. only that from that I left with a baby that I love, and I live for him ... I am currently in a highly dangerous relationship because I know that it does not suit me and that I hurt his family and myself, I have searched for all means to end it but he is the one who does not leave me, I have raised it in a thousand ways and he does not let me ... he only tells me lies «I no longer sleep with her we are only for the girl» but neither does he leave her side or leave to go out with her, while I am at home as the self-sacrificing woman who is not happy…. Sometimes I think that she suffers more than I do, because she can put up with it, that she does not get to sleep, that she receives comments that they saw us together, that we kissed, and thus we avoid it at all costs, someone sees us or even herself claims to have seen us. I already know what awaits me from nothing. absolutely nothing, and that doesn't make me happy at all…. but finally there they with their entanglement and she with her bitterness ... I just want to express that I want it, I don't know in what way ... but I also want to end this and be completely happy. that could pass me that is the doubt that assails me? I hope to face everything that comes with ample maturity.
Sentimental relationships require maturity is to identify with your partner having the same objectives when they have to do with the couple, the truth in love must always prevail reason more than the heart.
I am a person who plays with the feelings of women, I usually manipulate the woman who is on duty in my life, I had a relationship that marked me that is why I do not believe in love, I am aware that I ended up with a very good person In every sense of the word she was the ideal woman I wanted but I decided to change her for a cashier who was very easy for me, I feel good with her maybe while the chemistry lasts so I think so, what should I do to find what I want, no I want to do more harm to anyone.
I would like to know when Walter Riso is coming to Mexico.
He seems to me to be an extremely interesting person, I have read most of his books if not all of them, I have also recommended them, I am an admirer of the writer, his books have been very supportive and in turn able to guide and support other people.
I congratulate him, I hope he writes many other books and I will be aware of them.
regards
veky
Hello, I discovered that my partner is mythomaniac, I don't know what to do, if I help him or get away from him, he is younger than me, he is 21 and I 26. What should I do?
I have read some books such as highly dangerous loves and I think they are very good, that they help people who have difficult relationships or complicated couples, as long as they accept it, I have been interested in these books to understand the situation they are going through my brother, to see how I can help you, but I see that a couple's treatment or self-esteem is necessary, but I would like to know how much it costs, and if you doctor could do it.
Thank you.
magaly cc
Hello Walter, entering the human being and deciphering it as you do is not easy, in the world there are millions of people who need help, especially when it comes to living together as a couple.
Thank you for these wonderful books, they are a relief for humanity, the only difficult thing is to put them into practice.
The book ¨Highly Dangerous Loves¨ is an exquisite work for my reading pleasure, I think that this book should be available to all people, because the Achilles heel of the separation of couples in our environment is the ignorance of not knowing Recognize a person with a personality disorder, my recommendations for readers is that if you want to enjoy an interesting and very educational reading, I recommend this book. thanks att: k2
Hello!!! About your comments I tell you that I lived married for 8 years with a person who depended 100% on him, my decision was to divorce him and if necessary but everything can be overcome 2 years later I am a professional something that I would not have achieved with him and with a child ahead. SI SE PUEDE is only about making up your mind, making up your mind and standing up for yourself, knowing that there is only one life and that better to live it to the fullest.
Walter Riso helps a lot to keep going. Leidy Mateus finishes the book and decides the best for you and your son.
Success to all to find happiness
I read an article about the book in a newspaper and it caught my attention, because Love is always an interesting and inexhaustible topic, in my opinion. I totally agree that we cannot choose who we fall in love with, but that we have the power to choose if we want to maintain a relationship with that person. That is to say, use reason to assess whether that person with whom we have fallen in love is the one who fits into our way of life or if we can fit into theirs ... When I say "system of life" I mean something very complex, such as projects, priorities, interests, tastes, ... Infinity of things that make a relationship between two people so complex.
I myself used reason several times to decide whether a relationship had a future or not and I made decisions with my head, being very much in love. Some will say that I acted well, others will not understand. I believe that I was not wrong in any case.
Currently I have been very in love for two years, excited, living with my partner, with whom I have common projects, he is my best friend (and we love to make Love !!). I made the decision to change my city, my job, to go live for the first time with someone, very much in love, but with a head ... Always weighing the pros and cons ... In this case I have the immense luck that my heart and my head they tell me the same thing.
I WANT TO CONGRATULATE YOU ON THE EXCELLENCE OF YOUR BOOKS, I HAVE READ THEM ALMOST EVERYONE I HOPE TO FIND THE LAST ONE AS SOON AS POSSIBLE, SINCE I NEED TO RAISE MY SELF ESTEEM, SINCE I HAD A RELATIONSHIP OF MORE THAN TWENTY-FIVE YEARS, AND I LIVED WITH TWO CHILDREN WITH US HE WAS PREPARING HIS MARRIAGE WITH HIS LOVER WHO HAD THREE YEARS OF WALKING TOGETHER, IT WAS SUCH A STRONG HIT FOR ME AND MY CHILDREN, AND I THINK THAT HE HAS NOT YET ASSIMILATED WHAT HE DID BECAUSE HE COMES TO THE HOUSE LIKE YES STILL OUTSIDE WHERE HE LIVES, HE WANTS TO BE INTIMATE WITH ME SAYING THAT HE CANNOT FORGET ME AND THAT THERE ARE VERY INTIMATE THINGS THAT ONLY WITH ME HE HAS DONE, I WANT TO HAVE THE COURAGE TO TELL HIM TO LET ME LIVE MY LIFE, AND TO FIND HIM MY CHILDREN AND LOVE ME, I NEED YOUR ADVICE. THANK YOU AND GOD BLESS YOU
Walter Riso's books are of great help to all people, who at any moment suffer a disappointment, or have their feelings tangled, they help us clarify our emotional situations and see life from another perspective.
Hello. I loved your book, highly dangerous loves. I identify a lot with your comments where you describe an old relationship in the borderline / unstable style. They are definitely a supernova. Thank God and his book I understood why my partner was so unstable and that he would never change. So I managed to end the relationship and I have managed to find the lost peace since the relationship began, which lasted almost 3 years. The book is excellent and I recommend it to anyone who is in a toxic relationship. Thanks.
... For me it is very difficult to understand why we get hooked on stormy relationships and worst of all, knowing that this is not good in any sense, we cannot get out of there.
My case is one of those, where you know that the person next to you, your "partner", does not suit you. I've been trying to "deal" with this for over 8 years. Everything is against us, however, I have not been able to leave it.
I want with all my strength to get out of this, I have tried a thousand things, but until today I have not been able, it is like a bad vice. And I want it, that's not good, but I still want it.
I have sought professional help, I have improved, but I cannot give it up.
Nothing brings me, nothing enriches me in that relationship. He is selfish, unfaithful, tight-fisted, his mother hates me, we have no intimacy, we don't even live together, in one of my attempts to get out of this we separated, but only of bodies, because from my heart I have never been able to leave him.
I know it's very difficult to change reality, but I still can't get out of this.
If anyone knows the formula to abandon this type of relationship, please help me, I want to get out of this, however I want it. He tells me that everything is going to change, that he loves me, that we give ourselves a new opportunity, but I know that the chances of it working are slim.
My next step is to read the book, although the truth is, at this moment my faith is running out. I just hope that something helps me.
I'm not used to publishing my private life, but I can't do it anymore and I think this is a good space. If someone wants to give me advice, it will be well received.
Thank you.
Good evening, for me it is a pleasure. She is an amateur reader of your texts of such nourished information, mainly because they always leave and are for that "teach and apply in everyday life" all the observations and research that she does through her writings.
I am a woman who is really not too bad, let's say I have professional studies and I consider myself an enterprising woman who always fights for what she wants and achieves it, however, since not everything is perfect, I lead a very sad life with my partner or I don't know what to call him , and the worst thing is that I must stop loving him because it makes no sense to continue with someone who after four years together has not valued a woman like me, it is very humiliating last night in our small space together that even though we only live together half We talk when we go to sleep, it is so cold so I don't even know how to explain sometimes I think I am the only woman who has experienced this situation, she is a person who is sometimes right and many others wrong, lives always bitter, she does not care about anything I do not know how It is… .well last night he told me that I was useless, that I hindered him in his life that I was useless, that he was not progressing it was because of me that I had it bad, and that is not true because I am and is so a good woman, good person, hardworking, and very focused on what he wants, ... he also told me that he does not love me that every time he tells me he loves me it is because I ask him or to please me because he believes is what I want to hear, I think that he is not going to change and I must get away from him but I would also like to stop loving him because 4 years are not erased or forgotten overnight they are not buried, nor are they buried they live and remain recorded forever….
ayudenme
I do not know to what extent it can be love to be with a man who has been married for two years, I only know that I have been with him for 7 years and I do not want to leave him emotionally dependent on him I am not of that I am sure but I do not want to leave my question is how should this be called?
I have not actually read all the books, but there is one in particular that has caught my attention, it is called "love and do not suffer." his ways of somehow analyzing the ways in which people "love" really are very accurate, so that they are cases that happen in real life, that is, they are not fiction. In my personal opinion, I think that if everyone, especially I address you women because I am, that we communicate what happens to us, be it good or bad, but we NEVER shut up ... silence is the best weapon of chaotic opportunities that leave damaging marks in our lives. TO LOVE is to be HAPPY….
HELLO .. I JUST WANTED TO WRITE ABOUT THE BOOK HIGHLY DANGEROUS LOVES BY WALTER RISO MARCO MY LIFE… I HAVE READ ALMOST ALL OF HIS BOOKS .. AND HE HAS GIVEN ME A LOT OF STRENGTH IN MY MOST DIFFICULT MOMENTS SO I AM SINCERE CONGRATULATIONS TO WELL.
Hello, I need more information about lectures by walter riso
the idea is to contact you for a conference in san juan de pasto nariño colombia
Thank you
I spent 9 years in a highly dependent relationship, when I decided to leave it cost me a lot, but I reaffirmed enormously, with his book Love or Depend, and Love and Don't Suffer I realized that it was 100% pure emotional dependence, today I am 31 years old and I have 2 years of having a very different and healthy relationship, his books have helped me in a great way to reaffirm that voice that is inside one that tells us that it is wrong and that it is right, but many of us ignore it out of ignorance, for reverldía with life, by immaturity, or simply by believing that one knows them all
Today I have a good friendship relationship with my ex, but very different, and I see how he is still in the same with my ex-best friend, it hurts for them that they are still stuck in a vicious circle of naca to end, but thank God and the strength that develop over time, now I see "the towers from the sidelines" and that makes me feel happy with myself.
My partner is currently stable and I feel more power of better in many aspects of life, I began to live for myself and not for others….
Greetings and thanks
Thanks Walter Riso. I just read the book "To Love or To Depend" and it has helped me to leave my last relationship. My relationships serve me to suffer, I choose the inappropriate man, since there is always a deception because I find out that he is married or that he has more women. And I fall into the same error again. I know I'm doing something wrong but I can't quite see what archetype I need to improve my relationships and not look at these types of characters.
Walther Riso is for me one of the best writers, he has been concerned about helping to find a flower on the path of life, he has been concerned and is still concerned about helping human beings to live in harmony both with themselves and with others. I am waiting for your new book that is related to bitterness, a disease that embraces all human beings, leading them to destruction.
I want to congratulate you from this corner of Colombia, Neiva Huila, a land of wonderful people who love reading.
Today 14/08/2009 I am remembering, admiring and hoping one day to be in personal contact with Dr. Walther Riso, we are at the book fair in the city of Bogotá and there are many compliments for this great writer.
A Colombian admires and respects you DR. WALTHER RISO
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We can love someone a lot but allow a relationship to hurt us, lower our self-esteem, we cannot allow it because that is creating a dependency and we fall into a vicious circle. To say that he is going to change is a lie because if that person does not create an awareness that something is happening and that he needs to change for his good to be happy, you will never be able to change him. We make changes ourselves from the inside out. I love and admire WUALTER RISSO. is a being that makes you change your vision of life
Hello:
I was walking through the book fair this year in Buenos Aires and I came across his latest book… From the cover, going through the title and ending up on the back cover… it caught me. I am a teacher and I raise two beautiful children alone, books are a luxury that sometimes I cannot afford. But a crumb lent it to me, and I must tell her that I loved her way of writing and ... and I felt that she identified my relationship with one of her affective styles described in the book. Since then I want to continue reading his bibliography but it is difficult for me to find it in my city ... I want to read To love or to depend ... It is difficult what he says about reasoning love ... but it is what I did after reading and I realized that I did not have a healthy relationship ... so again alone hoping to find someone who chooses to be with me every day because he wants to ...
Walter, I admire him very much. I have read practically all the texts and Highly Dangerous Loves is the best book I have read of all time. It is incredible that an author has been concerned to write about this topic that helps us to choose the partner we want for our lives. The big question we ask ourselves every time we like a person is: Does this relationship really suit me? And with this book I helped myself to identify not only in the people who have passed through my life, but in myself, that I must improve attitudes and be sure who I will choose as a life partner. Walter I have recommended your book to everyone I can, to my friends, colleagues, new people I know, in short, an excellent material that I have next to my bed as a bedside text. I also write and although my area is not writing, I love writing and also helping people. Perhaps part of what I have to discover is to continue nourishing myself with your writings. Congratulations!!!
Hi, I'm 24 years old and sometimes I think that love is already a thing of the past since men only look for sex in women because they no longer like to commit, I'm dying to fall in love but I can't fall in love no matter how hard I try, I don't even get excited with no one else I am already thinking as a man in the sense that everything is temporary and now and that makes me feel empty alone and unhappy ………… .. if someone wants to help me thank you …… Andrea
walter riso is the best his books are a very good help. whenever he writes a new book he surprises, definitely this man is a wise man he is the best …………………… ..
Hello everyone again! I'm 17! I study Psicology! I already read all the books of walter riso! friends of you who have recounted those episodes of your lives on the subject of love and relationships, I tell you something very elementary for all human beings: LIVE! BELIEVE! AFFERRING YOUR DREAMS.AMEN NOT JUST A MAN OR WOMAN BUT TO EVERYTHING THAT SURROUNDES YOU !, LIVE EACH MOMENT AS IF IT WAS THE LAST, SMILE AT LIFE BECAUSE THIS IS THE OPPORTUNITY TO LIVE THE DAYS TRYING TO FIGHT FOR THE HAPPINESS! and above all BREATHE! breathing well increases our ability to think with serenity, and more in this hectic world! listen to their inner needs and satisfy them BUT in a healthy way! … Let's NOT be afraid to be HAPPY! …… .. YOU WANT THEM! …… A HUG! ……. PLEASE NOTE THESE WORDS! …..Thank you!
Hello, I have read some books by Riso, such as Highly Dangerous Loves, The Way of the Wise Men, or To Love and not Suffer, they have seemed great, very realistic, objective, in short, very good.
Now I have a problem that I am not able to be objective, I do not know how to see reality, or how I can get out of the situation I am in. That is why I would ask whoever reads this comment to help clarify what decision I should make.
The issue is the following, I have a relationship with a guy who, the truth is, I don't know how to define it, which started out simply being a professional 5 years ago, because I helped him with all the papers and documentation of his company. we made friends, I stayed for dinner at his house every day I went, etc. He is a single father, he has a teenage daughter who lives with him, and well I get along very well with his daughter too. Then he began to call me on the phone too many days without any special reason, etc. When he has a problem, he calls me, or he has to make an important business decision, he does it too. The truth is that I think I don't know if I've really fallen in love with him, I think I have, but he's a womanizer, I know that too. Every now and then I feel terrible about some attitude he has. What I want to know is what I should do in a situation that sometimes causes me discomfort. Because of course he keeps calling me when he needs me to do some paper for him. What solution do I have ???????????? »
Thank you, I await your opinion, you can leave it in my address: zarinaret@hotmai.com
I really like RISO's books .. since I have been married for more than 30 years and I have always felt that my partner does not love me, since he does not care almost anything about me, whether I go out or not is the same for him, never I am jealous, nor is he affectionate only sometimes he only sometimes has relationships with me that are not satisfactory for me. but I don't know what happens to me, it seems that I'm still in love. I want to get out of this, I want to be advised.
He is 60 years old and I am 45.
It is extremely interesting since these styles are more common in men than in women. "Highly dangerous loves" teaches and guides new expectations to improve couple relationships and build in knowing what is sought and wanted in a healthy love relationship.
8 key points of how people are. I personally liked it a lot
because there are eight key styles with which it would be better not to relate! I recommend it.
I am reading the book, I am in the first dangerous love, it seems to me that it gives us many ideas to improve our life, and we do not have to put up with a partner who hurts us, we must also think about ourselves and not let ourselves mistreat our feelings. I'll keep telling you how I'm going.
It's actually the first time I've heard of walter riso, but a knowledgeable person recommended it to me and I immediately entered the page. I would love to read your books, I hope I can do it, especially highly dangerous loves
The truth is that it is the best book that I have read of so many, it is very good to know and make known who is the ideal person for your life as you believe it, to know how far you can go to be happy with that person, really friends I know I highly recommend them, that book has helped me a lot to understand my partner and my partner to me… .Thank you !!!!
Does anyone know in which country Dr Riso attends?
Where do you currently live and how can you be contacted?
Thank you.
Hi! I have read two books by Walter Riso and they have helped me more than any other therapy, my partner and I are analyzing the book The Limits of Love and it has taught us to understand many things which we did not understand, especially to my partner. understand a little more and respect my rights and individuality.
I have also read the book Highly Dangerous Loves and I got many answers that I was looking for, I thank the psychologist Walter Riso for such good books of great help that he has provided us, thank you infinitely for the help that we found in them !!!
Hi! I admire you a lot, Walter. I have read some of your works, and they have helped me to be realistic in things. Today I discovered your book «Highly Dangerous Loves» and my goal is to read it because I find it quite interesting ... I congratulate you on your work.
Hi, I'm Ali and I have read your books like dislodging daisies love and it depends and I think that your books are very good because it helps the couples and the person themselves this is more than a therapy it is better to read a book by walter rizzo than to go where a psychologist I say it from experience
Congratulations, excellent book, it requires a lot of intensity and the key is to know yourself and then meet someone else ...
Walter Rizzo
You should not be so harsh in the appreciations that they make of your books, please understand, that not all of us have writing skills, but the fact that they leave a comment means that they appreciate your writings, and that they have brought many benefits to many. .
I think your books are great
It is an extraordinary book ... many times we believe we are in a relationship in which we think we are in control, but it really is not like that behind that belief there are many behaviors that you have been dragging unfortunately for a long time.
I recommend this book for all people, not necessarily for couples, because if a person still does not have a person by their side and reads this book, they will realize the behaviors that exist and how to cope with a relationship. SIMPLY HERMOOSOOO BOOK
I read one of the books and it seemed excellent to me ... the truth is that we could change depending on the extent of the damage we do or what they do to us, but if it is not up to us to do so then we will continue to subject ourselves to abuse, humiliation ... I consider they are interesting to the extent if we get to practice it ... don't you think ??…. I say it from experience since I had relationships with people who hurt me .. I don't know if love exists in reality if it is momentary about falling in love since the charm ends quickly and long-term suffering exhausts, overwhelms, destroys ... we get to such a point that depression makes us dependent on pain for people who are not worth it ... be strong and always move forward looking for better opportunities and above all authentic …Kisses
Because many times we want to cling to a love that no longer corresponds to us? In other words, the person told us "I no longer want to be with you" and we foolishly think that if we keep him by our side he will be able to love us again, and NO .. it is a mistake and you know it but still we hope
hello, how are you greetings to all. You know I am reading the book, love and do not suffer, it seems to me that it has an excellent content, everything is the closest to what I am living and at this moment. The book has meant a lot to me, because it is very helpful to know that someone can understand you in that way or give such encouraging words at times that it seems that not even the person closest to you is trustworthy or rather that is the point that The person closest to you has laughed at you, and has finished with much of your security this book is what makes me see the good part that I did not think I could ever see, but hey I just give thanks that Someone cares about the most fundamental part in the lives of many, love. Thank you.
I AM A WRITER, I WOULD LIKE TO CONTACT YOU WALTER.
YOUR BOOKS VERY GOOD.
Hello . I really love your books !! they are the best. I have learned a lot from them. They have called me a lot the attention to each thing, style, words…. Every time I read a book of yours, it is such a great inspiration that I feel. I congratulate you. blessings to you. att: duberlys
HOlA WALTER if you read this message before the weekend I would like you to answer me since I heard you recently in Colombia and you come to the Book fair in Guatemala, I would like you to come to my university to promote your book…. I will try to contact you by all means. My email abmarin@yahoo.com
Hello, I got married after 5 months of dating, later I found out that he already suffered from schizophrenia, there was physical and psychological aggression, we separated and now he wants to return, I am already afraid, if he can answer me, my email is jeny21693@yahoo.es
You know three months ago I met a young man with whom I fell in love but I did not think that when I started a relationship with him, my life would be a martyrdom, because he has a great defect, he likes to drink some!
And I started doing that in a very short time and it changed very ugly with me, he no longer spoke to me, he did not look for me as before, he behaves very f
He laughs and is distant with me and when he needs to talk about things that he no longer supports the load, he looks for me so that I can listen to him and I can not stand what can I do ????????
is that when he says it seems such a harmless person
I really like RISO's books .. since I have been married for more than 30 years and I have always felt that my partner does not love me, since he does not care almost anything about me, whether I go out or not is the same for him, never I am jealous, nor is he affectionate only sometimes he only sometimes has relationships with me that are not satisfactory for me. but I don't know what happens to me, it seems that I'm still in love. I want to get out of this, I want to be advised.
He is 57 years old and I am 49
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Friend Julio Octavio, I do not know if the author will answer you immediately, but reading your comment I can only tell you that the doubt you express about knowing if the person who is at this moment in your life is the correct one or not, It is not the issue, the point is that you are not yet convinced of what you want in your life, perhaps the situation as a couple previously experienced has marked you to such an extent that today you cannot see important qualities in the woman who is today day with you and that is not questionable as the fact that whoever loves you, accompanies you, who awaits you loves you, who accepts you as you are loves you. Here we are talking about something important that is VALUE. When you can value the person next to you there is no room for doubt. Many times we have mixed feelings and we judge others because they do not think or feel like us. The important thing is that you have to learn to love that person, loving someone is not something one is born with, it is something that one learns and builds love, that is why today many couples separate because they only say that they have run out of love. love and leave, and the matter goes beyond that, love does not end, it was only that it was not fed day by day, what is not nourished dies, so forget the past, focus on your present so that you can build a future. The confusions you have are the product of insecurity, something that only you can control. When you are sure of yourself, the people who approach you will also be, if on the contrary you are insecure it is because that woman is probably also insecure about you, so I suggest they talk and reach a healthy agreement where everyone can live it. let them live without attachment and they will see that everything will flow better for both of them. Lucky. My blog reflectionscorina.blosgspot.com
Hello, how are you all? I hope that I really did not read any curl book but if I would like to read it to help me get out of a deception that left me so marked a person with whom I lived for 5 years I was deceived with another and apart he made fun of me because he turned me to call for us to come back but it was only sex what he wanted he hit me he pulled me he called me useless useless kept shoplifter and apart he threatened me that if I did not do what he said he was going to leave me and that he did For the 5 years that I was with him it has been 6 months since he left and I still suffer because I cannot forget him every night I cry I know that I am bad very bad but I could not forget him so if I wanted to read the book I would I'm really bad, even thinking about suicide and apart from it, nothing works out for me because I'm thinking about him, thank you for everything and I hope you could answer me bye
(To Galy)
I am sorry for what is happening to you; that you continue to miss someone who treated you so badly and who never appreciated you. I'm sorry you think about suicide. That certainly means that you are not loving and valuing yourself as you deserve.
That is why you attracted and chose a person who treated you like this.
Books may help you a bit, but what you really need (if you are not already doing it) is psychological therapy. You have a serious dependency problem and that requires treatment.
That is if you really want to understand yourself, live better and be less unhappy and even, perhaps one day, a happy person.
There's no other way. Suffering and feeling victimized have never solved anything.
It costs but it can be done.
Luck !!
for galy ,,,, LOVE OR DEPEND by Walter Riso
Good morning. This space for comments is interesting. My girlfriend left me because I demanded that I stop treating my ex-wife with her. I have children. And in her mind she imagines that I still share with her. The worst thing about this is that we return later. For a few days and then he separates from my months he does not answer me calls or emails and to top it off if we meet on the street we talk for a few minutes and he runs away ... anywhere. crying ... we've been in this for like 4 years and this is trying Solving this with a therapist is the third. Help I am looking for .... Please tell me your opinion and thank you very much ...
What I want is to receive your latest book on couple relationships.
Thank you for your help.
I want to congratulate and thank the author Walter riso for such good books, they are practical, professional, and successful. I like them, thank you. .
this book is the best of the best
Good afternoon, they told me a lot about waletr risso, about its poverty, so I entered this page. They told me about a work that was clear without anastiness. I would like to read it. I also like the comments, especially from a person with the pseudonym of Corima, from the month of February, well I don't know if you could give me your email, to be able to communicate and comment on some passages of my life, I think he is a sensible and very prepared person .
Atte,
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I don't need to read the book to ask you ... How the hell do you keep ruining your life and that of your children living with a man like that? ... I assure you that without him they will be better, arm yourself with courage!
WALTER ALWAYS READ YOUR ADVICE AND I FEEL GOOD TODAY I WANT YOUR SUPPORT I HAVE A RELATIONSHIP 5 YEARS AGO WITH A 61 YEAR OLD LORD I AM 35 BUT HE IS A DRY SELFISH PERSON AND ALL THE TIME IS AS HE SAYS I FEEL THAT I DO NOT SEE THAT HE CARES HE NEVER HAS ANY INTEREST IN ANYTHING HIS ONLY LOVE IS IN THE PRIVACY MORE NOTHING ALWAYS SAYS THAT HE IS GREATER FOR ME THAT FEAR. WHAT CAN I DO? THANK YOU FOR YOUR ADVICE YOUR SUPPORT THANK YOU FOR YOUR SUPPORT AND TIME FOR US.